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I think most of my life I didn’t allow myself to feel a lot of things... that’s when the time came around I would always be feeling this same unshakeable feeling... guilt. . . guilt ɡɪlt noun 1. the fact of having committed a specified or implied offence or crime. (Via le google) . . But that’s the thing there was never ‘an offence’ or ‘crime’ that I committed , it was me feeling the feelings or thinking the thoughts that guilt would arise. The constant worry of “am I good enough?”, “it’s my fault that I’m suffering”, “I’m a curse”, “I don’t deserve love” , “it’s my fault all the bad is happening in people’s life around me” “I should have said something else or more or less” “guilt that everyone’s better than me and I’m not moving in my direction” “guilt of how much the abuse made me hate my body”, “guilt that I’m not even mediocre” “guilt that I’m never going to do anything with my life” “guilt that I’ll end up giving into my depression and ending everything” “guilt of just feeling too much” “guilt of just existing” . . Guilt and its best friend , shame, can paralyze us––or catalyze us into action. Appropriate guilt can function as social glue, spurring one to make reparations for wrongs. Excessive rumination about one's failures, however, is a surefire recipe for resentment and depression. . . When we feel guilt we feel badly about something we did or neglected to do. When we feel shame we feel badly about who we are. When we feel guilty we need to learn that it is okay to make mistakes. When we feel shame we need to learn that it is okay to be who we are. . . You have to UNDERSTAND that it’s not your fault. You have to DECIDE that you want to move away from feeling this way. And you must let go of things haunting you. You must give your self space to heal and grow and not latch onto the guilt or pain. Don’t live in the past because it no longer exists. Be the best you can be, each day, and be in the moment. (I am learning this as well!) . #health #fitness #fit #TagFire #TFers #fitnessmodel #fitnessaddict #fitspo #workout #bodybuilding #cardio #gym #train #training #photooftheday #health #healthy #instahealth #healthychoices #active #strong #motivation #in
@no_luggage writes, "I recently ran across one of these inspirational quotes that I dont know what I should think of: "Don't stop when you're tired. Stop when you're done." Yeah I know it sounds super cool. But in a way it is just telling you to be part of the meritocracy (=society that is achievement-orientated). But shouldn't we teach each other to be human? That it's ok if you miscalculated your work time and you won't be able to tick off everything from your to do list today? What do you think?" 📷 @no_luggage . . . . . . #womenoftravel #womenempowerment #dametraveler #sheisnotlost #travelinspiration #travelphotography #italy #travel #sky #adventure #instatravel #instago #wanderlust #beach #summer #instapassport #instatraveling #travelgram #igtravel #picoftheday #TagFire #photooftheday #landscape #travelblogger #instalike #igers #instadaily #instafollow #bestoftheday #nature
Outdoor training 👊👊
So I did MY FIRST POLE CLASS YESTERDAY! I was SO NERVOUS AND EXCITED. BUT JUST dancing felt so nice! And it was SOOO MY style that I like doing. . . Well, I learnt some tricks on the pole yesterday ... flying chair, fireman spin arabesque or attitude. FIRST TIME I EVER DID ANYTHING ON THE POLE like hanging from one. Shaking my bum I do everywhere that’s nothing new. Lol. . . We also did a chair tease and a floor routine as well. I MAY put up the floor ones on my stories. Do y’all wanna see? . . It’s so nice because I forgot what it felt like being so confident in my skin. Being so comfortable. Feeling like a goddamn goddess. Initially I was worried about how the way my body looked... my mind was so heavy and I thought my body would be HEAVY as well. But honestly @smiliesuriofficial just made me feel so comfortable. I also released how hard and what a control freak I was being. Well learning to let go so... I CANNOT WAIT FOR MY NEXT POLE CLASS. . . SIDE NOTE: These Pole classes happen at @movementsanctuary.bandra every Tuesday Thursday at 9 pm and Saturday (chair and fooor routine as well) 7 pm @polestarindia . . #health #fitness #fit #TagFire #TFers #fitnessmodel #fitnessaddict #fitspo #workout #bodybuilding #cardio #gym #train #training #photooftheday #health #healthy #instahealth #healthychoices #active #strong #motivation #instagood #determination #lifestyle #diet #getfit #cleaneating #eatclean #exercise
#truthbombmon . . So I have this tendency that whenever my hair is down I cover the left side of my face. Consciously because I thought my face is fat so with the hair it’ll cover part of my face at least. And subconsciously because of the scars on my face. Under my left eye (you can’t see it now because of the bomb lighting!) above my left upper lip and (bonus: because y’all can’t see it ) below my left lower lip. . . I THOUGHT that scars are ugly, that to be ‘beautiful’ you need to be flawless, you need to keep trying, you need to keep applying something or doing something or smiling to showcase the beauty outwards. . . So I would keep putting ‘no mark creams’, smiling starving myself to attain that point of beauty. But I was so angry, unhappy and hating myself all on the inside. . . I think my point was I was just tired, tired of putting on so much. Because pretence is exhausting. So I stopped pretending. I started looking deeper into my consciousness and started being grateful for who I am. It’s difficult to start thinking about things you LIKE about yourself. But I started doing that looking at the mirror and calling myself beautiful and I would burst out laughing not believing what I would see and I would cry. But I would keep doing that daily. It took me 6 months to actually START believing it. . . It boils down to knowing your self worth and not apologising for who you are. YOU in your essence are beautiful. YOU in your whole essence are intelligent. YOU in your whole essence are so bloody worthy! You don’t need to ADD anything. . . Now I look at my scars differently. My scars add personality to me. My scars give me character. My scars make me unique. . . Now when someone calls me ‘chubby cheeks’ instead of me wanting to hit them on the head with a chair I smile because I realise my worth and calm down. How you look at me doesn’t define my beauty or value. I define it. I am a goddess. . . #health #fitness #fit #TagFire #TFers #fitnessmodel #fitnessaddict #fitspo #workout #bodybuilding #cardio #gym #train #training #photooftheday #health #healthy #instahealth #healthychoices #active #strong #motivation #instagood #determination #lifestyle #diet #getfi
Such a humble and down to earth person... @blessing_awodibu ...our one and only....” the boogie man”💪🏻💪🏻 whose videos are unmatchable!! stay blessed!🙏🏻🙏🏻😊😊❤️❤️ #health #fitness #fit #TagFire #TFers #fitnessmodel #fitnessaddict #fitspo #workout #bodybuilding #cardio #gym #train #training #photooftheday #health #healthy #instahealth #healthychoices #active #strong #motivation #instagood #determination #lifestyle #diet #getfit #cleaneating #eatclean #exercise
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The Sreebhumi pandal, inspired from the movie Padmavat, recreated the magnificence of the Chittorgarh Palace. The energy and the vibe of these marquees are something I can't put in words. All you see around you is pure devotion to the divine forces of Goddess Durga! I didn't know much about the festival. I went there just to see the beauty of the 'pandal'. But, standing there, with a hundred other people I felt like i was a part of this culture, this tradition! . . . #durgapuja2018 #kolkata #travelinspiration #travelphotography #lifegoals #travel #sky #adventure #instatravel #instago #wanderlust #beach #winter #instapassport #instatraveling #travelgram #igtravel #picoftheday #TagFire #photooftheday #landscape #like4like #travelblogger #instalike #igers #instadaily #instafollow #instagood #bestoftheday #nature
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Torta de Chocolate 🍫 🖤
Raviolis de salmón y queso crema
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Cuando hay calma en tu interior, la adversidad solo es parte del paisaje.💕
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