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All of us know beauty is not flawless, but it can shine through your flaws. Beauty is about being comfortable in one’s own skin, the shades of skin or the wrinkles on your eyes have nothing to do with true beauty. It’s all about enhancing what you have to let yourself shine through. For many, beauty is all about how you weigh, how much make up you wear, the nice clothes and accessories you own, pretty and silky hair and nice colored eyes, but true beauty is seen throughout the moments of life when someone gets lost with a music, when the nature looks prettier day by day and when a mother holds her child for the very first time. Every time you think of beautiful things, don’t forget to count yourself. This is the one reason it’s said “Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.”
On this path of self-improvement, I've had another enlightenment. Listening. How often are you having a conversation with someone but barely pay attention to what they are saying? In most cases, your focus is on your response. You're already formulating what you are going to say next, just waiting for that moment to jump in.
This realization was brought upon me during a venting session I recently had. I was having such a terrible day. Every little situation, every word said to me (negative or positive) was weighing on me. This all resulted in an outpouring of emotions: sadness, anger, confusion, pain, etc. You name it, I felt it. I made a phone call in the spur of the moment, not at all in concern to my feelings. But I was vulnerable and just started talking. It wasn’t an argument but it felt like it. I don't think neither one of us knew how the other felt, mainly because the focus was on how we, as individuals, felt about the topic at hand and how important it was to prove our point over the other. After I hung up, I finally acknowledged that I actually paid no attention to what the other person was saying or why. Was this realization supposed to be the next self-improvement in my journey?
We listen, or least we try to, but our judgemental mind takes our focus away. We're all oblivious to this. Instead, we wait for the first moment to dive in and start talking. We have this whole speech ready in our minds and we rush to get it all out. This is especially true when we are speaking to our family members and friends. Because we feel like we know them so well, we forget to be aware of their thoughts and feelings. I have concluded that I need to slow down and reflect on the other person. I don't necessarily need to agree or disagree with what is being said. l need to pay attention to what the person is saying, how it's making them feel, and what is it that they want from me. Sometimes, we just want to express our thoughts and feelings without a response. Other times when we do need the advice of someone to help us through. Each conversation is different, but being more mindful of others is the first step to making a change❤️