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"Now you're terrified that everyone is gonna leave, so you gotta cut them off first, and now you're hiding in your tent like a scared little woman-child--" "Hey!" "Where were you when I got home?" "... In my tent..." #commitmentphobe #tent #blanketfort #dreamcatcher #hiding
Sagittarius♐️ get such a reputation for being commitment phobic 😆.. With my 🌛in ♐️ I attract a Sag 🌞like a Venus fly trap 😀. In my opinion the Sag just needs the illusion of freedom to be your 💜. Thanks @astrowitcherymemes for the great content. You’re the Best. #commitmentphobe #relationshipmemes #relationshipproblems #relationshiphumor #sagittarius ♐️ #sagittariusproblems #sagittariuslife #sagittariusfacts #sagittariuslove #sagittariusshit #sagittariusthoughts #sunsign #astrology101 #astrologyfacts #astrologysign #astrologyfunny
So I’m actually Asocial, good to know I’m not a sociopath!!! #iliketostayhome #idontmakeplans #commitmentphobe #sorrynotsorry
You want to know why most people fail? It’s not because they don’t want it, it’s because they don’t commit, they don’t show up and they aren’t consistent. Don’t believe me? I think weight loss is the perfect example of this. You can’t show up to the gym whenever you feel like it or whenever you feel inspired and expect a killer bod...it won’t happen...trust me I’ve tried 😂😂😂 True story ☝🏽BUT I also KNOW that commitment and consistency will give you results, it may not be today, it may not be tomorrow but you will see results if you just keep at it and don’t quit. 💪🏽 Back to the weight loss analogy...in June I decided I was tired of feeling bad about my body and I asked @qna_fitness to help me out. I’m 3.5 months in of showing up consistently and my body is changing. Let’s be real friend...in what area do you need to show more commitment in? . #commitment #persistence
💁🏽‍♀️...... I really need to find a one good hairstyle and settle down #CommitmentPhobe
Throwback to coffee in Sydney. I’m trying to get into the habit of acknowledging 3 things I’m grateful for each day #selfgrowth #selfcare #secrettohappiness and all that. Today I’m grateful for the fact that I’ve finally (finally) found a *local* coffee shop in my neighbourhood. Having a place where they know your order or at least recognise your face makes the biggest difference when trying to settle into a new city. I’m one year in and I still feel so new in London. So hopefully this little moment is my first step to actually settling/making a commitment to a city (#commitmentphobe ). Other 2 things I’m grateful for: 33 pages of my thesis which means I’m basically done, and my @ukgap leggings which are ridiculously comfortable.
When they say lie down but you afraid of commitment #halfwaythere #commitmentphobe #getdownonit
Commitment comes when you are 💯 aligned with your passion!)⁉️✔
New blog! I haven't posted in a while. I've been traveling and honestly busy with life and business. This blog post is for all you ladies out there begging and chasing a man trying to get him to choose you and losing your sense of self and wasting precious time.
Living that #boulder life. Climbing and arting and train #tacos . #sharpieart #commitmentphobe #doodle
Festivities continue as I put more holes in both my ears. . . . #piercings #secondsetofholes #doublelobeandhelix #lesspermanentthanatattoo #commitmentphobe
Throwback Thursday to 5 days ago when I made this Cornish hen and roasted veggies but didn't post bc I couldn't decide which picture looked better 🙃 #queenofindecisiveness #commitmentphobe #badatdecisions #cornishhen #dinner #yummy #yum #throwbackthursday #tbt #foodporn #food #foodphotography #foodstagram
Take the opportunity when it arises to do something you want to do... and if that goal is a little harder to achieve, consider why you first wanted it. Even if it’s a leap into the unknown, work at getting the outcome that’s best “for you”! **London’s calling for me this winter** 🤪✈️ #adventureawaits #takingaleap #ifyoudonttryyouwillneverknow #bebrave #takethatchance #bigmove #novemberchanges #worklifebalance #pushforwhatyouwant #commitmentphobe #flighty #ifitmakesyouhappy #whoknowswhatthefutureholds #newdestinations #newfriends #catchupswithfriends #southernlife #londonscalling
Note to self. . . . . . . #canyousay #commitmentphobe #art #inspiration
Letters to the interweb. I feel so lost right now. I have 13 started manuscripts, none of which I can seem to finish. Symptom of a #commitmentphobe . I know I'm blessed to have so many ideas to choose from, but there are SO MANY IDEAS GO CHOOSE FROM 😬 and I have no idea which wip is the right one. Seeing people completing first drafts in a matter of weeks and I'm sat here like HOW??? // Apologies for the depressive post that doesn't quite fit the image text. Just gotta get this stuff out of my brain somehow. #Ineedahug #sadsack #gutupandgeton
He calls you. You go out with him. You guys have a lot of fun together. But that's all. You like him a lot and you defintely want something more. Question is, does he feel the same way? You can't tell. Maybe he just doesn't want to commit. Read about the 5 commitment phobe traits to watch out for on http://leximaxx.com/5-commitment-phobe-traits-to-watch-out-for/ Feel free to add more to the list. #commitment #commitmentissues #commitment ❤️ #commitmentphobe #nocommitment #commitmentalert #commitmentphobic #commitmentproblems #commitmentphobes #LexiMaxx #AcingTheDatingGame
I saw a friend earlier who I’ve known for years, he’s like my big brother 😊 He was creasing himself laughing at me for how much of a commitment phobe I am! And then I saw this... I know I know, I’m a total pain in the arse! What can I say? I am who I am 💁🏼‍♀️ #sorrynotsorry . . . . . . #troubletrouble #ladybookmad #poetry #commitmentphobe #wildfire #cantbecontrolled #dontbothertrying #reckless #knottyhaired #girls #women #strong #wildandfree
I like grilling the chicken and adding to curry at the end. Option to have it dry on salad. #commitmentphobe #cauliflowervindaloo
I said yes! After 15 months together I’ve made the ultimate commitment to my relationship #twotogetherrailcard #nevertravelalone #financialreasonsonly #commitmentphobe
Does anyone else imaginary shop online and fill up their shopping carts with home decor then log off because you don’t have a lazy $10k to spend on bedding, floor rugs and macrame wall hangings 😂 I will like I get just the fix I need without giving my credit a stroke #commitmentphobe
Puppies seeking: commitment- phobes! Do long term relationships freak you out? Try fostering! Fostering is a fabulous alternative to traditional pet adoptions—not only are you saving a life, but you get all of the perks of a pet without the long- term commitment! If you love animals but your life circumstances make owning one challenging, fostering may be perfect for you. Our foster families are an integral part of SNIPSA-- we provide all the goods while you provide a safe, loving, temporary home for an animal in need! Fostering is perfect for introducing children to the responsibilities of pet ownership, providing socialization for your animals, keeping you company in between trips, and for learning if adopting is right for you… not to mention all the warm fuzzies when your foster meets their match. Puppies, kittens, adult dogs and cats, moms with babies, animals with special needs—there is something for everyone! The more fosters we have, the more lives we can save! Help us make San Antonio a better place for its animals—fill out a foster application today! Link in bio! #foster #savealife #commitmentfree #commitmentphobe #puppiesofinstagram #singlelife #singleandreadytomingle
• Truth be told, it’s not just our tables. 🙄🤷🏻‍♀️ #GhostYouLater . . . . One of my finer sass moments, captured in acrylic, eye rolled by @vishwani1 - on display at @thegrammarroom
Never a truer words spoken. #determined #justdoit #motivation #truth
#sewphotohop challenge by @houseofpinheiro signature look. Can’t go wrong with a tee and jeans. Im in this getup at least twice a week with this same tee. 🤣🤣🤩I should have bought more at the Eminem concert 😂 Sadly I didn’t sew this but I am sewing lots of tees lately. #isew #sewing #signaturestyle #challenge #commitmentphobe #hopethislasts
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Made a commitment with season tix - looks like I’ll be busier than usual 🙄😎🌪 #pantages #theater @hollywoodpantagestheatre
Today is our second #HoneyDrippingLove #Anniversary ! What you may not know is that I used to be a #CommitmentPhobe , #ControlFreak , #Perfectionist , and #HealthNut . Now, I’m in recovery for all of those things and I’m more than two years sober! I’m so grateful to this man. Now, I can imagine forever in his arms and within his care. Now, we are exclusive SMEs and PMs about certain aspects of our marriage, so we don’t step on one another’s toes. Now, I’m okay with mistakes and mess ups. Now, I’m totally a fan of Chick-Fil-A (their frozen lemonade and fried nuggets with Polynesian sauce are my weakness 😩) #HoneyDrippingLove after #Divorce is possible and I’m so appreciate @the_dude_dujour for doing life with me. If you ever see him out, ask him whether he feels like I forced him into marriage. If you’re already familiar with his shenanigans, you’ll get a good laugh. Love you so much, babe #🍯❤️ Happy 2nd Anniversary (out of 80, okay 60...)
Today is our second #HoneyDrippingLove #Anniversary ! What you may not know is that I used to be a #CommitmentPhobe , #ControlFreak , #Perfectionist , and #HealthNut . Now, I’m in recovery for all of those things and I’m more than two years sober! I’m so grateful to this man. Now, I can imagine forever in his arms and within his care. Now, we are exclusive SMEs and PMs about certain aspects of our marriage, so we don’t step on one another’s toes. Now, I’m okay with mistakes and mess ups. Now, I’m totally a fan of Chick-Fil-A (their frozen lemonade and fried nuggets with Polynesian sauce are my weakness 😩) #HoneyDrippingLove after #Divorce is possible and I so appreciate @the_dude_dujour for doing life with me. If you ever see him out, ask him whether he feels like I forced him into marriage. If you’re already familiar with his shenanigans, you’ll get a good laugh. Love you so much, babe #🍯❤️ Happy 2nd Anniversary (out of 80, okay 60...)
If you can’t keep moving FORWARD in a relationship, whats the point, right? • I’m really happy that things are still progressing with my relationship with Joel. I like that our relationship is not boring. Not stagnant. Every workout is FUN. Every date is unique. Joel is always changing the workouts! And he always pushes me to BE better! • Every date I take it to the next level. But just little bit little. Because I AM lady!!! • I mean, I didn’t just JUMP into 20lbs weights with @joelfreemanfitness . I’m not that kind of gal! We’re taking this slow. Every date, we take a step forward in our relationship. • I continue to lift heavier weights. Progress. My core feels stronger every day. Progress. I can handle “burnout” rounds better now. Progress. I still hate Triple Bears, but not as much now. Progress. • I suppose it’s a sign of a good relationship if things are always progressing, eh? • What’s YOUR secret to a long, successful relationship? • #progressnotperfection #celebratethesmallthings #smallstepsmatter #liift4 #lifthiitrestrepeat #4daysaweek #joelfreemanfitness #fitnessisfun #adventuresindating #40sanddating #takeitslow #alwaysbealady #relationshipadvice #moveforward #homeworkouts #uniqueworkouts #justhitplay #beachbodyondemand #katesdates #commitmentphobe #datingstories #30minutedates #kateburgessfitness
Dedicated to all those commitment-phobes out there. Dedicated to all those who have time for 50 first dates with different people, but not 50 dates with one person. Dedicated to all those who are too busy with their careers for a relationship, but wouldn't mind bringing time out from their work-life for Netflix and a cuddle. Dedicated to all those deep, philosophical intellectuals who are emotionally unavailable but physically obtainable. You people are amazing! #newage #commitmentphobe #newagebullshit #modernism #instashit #instahumour #instamood #instastory #instastyle #instacool
im #obsessing over my kitchen . i cant stop thinking about it . i finally called the painter and booked him for september 17 . and suddenly i was like WOAH . this is happening . ya know how stuff doesnt actually get real until you put it on the calendar ? well if you dont know im here to tell you . if you want to get stuff done put it on your calendar . if i dont put it on my calendar i will float in a literal sea of fear and self loathing . i know that sounds dramatic but its true . and while im floating i will distract myself by taking on random unimportant projects ... like organizing my laundry room . this is what my therapist would call self sabotaging behavior . and i see it !! ok chris what are you trying to say here .. as soon as i booked the painter i received a gift : CLARITY ! and my fear and self loathing evaporated and i started making lists and doing the research and it feels good 😁 . . . #designlife #commitmentphobe #clarity #justdoit #justbookit #goodadvice #kitchendesign #kitchen #myhome #interiors #interiordesign #green
Think of past relationships where your partner pulled away from commitment and/or they did the disrespectful thing of ghosting into thin air. Ugh! 😬🤦🏻‍♀️💔 . Or... maybe you were the one who got scared, pulled away and/or ghosted. 😳 . So what's the origin of the part that got SCARED?. . Perhaps SCARED part was confused, with one foot in and one foot out, where surface-level excuses were the only way to explain why furthering the relationship was not in the cards. 😥 .  Percy Ballard, MD and I role-played a scenario where he was the client that couldn't commit. . We went very DEEP to uncover the 6-year-old part that drove the decision to run away from a relationship. (This applies equally to women who run away from commitment.) Watch the video. [LINK in BIO] . . . . #fearofcommitment #relationshipgoals #relationshipgoals ❤️ #relationshipchallenge #ghosting #lovelife #lovechallenges #commitment #commitmentphobe #commitmentissues #runawayfromlove #lovesuckssometimes #romancechallenge #ifs #internalfamilysystems #breakups #breakupssuck #vulnerabilityissexy #vulnerabilityisbeautiful #vulnerabilityissexy #vulnerabilityrocks #vulnerable
When ice cream flavor commitment phobia gets the best of you, marry chocolate peanut butter and campfire s’mores for a super tempting union🍫🥜🔥🍦// . . Also: doesn’t everyone photograph their ice cream in portrait mode?😍💁🏻‍♀️. . . . . #icecreambae #jimmysofwoodshole #chocolatepeanutbutter #smores #icecream #capecodeats #newengland #marinas #summer #commitmentphobe #alltheflavors
Confession 5• My excuse for staying out of relationships and commitments in general, has been that I’m still figuring out how to “love myself”. But isn’t loving yourself putting your needs first? “In order for me to truly love myself I need to set boundaries, take care of my mental health and put my needs first?”Nevertheless,if I have stayed out of relationships and abstained from commitment in fear of getting hurt doesn’t that make me someone who loves herself? #mentalhealth #bipolarwoman #diaryofAbipolarwoman #loveyourself #mentalhealthdiary #mentalillness #hypomania #quoteoftheday #bpdproblems #bipolar #commitmentphobe #inmyfeelings
I hate how much I care about everybody. I don’t let many people into my life to stay. Usually because they end up hurting me and leaving. I’m the type of person who always feels like I’ve done the wrong thing, or that someone is mad at me. I’ve had people walk out on me my whole life, I’m scared to attach myself to people, yet my heart automatically does it. Hiding how much I care about people is the hardest thing I’ve done, just to protect myself because little to nobody can be trusted #realtalk #emotion #trust #broken #goodheart #used #abused #commitmentphobe #2018 #people #peoplesuck #takemebackintime #follow #goldcoast #love #reality #notsorry
So y'know it's Sunday and you waste it reading rubbish on the net, and ya single reading about all the ways things can go wrong in relationships whilst simultaneously checking out dudes on pof.... This has happened to me a few times - how did I not know that this kind of behaviour is called 'ghosting'?! I must be getting old, nevermind that this behaviour is apparently narcissistic?! I can understand the last bloke being narcissistic - he fits that mold perfectly. I obviously seem to attract a certain type of fella. 😯😯😯 #ghosting #narcissism #noexplanation #cutandrun #player #egotrip #commitmentphobe #pof #singlevegan #datingdilemmas #commitmentconnection #womaniser #playboy #penthouseprick
Transformation requires a commitment to empowerment that is greater than your commitment to fear. We are all commitment-phobic when it comes to our relationship with Empowerment, yet many of us keep committing to our toxic relationship with Fear.  It somehow feels easier, and more familiar, to stay in the abuse, and to dim your light, with Fear, than to step up and claim the fact that you are worth transformation and happiness. I am stubborn as hell, and have been in a solid love affair with Fear for much of my life. Then I realized I couldn't keep doing this anymore- that I was losing valuable days of my life, staying small. The biggest steps to transformation have been my willingness to seek help, and to allow myself to face the unknown, while letting my vulnerability simply exist. Asking for help and allowing myself to be vulnerable ARE a concrete way to commit to my empowerment. I wanted to share this with all of you out there, sitting around today, wondering how the heck you got to this level of misery with life. Seek help today- whether it be reaching out to a therapist or a coach, or to a friend. This is an act of decreasing your commitment to fear, and actually increases your commitment to your own empowerment. And for anyone who wants to know, I am offering 1 free 45-minute online coaching session to every woman who contacts me through IG, between now and August 15th. A session with me could help you recommit to your empowerment again! My heart is so full seeing all the women I have been meeting with, recommitting to their own empowerment, from just one session! Why not try it out? I hope you have a wonderful day! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ #theempoweredlife ,#empowerment ,#fear ,#overcomefear ,#stopbeingcontrolledbyfear ,#letgooffear ,#courage ,#vulnerability ,#bevulnerable ,#coaching ,#lifecoach ,#lifecoaching ,#womensempowerment ,#commitment ,#commitmentphobe ,#commitmentphobic ,#askforhelp ,#free ,#tryit ,#doit ,#livelife ,#heartandsoul ,#selfcare ,#advice ,#transformation ,#growth ,#depression ,#selfworth ,#youareworthit
She calls it a one-sided relationship. I’m like... um...relationship? #commitmentphobe #pullaway #relationshipgoals #betteralone
Anybody who really knows me knows I just can’t be bothered!
Raise your hand if you can relate: I can design anyone else’s home easily and with joy - but my own? Nope. #commitmentphobe . . . Currently obsessing over this dining room I spotted on @goldalamode (it belongs to @houseofhipstersblog ) and wishing I would just bite the bullet and start making my home sh*t happen!
Biggest commitment I’ve made in a while 😂 officially a #member 😱 #commitmentphobe #commitmentissues #noissueshere #happilycommitted 💕 #girlswhobox 🥊 #girlswhoworkout #fitness #investinyourself
Most people are unaware of the serious reasons why some men are commitment phobic. This also makes them yes men, people pleasers, indecisive, closed, angry, unemotional and depressed. I have suffered with this damage and will talk about it at Relationships & Intimacy Talk Show with Anna & Faisal on 18th Sep, 6.30pm. London. LIMITED EARLY BIRD TICKETS REMAIN!!! #freedomandconnection
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