I'm starting to think that some Hebrew men don't want hebrew women because the first woman that should've loved and nurtured them, rejected them. Mothers!! It is soooooooooo important to love and nurture your boys and girls. Listen, if you are bitter and absent from your sons life they will not know how to receive and experience love from their wives when they become of age. I knew this little boy as a mother figure, I wasn't his mother but I loved him like I was. The first day he met me he asked somebody, why is she smiling so much. That was not the image he was used to. He was used to an angry black woman that was verbally abusive because of stress. He had to take my love in doses cause it was foreign to him. He liked being nurtured but he was suspicious of it and it wascompletely different than what he expected from a mother. Mommy if your sons can't trust you or feel like you dont believe in them, you lay a pattern of doubt, rejection, isolation and distrust that becomes seeded throughout Israelite reltionships. You must be your sons first secure attachment. Me, I don't verbally bash my sons. I have 2 adult sons and the worst I have said is.....is there something wrong with you, or what the hell is wrong with you-and that was my amped up angry. I never called them bad names, I'll ask them questions to make them think. And afterwards I always reconcile the situation so they know I'm angry at the action but I'll always love my big babies and little ones too. Mom be intentional and nurture your sons and daughters. If you don't teach them how to receive love they'll be drawn to a bitter wicked woman like you. Remember, Abraham told Ishmael to get rid of that trifling woman.