There is this mirage society sells you – you are supposed to look a certain way, behave a certain way, have a set of milestones in a particular sequence and at so called appropriate times in your physical life.. You’re supposed to want the same things that this mirage is comfortable with.. You’re expected to say things that do not rock any boats, toe the line in putting everyone else before you! Any deviation to these set of rules and you know there will be a bunch of people wanting to throw you out of the game… It gives these people a right to ostracize you, make you feel like a freak or abnormal in any case and to tell you what a loser you are…
For the longest time, you believe this drivel!! You think, this is what you want for your life too… To fit in, to tick everything on that utopian checklist they keep telling you about, to be accepted into the folds and to not stand out… Your life doesn’t follow that pattern and you think there is something wrong with you, you actually start to believe in them – “yes, I must be abnormal”, you think!!! But…
If you’re lucky and blessed, there comes a time in your life which you spend only with yourself and your own thoughts! You seek answers and you finally ask yourself – is this what you truly want?? Do you even want to play this game?? This moment of epiphany and the answer you receive from the deep recesses of your heart – this is what will make you soar high..
“This is MY normal”, your heart will tell you!
This is who You are and who you are meant to be... When they call you abnormal, they do not realize that You are unique! What they see as you deviating from the paths drawn out before you; is just you chartering your own journey!! When they say you aim for lofty ideals, always remember that they lack the wisdom to see your flight towards fulfilling your own destiny while rising to your full potential!
Yes this is YOUR NORMAL.. This is what defines YOU! Claim it, Revel in it and wear it like a badge of honor!
And you know why they don’t get it? It’s because they need to be an evolved being themselves, to recognize and accept You in all your glory.