Dating Algorithms 🙌🏻
"Boy meets girl, they both instantly like each other, like turns into love, they both live happily ever after." It's been a while since I've heard that. However cliched it might sound, somewhere, everyone longs for the same.
With changing "time", the time we spend with our partners has become something that is pre-calculated in our head. Memories have been reduced to selfies, love is now being measures in gifts. Can smartphones outdo our minds, can money buy pure love?
When we meet after days, we update our stories and neglect the one that is in the process of nurturing into something spectacular. We fight, for what? A sorry? A thank you? Why do we have such set notions?
Why can't dates have just us? Why do we need so many "props" like expensive restaurants and fancy locales? Where is the time to talk? We forget that love needs time to build, and needs care to stay that way.
Why do we equate dating with sex, only because it's convenient? Why do we take our partners for granted, only because they said "Yes"?
We owe love, the time we took to build it in the first place. #dating
is not a math problem which required fixed formulae and measured calculations, it doesn't have a fixed solution. It's a discovery and discoveries need passion and care for them to be remembered.
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