#ThatAuthenticFeeling

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It takes courage to be an adult in love. One of the ways we see just how “grown up” we are in relationships is rooted in our willingness to share our compassionate truth with our partner’s especially about the things that might actually hurt their feelings. Part of being an adult is talking about these things openly and honestly (with kindness, respect and compassion) so that both peoples needs and experience of connection are accounted for. Note to self anytime you say “but I don’t want to hurt them” then withhold your truth- you’re actually relating to your partner as though they are a child incapable of understanding you. Not only does that shut you down and curb your access to living a life that turns you on, it erodes your relationship into an adversarial parent child power struggle- one where no one’s needs are actually being met. The only thing “not wanting to hurt them” does is hurt you and them. They’re hurt because they never get to know the real you and can feel you pull away because your needs aren’t being accounted for. They’re hurt because you’re relating to them as a child and they’re not. They’re hurt because whether they consciously know it or not they can feel your righteousness and superiority that separates them from you (when you’re not telling your truth because you want to prevent hurt feelings you’re saying “I think you’re too weak to handle me, not smart enough to comprehensively understand, not emotionally developed enough to hold the complexity of being human together). You get hurt because your needs go unaddressed and when this happened building resentment, negativity and walls are inevitable. You get hurt because every time you fail to express your true needs/desires/feelings your participating in an act of self-abandon and that shit is the worst feeling of all. If we’re relating this way we have to grow up. In those moments of withholding we’re seeing our partner as incapable, incompetent and a helpless child, but what’s actually true is you’re incapable of speaking your truth (at least in that moment) and letting the child within run your relationship. That child within you NEEDS YOU. 👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
freedom soon will come, then we'll come from the shadow...
So proud to know you @leonor.paulo. I’ve known Leonor since first grade and we’ve been best friends since third, but truly best friends doesn’t begin to cover it. She speaks three languages, is brilliant, talented, and hard working. Fun, loving, and kind. Name someone else who dropped their first single and became a US citizen within a single month. (Stream Islands on Spotify!) She even volunteered to give a speech at the ceremony (to absolutely no one’s surprise). Such an example to me. Serving ~willing to bare arms for my country~ realness. ❤️🇺🇸
//remember the marvels the Lord has done//
You know those things that captivate you, ensnare the senses, peek imagination, and ignite passion. That's what landscape paintings do to me. I could have lounged here all day with M enjoying this artwork. I hope y'all can see the massive storm swooping in across the plains. It's beautiful. Wind howling, people scurrying for shelter, lightning in the distance. Glorious details. . . . If I lay here If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world? Forget what we're told Before we get too old Show me a garden that's bursting into life All that I am All that I ever was Is here in your perfect eyes, they're all I can see I don't know where Confused about how as well Just know that these things will never change for us at all If I lay here If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world? 🎵🎶 . . . #texas #artwork #painting #museum #museumlover #museumlife #myeverydaymagic #thatauthenticfeeling #ofquietmoments #ofsimplethings #seeksimplicity #liveauthentically #momentsofmine #thedarlingmovement #momentslikethese #livemoremagic #pursuepretty #pursuehappy #alliseeispretty #simpleandstill #verilymoment #lovelysquare #alittlebeautyeveryday #theartofslowliving #awakenthesoul #seekinspirecreate #seeksimplicity #peoplescreative
Reliving day 2 of our trip! Saturday 3/9 - Rome, Italy . We got up bright and early and headed to the Vatican 🇻🇦 for a private tour, with literally the best tour guide ever, Martel. Seriously one of the coolest tours, the Vatican was beautiful. To hear stories about the Sistine Chapel and learn Michelangelo’s life and work, was incredible. It took us four years to do the frescos on the ceiling and he went blind in one eye from having to lay on his back every day having paint drip in his eye. Just incredible. While at the Vatican, we saw a special precessional of some dignitaries led by the head of the Swiss guard. Our guide had said it was an honor to see the head, as that rarely happens. If you notice their silly looking uniforms, legend has it that the pope asked Michelangelo to design them, and as a joke he tried to make them as hideous as possible because he was not a fashion designer. But turned out, the pope loved it and they stuck! . After the Vatican, we had THE BEST pizza of the trip at Amalfi Ristorante Pizzeria. Seriously, so so good. . After lunch we had a driving tour of the city. We were super excited to find out that Martel was our guide for the afternoon too, after our original guide had to call in sick. He did such a great job at the Vatican that we knew the afternoon would be awesome. . We visited: ▫️Area of Circus Maximus between Aventino and Palatine Hills, where they did the ancient chariot races. Learned the history, and drank from a Nasone (a drinking fountain) at the top of the hill. ▫️An orange garden, Giardino degli Aranci, with the craziest optical illusion of the St. Peter’s Basilica and amazing views of the city. ▫️Capitol Square, Piazza del Campidoglio with the statue of Marcus Aurelius, from the movie Gladiator. ▫️Trevi Fountain where we through a coin and made wishes! ▫️Ended the tour at the top of the Spanish Steps and grabbed a glass of wine at cafe overlooking the city. . We ended the day with Dinner at Numbs Bar & Restaurant, and some Gelato from Venchi! So much fun and history packed into one day! . #travelsitaly #trevifountain #vaticancity #vatican #sisteenchapel #swissguard #amalfiristorante #italianpizza #circusmaximus
Soft smile Mustard bow Fro coming out of hiding Dainty @mejuri earrings Fresh ideas germinating —spring things. #mejuri
Moments of you make every minute waiting for them worth their loneliness. ⏳
Tulum weddings got me like 😻
It’s still pretty chilly here so we escaped the cold for the balmy greenhouses of @rawlingsconservatory for a meeting with some local @wildbird mamas! We didn’t do a whole lot of babywearing but we certainly worked up a sweat chasing toddlers! Check out my stories for more! #weekendwithwildbird
@RaspberryEmma and her mini nailing RED for the #ColorMyCloset challenge.
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Three words we love: Chic, Geometric, Contained! 🎲Browse our catalog to discover exclusively designed, made-to-order, luxurious pieces. Link under bio. 🛍 ➖ ➖ Sustainable, ethical fashion. Zero textile waste! Once you place your order, your item will be made with utmost love and care, beautifully packaged, and arrive at your doorstep within a few weeks. We ship worldwide. 🌎 ➖ ➖ Mode durable et ethique. Zéro gaspillage. Une fois que vous passez votre commande, vos vêtements seront fabriques avec le plus grand soin et amour, emballés joliment, et envoyés a votre porte dans quelques semaines. Trouvez le lien dans ma biographie. Nous expédions partout dans le monde! 🌍 ➖ ➖ #streetwearfashion #streetstylefashion #streetstyleinspo #streetwearclothing #streethype #streetstyleleluxe #streetchic #parisiennestyle #parisianstyle #parisianchic #highsnobiety #snobshots #tenue #tenuedujour #tenueoftheday #lookdujour #styledujour #blogueusemode #blogueuse #postitfortheaesthetic #whowhatwearing #trending #trendingnow #bagoftheday #designerbags #shoesoftheday #thatauthenticfeeling #tendance #lovethislook
On a scale of 1-10, how tired are you right now? 😂🙌🏻 I’m honestly too sleepy to figure out my number, but thank goodness for Saturdays and the chance to sleep in for a change. Remember when I told y’all I just had that feeling that 2019 was going to be a good year? I’m already overwhelmed and we are barely getting started. But overwhelmed in a good way, with all the good things. Starting with my BEST FRIEND GETTING MARRIED in just a week and there’s so much wonderful wedding craziness leading up to it and oh my goodness I need a nap yesterday. But you and I will all be alright, we just need to slow down our overactive brains and take each day just as it comes and try to get enough sleep if we can, and then just keep going. 😉💪🏻 We’ve got this. I believe in us, ok? So I’ll cheers this cup of coffee to you and get right back to enjoying this sleepy Saturday of mine and try to not be tired when Monday rolls around. 😴💙 happy weekend, my friends! . // 👉🏻 idea from a tweet by technicallyron
Three words we love: Chic, Geometric, Contained! 🎲Browse our catalog to discover exclusively designed, made-to-order, luxurious pieces. Link under bio. 🛍 ➖ ➖ Sustainable, ethical fashion. Zero textile waste! Once you place your order, your item will be made with utmost love and care, beautifully packaged, and arrive at your doorstep within a few weeks. We ship worldwide. 🌎 ➖ ➖ Mode durable et ethique. Zéro gaspillage. Une fois que vous passez votre commande, vos vêtements seront fabriques avec le plus grand soin et amour, emballés joliment, et envoyés a votre porte dans quelques semaines. Trouvez le lien dans ma biographie. Nous expédions partout dans le monde! 🌍 ➖ ➖ #streetwearfashion #streetstylefashion #streetstyleinspo #streetwearclothing #streethype #streetstyleleluxe #streetchic #parisiennestyle #parisianstyle #parisianchic #highsnobiety #snobshots #tenue #tenuedujour #tenueoftheday #lookdujour #styledujour #blogueusemode #blogueuse #postitfortheaesthetic #whowhatwearing #trending #trendingnow #bagoftheday #designerbags #shoesoftheday #thatauthenticfeeling #tendance #lovethislook
Theme: A Geometric Garden! 🌺 Browse our catalog to discover exclusively designed, made-to-order, luxurious pieces. Link under bio. 🛍 ➖ ➖ Sustainable, ethical fashion. Zero textile waste! Once you place your order, your item will be made with utmost love and care, beautifully packaged, and arrive at your doorstep within a few weeks. We ship worldwide. 🌎 ➖ ➖ Mode durable et ethique. Zéro gaspillage. Une fois que vous passez votre commande, vos vêtements seront fabriques avec le plus grand soin et amour, emballés joliment, et envoyés a votre porte dans quelques semaines. Trouvez le lien dans ma biographie. Nous expédions partout dans le monde! 🌍 ➖ ➖ #streetwearfashion #streetstylefashion #streetstyleinspo #streetwearclothing #streethype #streetstyleleluxe #streetchic #streetweardaily #parisiennestyle #parisianstyle #parisianchic #highsnobiety #snobshots #tenue #tenuedujour #tenueoftheday #lookdujour #styledujour #blogueusemode #blogueuse #postitfortheaesthetic #whowhatwearing #trending #trendingnow #bagoftheday #saturdayvibes #thatauthenticfeeling #tendance #lovethislook
Instagram husbands don’t get weekends off, ain’t that right @kylecoch ?
We are not the victims, not the circumstances, not handed this. 〰️ We are the creators 〰️
Rainy Sunday in bed with my new cup ☕
The entrepreneur journey can feel full of disappointments. I recently went back and re-read a journal entry from my 2017 notebook, and it totally caught me off guard. I had written down a yearly income goal that I don't remember writing. The crazy thing is... I remember feeling disappointed by what I made at the end of 2017, but I actually exceeded the number I wrote in my journal at the beginning of the year 🤷‍♀️⁣ .⁣ ***Sometimes we can get so caught up in where we're at that we forget how far we've come.***⁣ .⁣ Stop and take a moment to look back on the past year and give thanks for where you're at. I promise you, nothing is wasted or insignificant.⁣ Pic by @@delightandbe ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ ⁣ ⁣ #weareunveiled #gritandvirtue #shereadstruth #wellwateredwomen #thatauthenticfeeling #sheiscalled #hopespoken #chooselovely #sheworkshisway #faithjourney #womenlivingwell #blessedisshe #butfirstjesus #faithblog #faithblogger #gracemakers#makeitblissful #theeverygirl #teammotherly #elegantexcellence #joyfulmama #alittlebeautyeveryday #wahmlife #momsinbusiness #momtrepreneur #wifemomboss #momhustle
Saturday Night in with wine...so obvs online shopping and flight searching has begun! 🙈 . Just purchased this @bobbibrown Infra Red Palette… 🔥 A mix of matte, metallic, and sparkles! 😍 It’s exclusively available to their social media followers ❤️ . Now on to flights...anyone recommend a European destination for a long weekend? ✈️
{ adventure is just outside your window } | Spring is in the air. Windows are open. And I’m dreaming of our little Roma weekend getaway. . It’a safe to say I have a love affair with windows. I guess it’s true what they say about 4s — always staring out the window. 💁🏻‍♀️💭✨ || #romanholiday #wheninrome #roma 🇮🇹
Oh how I love this space!!! And I waited 2 long months for this sofa!! But it was worth every day. It’s exactly what I wanted!⠀ 🌿⠀ For me, waiting is always worth it when it comes to design decisions in my home. I didn’t always feel this way. It took me several big design mistakes to learn the lesson. And I learned it from my brother. ⠀ 🌿⠀ My brother is an artist, designer and all around visual genius. (Yes, kinda hard growing up with him when I can barely draw a stick figure! 😂) As I started decorating my first “adult” space, I would often rush out and buy something so I could have it now. Afterward, I would ask him why it didn’t work in the space as I had hoped. He would explain the small detail, sizing, texture or color that was slightly wrong for what I was trying to achieve. ⠀ 🌿⠀ Over time, he taught me to slow down. Order the fabric sample or get the small container of paint. Bring them home where the new furniture, paint or the new item will live. See how it looks in the day time AND the night time. Light can always be a deal breaker. Let the decision be obvious and comfortable so you can know you will be happy with it in the long run. And in the long run that is ALWAYS what you are going for. You should love it. And that’s all that truly matters. ⠀ 🌿⠀ I have found this approach works for almost everything in my life. How about you? #waitforwhatyouwant #goodthingscometothosewhowait ⠀ 🌿⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #gentlydosociety #gentlydowhatisrightforyou #gentlydo #inspiremyinstagram #thatauthenticfeeling #littlestoriesofmylife #momentsofmine #everydaymoments #lovelylittlesquares #thepursuitofjoy #lifewellcaptured #plantbased #pursuewhatislovely #potterybarn #lovemypotterybarn #lovingtheordinarymoments #bloomandgrow
My perfect Saturday includes spring cleaning, lots of sunshine, and focusing on being productive instead of busy. And treating myself to breakfast for dinner 😉 I hope you all are having a great weekend!
I'll carry you close as long as you let me, sweet girl 🌿⁣ ⁣ •⁣ ⁣ Babywearing has been, and still is, one of the most wonderful experiences of my motherhood! I love being able to comfort and hold my babe close, and @Wildbird slings have been my favorite way to carry her by far! 🖤⁣ ⁣ I love that it is a mother owned, mother employing company, and there is also such an wonderful community of mamas that have been brought together by these slings 🐦⁣ ⁣ Today we had the chance to meet up with a few of these mamas and babes that live near us and had a great time strolling around the @RawlingsConservatory (which was SO gorgeous!) 🌿 its always so nice to connect with other moms! ⁣ ⁣ •⁣ ⁣ What types of shared interests have helped you to meet other parents? 🌱
my vinyl addiction has been put on hold so i can eat vietnamese food. sometimes i regret that desicion. but then i eat vietnamese food and would gladly sacrifice my first born for it.
Raise your hand if you are swapping out those cardigans for those kimonos 🙋‍♀️ Spring is here and it was a productive morning... big shop update with lots of new goodies... including a handful of my most favorite organization solution... the accordion peg rack! 4 are up and I’m about to drop one more! Happy Saturday, #instaworld ! #accordionrack #pegrackinspo #accordionpegrack #sparkjoy #gypsystyle #thenewbohemians #mybohoabode #Bohoismyjam #bohodecor #bohemiandecor #bohotrends #bohemianstyle #beautifullyboho #bohoonthelowlow #thatauthenticfeeling #postitfortheaesthetic #seekthesimplicity #simplystyleyourspace #doingneutralright #neutraldecor
Tak to właśnie miało wyglądać. Złote spadające kropelki, mieniące się w świetle, delikatnie poruszajace się na wietrzex w dole szemrze sobie wartko strumyk. A pamietacie Avatara? Mnie się baaardzo ten film podobał. Wciąż chcę znaleźć i widzieć kolory takie jak były na tej magicznej planecie. Ale to chyba musiałbym przejść porządną transformację DNA by czegoś takiego doświadczyć tu na Matce Ziemii :) Dawno temu miałam taki realistyczny sen, gdzie chodziłam po takich małych pagórkach porośniętych różnorodnymi kolorowymi mchami, trawami, kwiatami. Płynęła tam też woda, wkładałam do niej ręce, była krystalicznie czysta a w niej też było mnóstwo kolorów i miłych dla rąk mchów i jakichś, powiedzmy wodorostów. Było świetliście i przyjemnie, i tak oszałamiająco pięknie, kolorowo! Szukałam czegoś ale przez zachyt tym wszystkim już chyba nie pamiętałam czego. No. ____________________________ #soulful_moments #instaportrait #momentsofmine #livesimply #littlestoryofmylife #mytinymoments #momentlikethese #p9 #huaweimobilepl #momentscollected #darlingmovement #dearphotographer #abmlifeiscolorful #wheretofindme #letgosomewhere #sociality #myquietbeauty #thatauthenticfeeling #thatsdarling #chasinglight #wanderluster #promienie #promieniesłońca #sunglare #lastlight #telefonem #everythingeyecatching
taking a minute. or two.
Messy bun & whoops not getting stuff done, too excited about being off! Such a beautiful day with loved ones, memories is all I need 💕
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the loveliest spring sαturdαy spent exploring nαshville ∥
With a hot cup of energy and a positive attitude, there's no telling what you can do with your day. Attitude controls how you perceive your present situation more than you think! (Or maybe as much as you think!)⁣ Regram @healthmagazine ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #optimistic #coffeetime #coffeecup #coffee #positivity #positivevibes #espresso #batorstudios #selflove #cupping #massage #massagetherapist #massagetherapists #massagetherapistlife #massagetherapy #massages #relaxing #healthiswealth #spaday #cuppingmassage #sportmassage #fitness #thepursuitofjoy #powerofshe #howyouglow #pursuepretty #thatauthenticfeeling #socolumbus #onlyincolumbus #lifeincbus
So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon seem inevitable. - Christopher Reeve —————— Everyone’s dream can come true. Believe in yourself, just start your journey, and work hard along the way.
I like my makeup like I like my men and my friends: non toxic. @pytbeauty 📸: @the_majestic_lion / edited by me
Feels like I had the place booked all to myself today... #Mews #Pakistanday #Caffeinefix
Hold the phone. Just found out it’s National Puppy Day 🐶🤗 - We’re just going to take a sec and show off our Creative Director’s adorable puppies, Cobie and Belle. How cute are they?! - Of course, when you have adorable puppies like these two, you gotta display all the photos with our hand-carved magnets! 🙌🏼
Happy #nationalpuppyday to all those doggies that we get to work with ♥️♥️ it’s no secret we love them so much, even little monsters like this one who can barely sit still for the camera 😂 @brucephalus
Enjoy the journey and if it isn't created today, it is alright. If it isn't created tomorrow, it is alright. Don't become so fixated upon your ending places that you run through life with your tongue hanging out! Because when you are feeling the lack of time, or the pressure of time, then there is no value🌿|| these words today are everything! . . . #lifestyleblogger #bloggervibes #liveunscripted #visualcrush #theeverygirl #thatsdarling #thehappynow #photosinbetween #flashesofdelight #pursuepretty #liveauthentic #darlingmovement #petitejoys #livethelittlethings  #myunicornlife #livecolorfully  #theartofslowliving  #thatauthenticfeeling #seekthesimplicity #nothingisordinary #prettylittlethings  #hyggehome #howyouhome #interiorandhome #simplystyled #myhomevibe #homegoods #livingroomdecor #enjoythejourney #lmbpresets
Blessed with the best ❤️
All cuddled up between them is where you will find me in the next five minutes 🥰 Today we had the slowest and laziest day in a long time and we soaked up every minute of it. I even had a one hour nap 🙈 Tomorrow we are taking the kids for a one day train trip. We have no idea where we are going; we will go to the train station in the morning and just hop on the first train. Don't know if I should be excited or freak out as I am always the one organizing everything by the minute. . . . #candidmotherhood #candidmotherhood #candidslumber #momentsofmine #celebrate_childhood #lovingtheordinarymoments #weekendvibes #slowliving #slowlivingforlife #thatsdarling #thatauthenticfeeling #cameramama #momsoninstagram #pursuepretty #inspiremyinstagram #documentingmotherhood #magicofmotherhood #unitedinmotherhood #unitedmomsnetwork
On Friday, Lina did not want to stay in the nursery and told me that she wanted to sleep. She was not feeling well so, I said ok, let’s go home around 10am. . Then she took me all the cafes and the playground and the shop and the playground again and home, out again, wanted to get on a bus, did not dare. Then fell asleep in the buggy around 4 pm. . She tricked me in all the steps but I really was not complaining. Once in a blue moon we bunked off and it was fun! . Also she was singing happy birthday in this cafe because they had chandeliers shaped like candles and she was blowing to the ceiling 😍 + we draw around 50 chickens 🐔 . Did you have any wild adventures recently? 😂x
Just wanted to remind you that often the only thing “wrong” with you is your own BELIEF that something is wrong with you. ⁣ ⁣ Instead of questioning yourself and your capabilities.... maybe you need to question your assumption of yourself & why you think you’re not good enough or deserving of a life you love. ⁣ ⁣ You’ll always be “too much” for some people, but hey, who cares, those aren’t your people. ⁣ ⁣ #livelifeunapologetically
Rather than asking yourself what you want to be or what you want to do for a living...start by ask yourself these questions... What do you stand for? How do you want to be remembered? What impact do I want to make? What are gifts you’ve had since you were little? I find it’s much more fun this way too 😍 Type YES if you agree👇⠀ Tag someone who you think could benefit from this 💋
1. We all need a little dark chocolate in our lives. 2. Best message ever. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I know I used to roll my eyes at a LOT of stuff my dad used to say, but I’m SO thankful he said them. Here are a few: “ life is not fair” “ life’s not all about you” “ what you see becomes what you think, what you think becomes what you say, what you say turns into how you act, how you act becomes your character” (in response to me asking to see R rated movies even when I was 17- he always said no) “ the government is not your friend” 😂 wiser words couldn’t have been said “your attitude is what gets you into trouble” “you can CHOOSE to have a good day” “your tip is not based on how good the service is, it is a reflection of your generosity” “You know I always love you” (usually after a punishment) 😂❤️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Yeah. I hit the dad jackpot. What funny or wise stuff does YOUR dad say?!
The deep breath that is a Saturday with little to no agenda. My man asked me a on BBQ and drive-in theatre date later tonight 🙌🏻 can’t wait. . . . #AdysArizonaApartment
Cuccuzzoli e ananas. Buongiorno Cortina. 🏔🍍
Friday’s are for coffees with something a little bit stronger 🥃 and pink velvet everywhere! 😘 ...is it too early for a pina colada? 🍹 🙈 Hope you have a good end to the week! 😘♥️ xx
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