I think their view is that
Marriage is a contract consenting to sex which yeah duh I get
But that doesn’t mean you’re forced to say yes to sex within every second of your marital life and whenever he wants??? And no, him playing around isn’t rape.
If someone asks that question (ie what if he’s playing and she accuses him of rape?)- then again, I’m convinced you don’t know what rape is.
F o r c i n g yourself on her
When she is not s e x u a l l y a r o u s e d so it WILL cause pain. The whole situation around rape will be forced, abusive and lacking in mutual loving emotion.
And no, a “loose” vagina will not mean rape won’t hurt because firstly
Vaginas don’t stretch out forever, they literally come back to normal size so there’s actually no such thing as it being “loose” and secondly
Are you stupid.
Now that I’ve explained what rape is please tell me how that can’t exist within a marriage. Like please.
Also if you think rape can’t exist within marriage
Think about the implications of that statement and hear me out on this:
In some countries the punishment for a rapist was to marry his victim or he could avoid punishment by marrying her.
Are you going to tell me
He is now automatically not capable of raping her because they’re married.
Are you telling me rape will suddenly vanish from this scenario because they signed a piece of paper.
And if so- isn’t that a great way to decrease the levels of rape in a society? If we just get rapists to marry their victims, that’s actually great because rape will no longer be possible anymore! Right?
No. see how stupid that sounds. IF THE IMPLICATIONS ARE STUPID, THE OPINION IS STUPID.
Girls: I do not care who tells you this myth, whether it’s the best sheikh or your family-
Rape is possible within a marriage. It will most likely be in an abusive marriage and he will most likely be a prick of a man. 🥀Understand this🥀. #rape #nikkah #dawah #sheikh