Another great day as the sun sets in Toronto. Where are you physically mentally spiritually? Be grounded and keep track of who you are, not who others want you to become.
Live so death has nothing to steal. Leave everything on the table. Don’t hold back your thoughts, your love, your creativity for another day. That path leads you to becoming a fraction of the person you were meant to be.
Top: F21 - currently on sale for less than $10
Shoes: J. Crew - currently on sale 40% off.
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Make a great product. - Steve Jobs
I thought this would be a good message to share since I've been heavily involved in self-development and curating a stronger mindset.
I'm sure you have heard that you attract everything around you, whether that is good or bad fortune. What I have learned is, you have to focus on positive outcomes and making necessary changes to yourself to be capable of appreciating what you are asking for.
In the past couple of months, there have been so many great changes that I can physically see about myself and every time I think about them I can't help but smile.
You might not like the circumstances surrounding you right now, but that doesn't mean you're not beautiful, valuable, or capable. Dig deep and blossom even when no one expects you to. 🌱
I love the depth and imagery of this poem, but it does make me wonder why so many of us are wildly attracted to people who are so destructive to us. Sometimes it goes completely against my grain to date someone. I do this on purpose, as a sort of conscious on-going practice to break the mental bonds of my childhood. Interestingly, it often does not work! So deep are our emotional scars that, try as we might, we somehow end up with the same "type" of person. Perhaps they are superficially different (in looks, in politics, in social status, etc ), but then we find that old, comfortable place within the relationship where we allow abuse, or we vie for power, or we feel emotionally neglected. So I forge on, each time getting closer and closer to the relationship I want. It's hard work, but it's necessary work.
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Does this sound like any woman you know?
Scary shit, right? Getting out of that comfort zone sound all nice and good until it comes time to do it.
That feeling in your stomach, flutter in your chest, holding your breath without realizing it.
It's all ok. It's ok to feel all of those things. In fact, it's normal. You're not alone in feeling that way.
Want to know something that nobody tells you - or at least nobody told me?
*EVEN GOOD CHANGE CAN BE UNCOMFORTABLE.*
Oh, we're used to that pit in the stomach when things change for the worse.
And you know, we feel that so often that we can associate that feeling with "Oh shit, this is bad. This is going to be bad. I know this feeling, and it's never good."
For years when that feeling would come, I'd remember all the associated times with it, and push push push through because I'm determined to grow no matter fucking what. 😂 And I just thought that was normal.
Push through. Makes you stronger. Means you're stronger.
And then I read/heard somewhere on some podcast or article or quote somewhere that even good change can be uncomfortable.
And it changed my outlook.
Wow. Good change and getting outside that comfort zone might have that same feeling. 🤯
So when those feelings come up now, I recognize them as guideposts. I'm about to get out of this current zone bubble I've been in. Time to expand.
What has your experience been with comfort zones? How have you dealt with it? Comment below (and I'll comment back 😄😉)
🙏 Y'all inspire me daily.
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Thanks Philly for the life advice.⠀
Whataburger, Shake Shack, In n Out, so many people think one is better than the other so I had to give this one a try. Maybe it’s because I’m from California but In n Out will be one of my forever favorites. Whataburger is really good - it reminds me a bit more of Shake Shack than InO. All in all I love burgers and I say let them all reign long 🍔🍔🍔
Do you guys ever think about how weird self perception is? •
The only times we really look at ourselves are in the mornings when we look terrible because we have been asleep all night, and in the evenings when again, we are getting ready to go to bed. It is from these two looks in the mirror we deem our whole self worth. It is so important to remember there are things beyond your physical appearance that make you beautiful. It may be the way your voice sounds when you really let yourself laugh. People may find you beautiful when you are helping out someone else or simply when you are lying on the couch cuddled in a blanket eating Chinese take out and just being your unfiltered self. We all want to be seen as beautiful and worthy of affection from people, but it is so important to remember that what your reflection is showing you, is not who you really are. •
👇🏻👇🏻Comment below how you deal with self doubt!
Ramen can never disappoint you the way people do. #lifeadvice
It's an amazing feeling when you can go along a journey with the people closest to you. That's all great and everything, but 9 times out of 10 those people do not have the same passion and drive for what you want.
Take the leap of faith and charge after what you want without having the safety net of those around you. When you start to gain knowledge and talk to them about things they are unfamiliar with, even though they have the best intentions, they may give you bad advice.
Once you start to distant yourself from your familiar crew and hang around the people you meet who have the same interests and goals as you, you will see how drastically different the answers will be. These new people will motivate you and get you excited about what you want to accomplish. New relationships will be made and higher levels will be achieved.
feeling alone in the town 🤖
ستُشرقُ الشَّمسُ هذا دأبُها أبدًا
ما أبطأت سيرَهَا أو أخلَفَت وعدًا