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🖤🖤🖤 TONIGHT🖤🖤🖤 ‪⚓️ @cruise_la ⚓️‬ BDSM Backroom Triple threat with @thejustinecross , @bettie_bondage and @ladyscarlettsin. 👠 👠 Can you handle Us? 💋 💋 Tip your Dommes, tip your Dommes, Tip your Dommes. 🌟 🌟 #askfirst #consent #queer #queerdominatrix #leather
🖤🖤🖤 TONIGHT🖤🖤🖤 ⚓️ @cruise_la ⚓️‬ BDSM Backroom Triple threat with @thejustinecross , @bettie_bondage and @ladyscarlettsin. 👠 👠 Can you handle Us? 💋 💋 Tip your Dommes, tip your Dommes, Tip your Dommes. 🌟 🌟 #askfirst #consent #queer #queerdominatrix #leather
🖤🖤🖤 TONIGHT🖤🖤🖤 ⚓️ @cruise_la ⚓️‬ BDSM Backroom Triple threat with @thejustinecross , @bettie_bondage and @ladyscarlettsin. 👠 👠 Can you handle Us? 💋 💋 Tip your Dommes, tip your Dommes, Tip your Dommes. 🌟 🌟 #askfirst #consent #queer #queerdominatrix #leather
Thank you to everyone who wore their We Choose buttons and stickers during our prize patrol week! Missed out on a prize?!? Don’t worry! We are doing another round next semester! Keep supporting and promoting sexual violence prevention on our campus and in our community! . . . . . . . #WeChoose #Consent #WMU #WesternMichiganUniversity #WMUWeChooee #WeChooseConsent #ConsentIsClear #SexualAssaultPrevention #LetsEndCampusSexualAssault
🖤🖤🖤 TONIGHT🖤🖤🖤 ⚓️ @cruise_la ⚓️‬ BDSM Backroom Triple threat with Myself, @bettie_bondage and @ladyscarlettsin. 👠 👠 Can you handle Us? 💋 💋 Tip your Dommes, tip your Dommes, Tip your Dommes. 🌟 🌟 #askfirst #consent #queer #queerdominatrix #leather
We love the holidays, and consent! Thanks to @theholdernessfamily for this creative update to a holiday classic. #consent #babyitscoldoutside #babyjustgooutside #holidays #womanspace #womanspaceinc #metoo #timesup #enddv #stopabuse
Still my favorite sign, located in my local bodega. #sayitagain #consent #dc #spotted #signs
Literally. Let's talk. #gayagenda #reportingforbooty #ipromiseidontbite unless we previously discussed #consent on that #kink ... Except I'm kidding cuz I'm #celibate (aka #partneredtomyself ) rn (22 months 🙏🏆😆😍) and I #absolutely #fucking #love it. #polyamorous #pansexual #celibate #holytrinity #queeraf
•Touch• I have been thinking about touch a lot recently. How do you touch? Who do you touch? Why do you touch? . There are people walking this planet that do not experience physical contact on a daily basis...perhaps go long periods of time without feeling another’s touch. . One of the most impactful things I have gained from my practice in social group acrobatics (or Acroyoga although I identify less and less with that term) is the ability to offer my touch to another human without fear and without expectation. It is a gift I can offer someone I care about, empathize with or just a moment I can let others know I see them. I am thankful for this culture and the people in my tribe that are open to receiving and also offering me their gift. . Most importantly. . . ASK BEFORE YOU TOUCH!!! @amandajolaw @acrotopp @theinfinitegoof @christinemoonbeam @acrocheerninja @sarahkatacro @acroandrea @astrochimpacro @acro_matic @acroyogafoodie @brysonblue @acro.devin @aaronlindacro @knalubalance 📷: @a4gpa #touch #humanness #consent #acro #tribe
The smallest minority on earth IS the individual. And the individual has been oppressed time and again by collectivists who rationalize theft, murder, and battery under the guise of "voting." Get your own Rand quote tee here: https://bit.ly/2B7m4kT #voluntaryism #individualism #libertarianism #ancap #markets #consent #voluntaryist #anarchism
The lyrics of this song promote abuse, so I have a feeling this little penguin is in for a rough night #nomeansno her scarf is not an invitation #consent #amberroseslutwalk
Suffice to say, our justice system is FLAWED. #consent #proconsent #yesmeansyes #nomeansno #justice #victims #survivors #privilege #strong
We're excited to announce that our project Yes in Disguise was selected for the upcoming @acmsiggraph digital arts show "The Urgency of Reality in a Hyper-Connected Age." Yes in Disguise is a series of trading cards of men who have made misogynistic statements in their OkCupid profiles.
A performance art piece by Maggie Eve Coffee. “A performance with a letter to the man that stole my body.” Images by @eleanormcleanstudio
{Image description: a tumblr posts says “teaching your children to have control over their body and not let ppl touch them if they dont want to does absolutely no harm and establishes autonomy and the importance of consent. it may piss off your aunt that gives way too many hugs but children need to understand that if they don‘t want to be touched. they never have to allow it just to make someone else happy.”} - - - Tags: #children #kids #body #consent #autonomy
The Body Keeps the Score. As you can tell by how used my copy is, it is a fantastic book, offering great insight into PTSD. If you have had an unwanted sexual experience, please do help us with our research. Only 7 more participants needed! Link is is in the bio. #unwantedsexualadvances #universitycollegelondon #metoo #research #thebodykeepsthescore #consent #women
beautifully written and expressed by @iwritefeminism one of my favorite accounts on instagram
Repost @juiceandjasmine Do you believe in magic? I sure do. I believe in abundance, manifestation, and miracles. Except in one context: SEX Yes, I believe in sex magic, I believe in magical moments with your partner and I believe in electric chemistry. But I DON'T believe that GOOD SEX happens all by itself, as if by ... MAGIC. No effort, no communication, no hassle. You and your partner should just effortlessly join together in perfect harmony. And if you don't, there must be something wrong with you. Problem is, we've been told this lie that sex happens as if by magic. That if two people love each other enough, or if you or your partner just tried a little bit harder, it would be magic. Look at the love scenes in any movie or TV series and it looks magical. There's no communication beforehand. There's no "oowww owww I have a cramp!!", there's no stopping to get lube, no fanny farts, no weird smells and no "do you like that?" And there's definitely no triggering or freeze responses. Sex should just happen all by itself as if ... by magic ... IS A LIE!!! A horrible lie that leads to so much bedroom misery and shame. No, it doesn't happen all by itself. YOU, yes, YOU, my love, need to get sex savvy. So ... where do you start? Simply put, you need to know yourself and what you like. You need to understand your CONTEXTS! * How do you like to be touched? * Where do you like to be touched? * Do you need more privacy? * Do you need a good night's sleep? * Are you a morning or evening kind of person? Know your contexts = know your body = awesome sex Great sex CAN be magic! When you know what you like, how your body feels and HOW to ask for it! If you’d like to explore what your “contexts” are and/or need a safe place to explore this more privately, connect with me via PM and let's talk. #sex #sexpositive #sexualhealth #sacredsexuality #consent #femalesexuality #malesexuality #feminist #freedom #empoweringwomen #empowered #empoweredmen #wiseman #wildwoman #empoweredwomen #confident #selflove #selfcare #pleasure #connection #healthyketo #vegan #selfawareness #relationshipcoach #lovecoach #sexcoach #interface4wellness
So much YES. Check out @ericasmith.sex.ed ‘s insta stories today to get educated. Survivors don’t need people to speak on their behalf, they need people to pass them the mic.
Brothers, we truly do this podcast for us all.  We ask some of the tough and uncomfortable questions because we don't have the answers ourselves. • So when it comes to P.E. or Premature Ejaculation, what does premature really mean? When OUR body is READY to finish, how can society, our partner whoever tell US that we finished "too early"? • Luckily for us and yall we had a great guest, @_taztalktherapy_ to break down what "too early" really means. • Also, brothers feel free to just silently nod your head if PE has ever happened to you. Don't worry we’ve all had an "off day" #ItBeTooGood • Link in bio for the full clip. • #LetsTalkBruh #Sex #BlackMenHeal
We've been reminiscing on our favorite episodes of the year. This quote is from episode 18 with @eladarling. Consent is important to have even from the partner you've been with for many years. Check it out to hear more from Ela including her expertise on VR porn, as she is industry’s grande dame. Link in bio. FULL QUOTE: You are not entitled to your partner's sexuality. You don't get to decide when they get to masturbate. They don't owe you sex. #wednesdaywisdom #consent #sexeducation #vrporn #eladarling #podcasts #slutsandscholars #masturbationnation
some facts about my to contextualise the following uploads into this diary : 🍃I’m fiercely driven and hold my self to high expectations , often this induces anxiety 🍃in due course I should be going to therapy for generalised anxiety disorder 🍃after traumatic non consensual events with boys I struggle to trust others 🍃my kind hearted nature has got be labelled as a “push over” 🍃I have a strong feeling for the responsibility of society #young #girl #anxiety #generalisedanxietydisorder #therapy #help #consent #trust #issues #trust issues #expectation #highexpectation
Added this book by author Eleanor Morrison to our library. It is great starter piece on teaching about consent....We recently have had more and more conversations with our oldest about bodies, boundaries and respecting space. These conversations should be happening early in both the home and other spaces. These conversations also make way for kids to feel control over their bodies, more comfortable with expressing their boundaries, and to educate them with being respectful of the boundaries of others. A simple lesson about body boundaries, great for all ages, and it also has more advanced prompting questions to use with older children. #consent #earlylearning
How do you keep things interesting in your sex life? Dice like these could help add some spontaneity but you don't have to spend heaps to get creative. You could make an origami chatterbox and write on some things you and your partner would like to get up to or just write them down on pieces of paper and throw them in a bowl. Remember though, consenting to play games like these doesn't mean you have to do everything that you pick out - if there's anything you're uncomfortable with, take another spin - number one rule of the games! . Image via the awesome @sexdocjill... #sexgame . . . #sexydice #spontaneity #spice #intimacydevices #humansexuality #intimacy #getcloser #sexuality #sexposition #sexpositivity #consentismandatory #consent #healthyboundaries #sexplay #sexploration #couplesthatplaytogetherstaytogether #sexwise
IMPACT: Ability coaches are en route to @springfieldmassachusetts tonight to do a training on boundary setting, safety, and healthy relationships for DDS clients! #consent #healthyrelationships #springfield #westernmass #disabilityadvocate #safety {IMAGE: Shown is the view from a passenger’s side of a car of the highway road with cars, and a sunset in the sky}
Everyone has different ways to say "yes" or "no" but #consent means nothing less than an enthusiastic YES! Information & resources available from the @fpacharity website. #christmas #relationships #StaySafe #consentiseverything
Body shame is the root cause of general insecurity, self consciousness, low self esteem, and low self worth, because as children we associate everything we learn about the world to first be caused by ourselves, whether it's good or bad. Then as we gain a deeper understanding of the world we develop social awareness, and begin to concern ourselves with the way people react to ourselves, and unfortunately all of the experiences we've already associated with us become our reasoning for the cause of people reacting to us in the way they do. So everything bad that we experienced as kids became our fault, and our only logical response at such a young age is to experience resistance to the cause of these unwanted experiences. The cause being ourselves, and this is the mental process of shame. And the body becomes tied into this whole self shaming experience because the body is the first identified part of life the mind identifies as 'The Self", and the body is the first identified part of the us the outside world is reacting to. Thus the body gets blamed for all of it. Then over time we are taught how to create the reasoning behind all of our experiences of self shame, and we associate ourselves with others that see the world the same way, or reinforce our shameful beliefs about our selves and our bodies. Tag someone! #sexeducation #sexpositive #consensual #consent #SELFLOVE #SELFCARE #relationshipgoals #relationship #dating #sexed #pleasure #sexlife #sextips #sensual #pleasurepositive #datingadvice #loveandrelationship #lovequotes #relationshiphelp #relationships #goals #attraction #love #realtalk #knowyourworth #couplegoals #boyfriend #truelove
Repost from my new page @sex_ed9.0 Body shame is the root cause of general insecurity, self consciousness, low self esteem, and low self worth, because as children we associate everything we learn about the world to first be caused by ourselves, whether it's good or bad. Then as we gain a deeper understanding of the world we develop social awareness, and begin to concern ourselves with the way people react to ourselves, and unfortunately all of the experiences we've already associated with us become our reasoning for the cause of people reacting to us in the way they do. So everything bad that we experienced as kids became our fault, and our only logical response at such a young age is to experience resistance to the cause of these unwanted experiences. The cause being ourselves, and this is the mental process of shame. And the body becomes tied into this whole self shaming experience because the body is the first identified part of life the mind identifies as 'The Self", and the body is the first identified part of the us the outside world is reacting to. Thus the body gets blamed for all of it. Then over time we are taught how to create the reasoning behind all of our experiences of self shame, and we associate ourselves with others that see the world the same way, or reinforce our shameful beliefs about our selves and our bodies. Tag someone! #sexeducation #sexpositive #consensual #consent #SELFLOVE #SELFCARE #relationshipgoals #relationship #dating #sexed #pleasure #sexlife #sextips #sensual #pleasurepositive #datingadvice #loveandrelationship #lovequotes #relationshiphelp #relationships #goals #attraction #love #realtalk #knowyourworth #couplegoals #boyfriend #truelove
I had so much fun recording this interview! And, I have to say, it's an excellent BDSM primer. It's also great for established kinksters. If you think you know what BDSM is all about, I put a new spin on things in this interview. I'm really excited for you all to hear it! ° ° @Regran_ed from @lexisylver - Are you ready to get kinky with me and @sunnymegatron ?! 😈 Tune in this Thursday as we talk about #BDSM play on my podcast! 🤪 . . . We'll be covering different #kinks , the importance of #consent , how to practice safe and responsible play, communicating and negotiating boundaries with your partner, the power dynamics between a #dominant and a #submissive , and more! 🔥 . 🎧 Listen to my @sdc_com podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with @lexisylver every Thursday at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST on @thesexy_lifestyle Network! . Missed an episode? Play catch-up on @voiceamericatalkradio , @itunes , @googleplaymusic , @spotify , @stitcherpodcasts and @tunein ! . . . #bondage #discipline #domination #dominatrix #submission #slave #sadism #masochism #kink #kinky #fetish #sex #sexy #sexuality #lexuality #getlexual #lexisylver #sexualhealth #sexeducation #sexadvice #communication #pleasure #pain #sdc #podcast
Cierra Fields is a 19-year-old Native American activist from Oklahoma working to improve healthcare for Natives as well as to bolster Native women's rights and is our feature for this week's #womenrisewednesday #cierrafields #cherokeenation #oklahoma #healthcare #ageofconsent #consent #nativeamerican #nativeamericanwomen #women #cancer #melanoma #sexualassault
#HumpDay Sex Quiz - How does sexual perfectionism impact a woman's ability to assert sexual boundaries? Answer posted tonight! #sexquiz #sexologist #sexcoach #consent #drjennsden
Jacob Anderson, now 24, will receive three years probation, be levied a $400 fine and have to attend counseling. He will not be required to register as a sex offender, according to the terms approved Monday. . . “He stole my body, virginity and power over my body," said the survivor in court. What are your thoughts on this outcome? . . . #baylor #frat #bayloruniversity #titleix #rape #assault #survivor #hope #healing #justice #trial #court #college #campus #survive #heal #safecenter #consent #respect #endrapeculture #itsonus @itsonus @endrapeoncampus
Are you ready to get kinky with me and @sunnymegatron ?! 😈 Tune in this Thursday as we talk about #BDSM play on my podcast! 🤪 . . . We'll be covering different #kinks , the importance of #consent , how to practice safe and responsible play, communicating and negotiating boundaries with your partner, the power dynamics between a #dominant and a #submissive , and more! 🔥 . 🎧 Listen to my @sdc_com podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with @lexisylver every Thursday at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST on @thesexy_lifestyle Network! . Missed an episode? Play catch-up on @voiceamericatalkradio , @itunes , @googleplaymusic , @spotify , @stitcherpodcasts and @tunein ! . . . #bondage #discipline #domination #dominatrix #submission #slave #sadism #masochism #kink #kinky #fetish #sex #sexy #sexuality #lexuality #getlexual #lexisylver #sexualhealth #sexeducation #sexadvice #communication #pleasure #pain #sdc #podcast
Lunch time lesson on consent: No does not mean keep trying. No does not mean maybe down the road. No does not mean I’ll change my mind later. No means no. If a woman says she doesn’t want to date you, hang out with you, have sex with you, etc...she means it. Women aren’t games you can play. They aren’t a puzzle you have to solve. If they say they’re not interested, they mean it. Respect boundaries. Respect women ✌🏼 . . . . . #womenillustrators #mentalhealthart #feministart #consent #strongwomenrock #inkillustration #mentalhealthrecovery
Nash asks for pets and #touch by choosing to get on his “consent to touch” blanket. He can be a nervous guy when it comes to humans touching his body, placing the blanket out is the ask, “Would you like to be touched now?” If he chooses to get on the blanket, he is saying “yes please!” and if he doesn’t, he is saying “not right now, thank you”. Respecting his no answer had resulted in a lot more yes please! . . . #consent #touchme #cutie #fluff #polkadots #rescuedog #rescuedogsofinstagram #smalldogs #smalldogsofinstagram #dogsofinstagram #doglife #positivevibes #bellyrubs #hello #dogtraining #dogtrainingadvice #dogtrainer #instadogs #bayareadogs
Just because you are married/ in a long-term relationship/ have had sex before/ got consent yesterday (delete as applicable), does not mean you can assume consent. ⠀ ⠀ You MUST get ongoing, clear, willing and coherent consent 🧡 Every. Single. Time. ⠀ ⠀ #consenteducation #consent #SCP #schoolsconsentproject #understandingconsent #getconsent #sexeducation #highschool #school #london #northwales #yorkshire #education #betterunderstanding #nomeansno
“No, you're right. I do enjoy the company of gentlemen; I always have but I can promise you this, Lucy, when I'm with a man its because I like him, not cuz I want him to like me” ✌🏼💋 . . . . . #staygolden #goldengirls #Blanche #facts #therealsextalk #respectyourself #bepicky #takeyourtime #noapologies #consent #gay #hotmessexpress
Living for #wokecharlotte • Thankyou for everyone’s whos been sending us in ideas / work / questions and just general messages of support, it’s been a slow process kick starting SELF, but the support is unbelievable!!! All we want is education and to share views through creative outlets surrounding chosen topics of Taboo • Consent itself has become a HUGE focus, and we have been deciding wether or not to change SELF to primarily revolve CONSENT while featuring other topics of Taboo • Feel free to let us know your thoughts or if you have any work / ideas you’d like to put towards @self.movement
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See you all on the call tonight! . See..and feel the wind, which flow from north to south every night. Dark. Cold and possibly snowy. No end to creep. No consent, to lead on. Ate the whole. Even the pain was gone. And the life that always saves it's name first, is also in a deep lull. But still together to the last breath. To the last hope. Hope to see it, besides. For a few more dark nights. ASHVI . . #night #of #love #lust #must #cold #numb #lull #dark #thoughts #life #consent #besides #together #last #breath #ttt #yq #yqstory #dice #story #new #listen #words #blog #quote #ashvi #iamabeautifulmess
Ep.164-Here’s my #interview with one of the contributors in my consent book, #TheConsentGuidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com), Sex Educator and Speaker @dryonialkan ... We chat about his role as a cuddle party professional, cisgender men's role in the #consent conversation, and more! Yoni Alkan is a #SexualEducator with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Masters in Conflict Resolution and Mediation, he is also a professional cuddler with Cuddlist.com and a Certified #CuddleParty Facilitator in San Francisco. Dr. Yoni Alkan is the creator of www.elementsofsexuality.com, he has been writing about sex, sexuality and relationships since 2011, and he is a global #speaker on various Human Sexuality issues. His expertise are in alternative #relationships and in improving our #dating landscape through #consent ... LISTEN ON #ITUNES , STITCHER, OR PODOMATIC (LINK IN PROFILE) #metoo #timesup
No one is ever “asking for it” if they do not consent to sexual activities. Clothes do not determine your interest in sex, and alcohol does not excuse perpetrators actions. No matter what, you are not at fault for what someone else has done to you. You matter! • • • #yesmeansyes #consent #paceuniversity #nomeansno #youmatter #notaskingforit #clothesdonotequalconsent #paasa
Working on Fi resting her head in my lap for more consent based training. First I'm reinforcing for coming all the way into my lap, then I'm reinforcing for downward resting motion. I think I need to use a slightly lower chair for the next session. . #positivehusbandry #positivereinforcement #positivedogtraining #forcefreetraining #australiancattledog #redheeler #consent #dogtraining #dogsofinstagram
New Episodes of @beardsandbaddies Are Live! Click on the link in my bio and check out our latest episodes. Episode 24: Consent is Key The crew discusses consent and how to ensure that you're reading the signs correctly. Other topics include Michelle Obama's book release and Trump's disrespect of black women journalists. Episode 25: Live from Jon's Crib We're at my crib for this episode about social media commentary and the spread of negativity that comes with it. Other topics include our Thanksgiving stories, Tekashi Six Nine's potential jail time, and Dwight Howard's secret double life. #podcast #beardsbaddies #dopevibes #blackpodcastnetwork #bloggers #blackpodcast #blackpodcastee #coolvibes #creativeconversions #beards #baddies #tekashisixnine #dwighthoward #thanksgiving #socialmedia #michelleobama #obama #music #becomingmichelle #consent #men #women #trump #aprilryan #45 #president
If anyone needs me, I'll be here planning to overthrow the patriarchy.
Look, it doesn't happen very often, but every now and again a cis-het male asks the question and genuinely wants to know and accepts the answer. And it gives me a tiny ounce of hope watching that really sink in. It still amazes me that people still need to ask... but I guess that is the power of the *denial, minimising and condoning* culture we live in. Privilege isn't just invisible to those who have it, but often completely denied altogether!
Why women don't get the top jobs - we asked this man.🙈👔
Stahhp!
Praise be.
Me last night. But I don't want more drinks... just a burger and bed.
Current life philosophy.👌
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