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I feel like we don't have a strong framework for consensual activities within our current society. It's very apparent by what is reflected in the macrocosm of our world currently. We've been witnessing this long before the #metoomovement even started and will be continually challenged in this day and age as the dark energy of an unbalanced society gets pushed up against by voices that can do longer keep quiet. I believe in the ability to transform. I believe in the ability to shift energy. I believe in the capacity for people to unlearn there past. I believe in survivors. I believe in personal and collective accountability. And most importantly I believe in creating a society where consent culture is the new standard. Here you'll find a really potent image by the work of Dr. Betty Martin. In any instance of touch, there are two factors: who is doing and who is it for. Those two factors combine in four ways (quadrants). Each quadrant presents it's own challenges, lessons and joys. The circle represents your agreement. Inside the circle there is a gift given and a gift received. Outside the circle (without consent) the same action is shown when the shadow side of that interaction is expressed. #consent #metoo #sexuality #sacralempowerment #bodypositive #sexposi #somaticsexeducation
Hey guys. So today is my one year anniversary. And I can honestly say this past year has been the most challenging year of my life. One year ago today I went to a party at a friends house and had a little too much to drink. I woke up in bed and was sexually assaulted by one of my best friends. After that I battled with anxiety and depression from the event along with having PTSD. I developed an addiction to self harm, stopped then relapsed in February after I became suicidal. This past year changed me but looking back, I realize how much stronger it made me. I know I’m not the same person I was a year ago and I’m 100% sure it is because of the trauma I experienced. And I want to take the time to tell all the survivors reading this that you are not alone. I know it’s challenging but it does get better. Please give yourself time to heal and forgive yourself. What happened to you is not your fault. I love you and am here for you. ❤️ love Rissy. #love #youareenough #loveyourselffirst #quotes #quotesdaily #inspiration #sexualassault #empowerment #survivor #metoo #metoomovement #quitthisshit #recovery #feminist #feminism #feministquote #trauma #female #inspirationalquote #equality #trigger #triggerwarning #assault #ptsd #mybodymychoice #consent #endrapeculture #timesup
La idea no es restringirse de comer algunas comidas , la idea es tener un balance de todo lo que comemos . 🙋 🍧☕ . . . #consent #poise #food #capuccino
@myvoiceclub & @mystrengthclub members participated in a leadership training that focused on being a peer mentor, building leadership skills, and being an active bystander for many forms of violence. Thank you to all those who attended & presented today!! You rock!! 👏🏽👏🏽🤩🤩. . . . . . . . . #MyStrengthClub #MyVoiceClub #MenCareToo #letstalkaboutconsent #RPELeadershipTraining #CONSENT #Prevention #WoodlakeTigers #LindsayCardinals #EndSexualViolence #PreventionSquad #NoMeansNo #StopViolence #StopAbuse #PrimaryPrevention #FamilyServicesofTulareCounty
Even in the time of The Cheeto love will endure. #letlovewin #portland #love #care #consent #community
Have you seen our new MYV Consent Stones? . If you love the possibility of hands-on adjustments during practice, please take a stone and put it at the top of your mat. This way our teachers will know . If you change your mind during class, no problem! Just slip it under the corner of your mat. . #MokshaYogaVictoria #ModoYogaVictoria . . . . #consent #beaccessible #asana #namasteeveryday #asana #yogalifestyle #yogalife #practicedaily #yogafun #healthylifestyle #yyjwellness #healingvibrations #positivevibes #yogaeverywhere #healthyliving #yyjyoga #yyjevents #yoga #yogi #yogalove #yogadaily #iloveyoga #namaste #yogi #yogis #thisisvic #yogaadjustments #yyjyoga
The discussion is needed. The discussion is intense. The discussion is our intersection. The discussion is our collective stories. It's important to discuss sexual assault and how it really affects us, especially Survivors of Color. Check out this lively discussion about sexual assault, Bill Cosby, and the Black community captured for @thegrapevinetv Power to the young woman in the snippet speaking her truth. She echoes the thoughts and feelings of many sexual assault survivors. This is putting #AFaceToIt 👤 👇🏾 • • • Via @afropunk THE GRAPEVINE: UNFILTERED MILLENNIAL ROUNDTABLE. Subscribe to @thegrapevinetv Creator / Executive Producer - Ashley Akunna Producer/Editor - @amandascott.tv Strategic Producer - @i_am_donovan Thanks for your words @justlatasha #woc #soc #BelieveSurvivors #sexualassaultawareness #SurvivorStories #MeToo #accountability #consent #ourstories #poc #youarenotalone #knowno #passedoutisnotconsent
@SacredSons Men's Convergence in Jacumba, CA. Men were called to step up and do our inner healing work, for the benefit of all. On Sunday 10/14/18, Urban Healers presented a workshop entitled The Urban Healers Experience. It wove in the leadership of Sacred Sons, along side dance facilitators, camera operators, psychological "clearings", a process called Inner Guidance, breath work, sacred color guard (flags), and more. It was a great time teaching our ritual dance and warrior chant these men, and ultimately shooting a music video out of it. In addition, Urban Healers gifted the UH shirt and recent CD (yes, cd's), to nearly every Sacred Son present. The brothers in the initial picture above, Jordon Jo @seoulstice._ and @jewellovejr , also performed at Urban Healers' recent Ceremonial Concert for Male Vulnerability in Oakland. Much love to the Sons, and blessings to the men involved in this most recent Urban Healers Experience. 🌈🐍🙏🏽💛👑🦂. #sacredmasculine #divinemasculine #consent #breathwork #men #menscircle #healthymasculinity #healing #blackserpent #rainbowserpent #brotherhood #spiritualgrowth #personaldevelopment
(Over 18’s only! Serious #erotica , not for faint hearted either :-) ) In the comments is my #eroticstory , BRINKMANSHIP part 1 - The art of respectful control. I need to make it clear that not only is there a line between fantasy and reality but also that respectful control means #consent , #trust and regardless of what the dynamic between lovers, #love ...there should always be basic human love. This piece does not advocate actual female submission or male dominance. It is about how beautiful the tapestry can run when minds are open and trust is high... my disclaimer. In that light, enjoy 😊 although to watch the full piece you will have to watch it on my IGTV channel... haven’t got an #igtvbutton cos i don’t have a business account, so find it if you interested :-) #femalesexuality #spokenwordartist #igwriters #femalewriters #eroticstory #jouissance #subdom #bdsmcommunity #artsy #bedtimestory #femaleperspectives #womanhood #cuntrol #videoart
Have no fear, the cheer devils are here! Just a reminder that no matter what you wear, it’s still not consent! #consent #fiusharp #simplepleasures #lgbtqa #empower #itsonus #fiulgbtqa #righttochoose #halloween #sexpressyourself #cheer #costume #halloween
Had a great time last night with @fiusharp at Sexpress Yourself! It was an absolutely beautiful event, highlighting the importance of consent no matter what you wear. Thank you everyone for coming out and supporting us! #fiusharp #fiu #fiulgbtqa #itsonus #simplepleasures #lgbtqa #halloween #halloweencostumes #sexpressyourself #consent #righttoconsent #empower #modeling
Your body is sacred. You own that body. No further explanation is needed . . #staystrong #metoo #consent #mybodymychoice #mentalhealthawareness #staystrong
Consent... it's not confusing but some people think it is so I thought I'd simplify things with a little flow chart! You can download my book for FREE at dianamclaren.com⠀ ⠀ #free #freebooks #freebook #funny #book #books #lifeasarcasticguide #lasg #consent #nomeansno #imwithher
If I didn't love it already the shocked looks would give me no choice I've got something inside of me And you make me wanna let it out #ballgag #ghostmane #ghoste #consent
Tried to keep this kinda light-hearted because I don’t want the first post in two months be about something that triggers negative emotions so I tried to make it happy ig sorry I’m rambling I’m not sure what to do with myself at this moment ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Credits will be tagged in post, if not then DM me or comment the source. Hate comments will be deleted. - #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #loveislove #transgender #transrights #women #blm #freedom #change #power #peace #bodypositivity #poc #pride #equality #consent #sexism #misogyny #prochoice #marchforourlives #guncontrol #roadtochange #gunviolence #weallneedfeminism #aesthetic #sexuality #gender #gayculture #humanrights #recovery #equality
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Ayyy look at me being confident in my self and finally posting ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Credits will be tagged in post, if not then DM me or comment the source. Hate comments will be deleted. - #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #loveislove #transgender #transrights #women #blm #freedom #change #power #peace #bodypositivity #poc #pride #equality #consent #sexism #misogyny #prochoice #marchforourlives #guncontrol #roadtochange #gunviolence #weallneedfeminism #aesthetic #sexuality #gender #gayculture #humanrights #recovery #equality
(young) #men (young) #women #sexual h u m a n s TAKE A LISTEN 🎧 http://bit.ly/wnycconsent #meetoo #consent (link in bio) @wnyc @radiolab
Geek Model, Actress, and Cosplayer Ariel Staehle will be on stage with her Geek Boyfriend to share what it’s like to date in the Geek World. See her on the “Dating For Geeks” Panel Sunday Oct., 28th @3:30pm Room 303A Los Angeles Comic Con #LACC #ComicCon #LosAngelesComicCon #Geeks #Love #Nerds #Dating #DatingForGeeks #HowToDateAGeek #Sex #Netflix #VideoGames #Movies #Kink #Fun #Spirituality #Consent #MeToo #HauntedHayRides #LosAngeles
𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘰𝘱𝘺…🎃🕸 • They’re so beautiful ahhh • :: hi there! i’m eniola, welcome to my page! :: no self promo no trolling :: leave a “🎃” if you found me on explore. you can dm me anytime :) :: have a nice day/night! ♡ :: tags ➳ #blm #nouterusnoopinion #bodilyautonomy #girlpower #stophate #equality #equalitynow #lgbtpride #privilege #tea #ohteasis #thetea #shotsfired #consent #prochoice #myuterusmyrules #proudfeminist #lgbt #representationmatters #darkskinisbeautiful
Consent isnt just sexy...its essential #consent #sex #metoo #ibelieveyou #sex #love #beagoodperson #ally #ask
Wonderful presentation on #consent and #body and #sex #positivity in #fiction by Alyssa Cole and Alisha Rai #authors . They touched on so many thoughtful aspects of this topic.
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I’m tired of seeing Shit like this all the time, I don’t even know what she did but this is unnecessary, all they had to do was put her in damn cuffs and take her to the station, what the fuck is he hitting her for? She clearly can’t do ANYTHING in the position she’s in I just - Ve __________________________________________________________________ #feminist #loveyourself #gay #lgbtq #gay #loveislove #feminism #bodypositivity #womensrights #equality #activism #consent #blacklivesmatter #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #lesbian #bisexual #gayrights #gaymarriage #prochoice #protecttranskids #latinopower #latinapower #deaf #deafpride #asl #deafcommunity #hearingaids #hearingimpaired #canthearyou
𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘰𝘱𝘺…🎃🕸 • Before anyone attacks me, I’m straight x • :: hi there! i’m eniola, welcome to my page! :: no self promo no trolling :: leave a “🎃” if you found me on explore. you can dm me anytime :) :: have a nice day/night! ♡ :: tags ➳ #blm #nouterusnoopinion #bodilyautonomy #girlpower #stophate #equality #equalitynow #lgbtpride #privilege #tea #ohteasis #thetea #shotsfired #consent #prochoice #myuterusmyrules #proudfeminist #lgbt
𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘰𝘱𝘺…🎃🕸 • Y’all please tag me if you repost xx • :: hi there! i’m eniola, welcome to my page! :: no self promo no trolling :: leave a “🎃” if you found me on explore. you can dm me anytime :) :: have a nice day/night! ♡ :: tags ➳ #blm #nouterusnoopinion #bodilyautonomy #girlpower #stophate #equality #equalitynow #lgbtpride #privilege #tea #ohteasis #thetea #shotsfired #consent #prochoice #myuterusmyrules #proudfeminist #lgbt #aesthetic #myaesthetic #aesthetictumblr #aesthetica #tumblraesthetic #tumblrgirl
Erotophilia is the measure of a person’s positive or negative responses to sexual cues. On one end of the spectrum is the erotophile, on the opposite end of the spectrum is the erotophobe. . Erotophiles tend to think about sex, have sex, and masturbate more often. They also tend to be more proactive about sexual health. They are more likely to practice safer sex, schedule gyno exams, and perform breast self exams. . Erotophiles unite! . #sex #sexuality #humansexuality #sexpositive #bodypositive #bdsm #kinky #safe #sane #sensual #consensual #consent #enthusiasticconsent #feelyourself #feeleachother #feelgood #yesissexy
Don’t stay silent. It’s time to #speakup ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, which first began in 1981 by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence as a Day of Unity to connect battered women’s advocates across the country. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Domestic violence affects millions, both women and men, of every race, religion, culture and status. It’s not just punches and black eyes -- it’s yelling, humiliation, stalking, manipulation, coercion, threats and isolation. It’s stealing a paycheck, keeping tabs online, non-stop texting, constant use the silent treatment, or calling someone stupid so often they believe it. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Since the Violence Against Women Act passed in 1994, we’ve come a long way. This landmark legislation, led by then Senator Joe Biden, combined new provisions that hold offenders accountable and provide programs and services for victims. Between 1993 and 2010, the overall rate of domestic violence dropped nearly two-thirds and state laws have reformed to address issues such as dating abuse in the workplace, stalking, employment discrimination and more. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Every October, we rededicate ourselves to breaking the cycle. Nearly three out of four Americans personally know someone who is or has been a victim of domestic violence. Now is time to take a stand. Support survivors and speak out against domestic violence. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you need assistance or want to talk to someone about domestic violence, call 1-866-331-9474 to speak with a trained peer advocate. #sexyaftersexualassault #domesticviolenceawareness #consent #woundedwarrior #mentoo #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth #nomeansno #survivornotavictim #empower #uplift #encourage #supportoneanother #empowerwomen #stigmafree #selflove #lovenothate ❤️ #nevergiveup #metoo #selfloveisthebest #feministpositivity #alllivesmatter #feminist #bystanderintervention #empowereachother #empowerothers #enddomesticviolence #gethelp ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ https://www.breakthecycle.org/blog/it’s-national-domestic-violence-awareness-month
Don’t Hide Your Sexy! Because women are expected to be perfect in — well, every possible way, we often do things to hide our imperfections. And we often do these things without even knowing that we're doing them to begin with. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But here's a crazy idea: Let's *embrace* our whole selves, as perfectly imperfect as we are, and encourage others to do the same. Here are seven things we do to hide our bodies that we don't ever have to do again. 1. Suck in our stomachs. 2. Try to distract people from our problem areas. 3. Constantly adjusting our clothes. 4. Make “skinny arms” in photos. 5. Take photos that don’t show our bodies at all. 6. Keep our limbs covered. 7. Wear a size too small. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Don't try to convince yourself you're a size 0 if you're a 2, or an 18 if you're a 20. Not only is it more uncomfortable to try to fit into too-small clothing, but owning whatever size your body fits in best is empowering AF. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So get on out here, you, and own your you-ness! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #sexyaftersexualassault #bodypositivity #consent #woundedwarrior #mentoo #thewaywedressdoesntmeanyes #nomeansno #survivornotavictim #empower #uplift #encourage #supportoneanother #empowerwomen #quote #quoteoftheday #selflove #lovenothate ❤️ #nevergiveup #metoo #selfloveisthebest #feministpositivity #allbodiesaregoodbodies #allbodiesarebeachbodies #alllivesmatter #feminist #selfcarematters #bodyposi #empowereachother #empowerothers ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ https://www.revelist.com/feminism/ways-we-hide-our-bodies/6046/wearing-a-size-too-small/7
#toys #sextoys #pleasure #dildo #dildovibrator #vibrators #penissleeves #safety #letstalksexuality #tathapi #sexuality #couples #consent #sexualhealth लैंगिक उपकरणं (Sex Toys) भाग १ - अनेकांनी वयाची पंचविशी ओलांडली तरी लैंगिक अनुभव घेतलेला नसतो. संभोग करायची तीव्र इच्छा असते, पण लग्न झाल्याशिवाय लैंगिक अनुभव घ्यायचा नाही अशी आपली संस्कृती असल्यामुळे अनेकांच्या लैंगिक इच्छांचा कोंडमारा होतो. त्यांची लैंगिक सुखाची गरज काही अंशीतरी ही उपकरणं वापरून पुरी होते. http://letstalksexuality.com/sex-toys-part-1/
So much YES to this reflection! This was from a man from our last #newparadigmparty event! So excited to host the next one at the @eastbaycommunityspace on FRIDAY NOV 30th. Tickets already available on FB so feel free to plan in advance and take advantage of the discounted price! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 #newparadigmparty #newparadigm #consent #party #culture #consentculture #collaboration #together #werise #love #honor #agreements #container #strongcontainer #highexpectations #wecandoit #yes #iloveyou #pleaseloveme #consentaslove
The last #primalscream was SCARY sexy! Mark your calendars for the next one, Saturday November 10th, 10:30 PM at @bizarrebushwick ! Theme is FEAST, come indulge in our savory, sweet, and everything in between 💋 📸: @joebottari
#Repost @kultur.d with @get_repost ・・・ It's a BIG one tonight👍🏽 Guest-hosts @gabe_grey and @itsmissbain2ujoin @kultur.d host @meera.estrada 💁🏾‍♀️ Executive Editor @carleyfortune chats about the Canadian launch of @refinery29 🎉 Plus everything from #RegentPark revitatalization with @DanielsSpectrum #TheJourney to teaching youth consent, HIV/STI prevention with @sextedshow@gia_sandhu on #StealingVows#cannabisculture & #WOC , #identity in names, #IdbisElba and so much more! Catch the show live at 8 p.m. EST: https://bit.ly/2KTmzWw or listen on Apple or Google podcasts 🎧 • • • #kulturd  #diversity  #diversitymatters  #representation #representationmatters  #popculture  #art  #entertainment  #fashion  #style  #people  #perspectives  #getkulturd  #staykulturd  #culture  #Toronto #Canada #sexed #consent #thejourneyrp
I am angry.. I am angry at my inability to say NO when it is the healthy thing for ME to do, I am angry at other’s inability to hear my NO with respect, I am angry at our society for not learning healthy communication skills. I am angry at parents who don’t respect their children’s boundaries, I’m so angry at people’s ignorance and unawareness on crossing other people’s boundaries... We are the product of our sick society, but we can choose if we want to be seen as victims or survivors! First step of self-healing starts with breathing... take a deep full breathe in, slowly exhale... repeat 🙏🏻🌈❤️ Remember: You are never alone! It’s time to start making friends with yourself... #survivor #consent #healthycommunication #love #breath ( (Заранее извиняюсь за свой корявый перевод☺️Я злюсь... я злюсь на свою неспособность сказать НЕТ, когда это самый здоровый ответ для меня, я злюсь на неспособность других людей услышать мое НЕТ с уважением ко мне, я злюсь на наше общество, которое не знает, что такое здоровое общение друг с другом, я злюсь на родителей, которые не уважают границы своих детей, я злюсь на людское невежество и отсутсвие чувствительности, когда они без спроса вторгаются в границы других людей. Мы- продукт нашего больного общества, но у нас есть выбор видеть себя как жертву или как цельную личность... Первый шаг к самоисцелению начинается с дыхания...сделай большой, глубокий вдох, затем медленный выдох, повтор... Помни: ты никогда не одинок(а)! Пришло Время начать дружить с самой(самим) собой! #любовь #согласие #здоровоеобщение #понимание #дыхание
Today is #WorldStatisticsDay , and we've got some for you – 54% of people age 18-34 are survivors of sexual assault. 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men experience sexual violence in the United States. While these numbers can be scary, SAPAC knows that we can reduce incidents of sexual violence through education on consent and bystander intervention. Help us join the fight by tagging someone who may not know these facts! // infographic: @RAINN . . . #uofmsapac #uofmemphis #consent #itsonus #metoo #bystander #believesurvivors #oneinthree #oneinsix
Remember the rule of thumb...... put it in her ass #consent
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CONSENT 1/5: Yes! . . I realize I’ve completely fallen off the wagon for inktober but I promise I’ve been doing other things. This is for a type-driven project about consent, trying to visualize how consent is more than just yes/no and that we need to consider all the subtleties in between. Words will always be complicated by tone, body language, expressions, and context and any sort of approach to teaching consent that doesn’t take that into account is seriously lacking. A yes should be constant, enthusiastic, and all-encompassing. A yes is a maze to navigate with affirmation at every step. If you don’t get that then turn back: you’re going the wrong way. Getting one yes doesn’t mean you never need to ask again #consent #consentiseverything #psugd #typography #risograph #riso
fuck that. who in their right mind would make that a law????? whatttttt?? #consent #consentcanberevoked
thank you @meera.estrada and @itsmissbain2u for having @canfar1987 and @sextedshow on @kultur.d earlier this week! 🎧 TUNE IN TONIGHT to @am640 at 8pm to hear myself, @theshirataylor and lauren chang talk about our partnership on #BodakConsent and the importance of youth-led and peer-to-peer approaches to sexual health education and HIV prevention! #onlyyesmeansyes #youthempowerment #consent #hivprevention . . . thank you @projectfourpr for your amazing support of our work! 🙏💕🙌
I met a renowned boudoir photographer in his studio, and the first thing he did when he walked in the room was rub my head because he liked my hair..... it's poorly trained boys like this that need to be disciplined, chewed up and spit out. DO NOT EVER TOUCH A MODEL OR ANYONE WITHOUT CONSENT. . . . . #consent #mood #yougotthewrongbitch #dog #pathetic #unimpressed #donttouchme #thispussygrabsback
@radiolab has an amazing series re: #consent and #sex . “In the No.”
Repost from @pinkladoo using @RepostRegramApp - Just the other day I was watching Lego ninjago with my son and there was a scene where one of the Ninjago grabs a girl and kisses her, without her permission. Then today he came home saying a boy in class kept kissing a girl and followed her around all day at school relentlessly. Correlation much? Have the chat with your kids! CONSENT MATTERS! #pinkladoo #consent #feminism #southasianwomen #sexism #patriarchy #genderequality #girlsrule @femalecollective
#Repost @themidwifeisin with @get_repost ・・・ As a midwife I often find myself saying, “what gets the baby in gets the baby out,” as I encourage people to tap into their sexuality during the end of pregnancy and birth. What happens when we make birth sexual? It becomes intimate, intense, fun, and maybe even enjoyable. It also forces any providers in the room to confront their relationship with consent during birth. Would you ever put your fingers in someone’s vagina during a sex act without checking in on how it makes them feel first? Would you insist you know better than them about what is right for their body? I don’t like talking about “orgasmic birth” because it sets people up for significant disappointment (I’ve never seen someone spontaneously orgasm during birth), but I do like to talk about birth as a deeply intimate, sexual experience (if that language works well for my patient). If I can treat it that way I end up always prioritizing the comfort and needs of my patient and their partner(s). I ALWAYS employ consent - giving myself the out of saying ‘except in emergency situations’ allows consent to be a luxury rather than a necessity. There is ALWAYS time to explain and ask for permission. #consent #consentinlabor #birth #laboranddelivery #midwifery #labor #orgasmicbirth #birthconsent #obstetricviolence #midwifelife
🎧TONIGHT! Tune in at 8 PM to @kultur.d on @am640 to hear Lauren aka Ms. G, @theshirataylor and @canfar1987 chat with @meera.estrada and @itsmissbain2u about our recent release of #BodakConsent and the importance of educating youth on #consent , #safersex practices & #HIVprevention ! 🎤#OnlyYesMeansYes #RevolutizeSexEd #SExTEdShow
#Repost @shematterstribe • • • • • Roses are red Violets are blue We’re tired of repeating this sh*t, we’re sure you are too 🌻 ____ Our Bodies, Our Choice. NO means no....end of story. #wematter #strongertogether • • • • • #consent #consentculture #agency #choice #itwasnotyourfault #victimblaming #body #mybody #mychoice #ourbodies #ourchoice #sexualassault #sexualviolence #sexualabuse #childsexualabuse #trauma #complextrauma #ptsd #cptsd #nomeansno
Consent, as told by @themidwifeisin ・・・ As a midwife I often find myself saying, “what gets the baby in gets the baby out,” as I encourage people to tap into their sexuality during the end of pregnancy and birth. What happens when we make birth sexual? It becomes intimate, intense, fun, and maybe even enjoyable. It also forces any providers in the room to confront their relationship with consent during birth. Would you ever put your fingers in someone’s vagina during a sex act without checking in on how it makes them feel first? Would you insist you know better than them about what is right for their body? I don’t like talking about “orgasmic birth” because it sets people up for significant disappointment (I’ve never seen someone spontaneously orgasm during birth), but I do like to talk about birth as a deeply intimate, sexual experience (if that language works well for my patient). If I can treat it that way I end up always prioritizing the comfort and needs of my patient and their partner(s). I ALWAYS employ consent - giving myself the out of saying ‘except in emergency situations’ allows consent to be a luxury rather than a necessity. There is ALWAYS time to explain and ask for permission. #consent #consentinlabor #birth #laboranddelivery #midwifery #labor #childbirth #motherhood #pregnancy #crunchymama #orangecounty #ocmoms #longbeach #birthwithoutfear #womenempoweringwomen #womenempowerment #womenhelpingwomen #feminist #feminism #support #empowerment #homebirth #hospital #vbac #laboranddelivery #orgasmicbirth #birthconsent #obstetricviolence #midwifelife
Spending quality time with a very special reader. Thank you @coeur_xi (2/3) "Reading is the new sexy" with Mlle Juliette | "- “Fouts, Eugenie, fouts donc, mon cher ange; ton corps est à toi, à toi seule; il n'y a que toi seule au monde qui aies le droit d'en jouir et d'en faire jouir qui bon te semble. Profite du plus heureux temps de ta vie : elles ne sont que trop courtes, ces heureuses années de nos plaisirs! Si nous sommes assez heureuses pour en avoir joui, de delicieux souvenirs nous consolent et nous amusent encore dans notre vieillesse” #Sade in #LaPhilosophieDansLeBoudoir in #frenchlitterature #novel | #readingisthenewsexy #bookworm #photography #books #bookworm #sexy #inmybath #bath #milkybath #montreal #life #human #inspiration #wayoflife #inspirationalquotes #writer #readingisthenewsexy #possession #pleasure #orgasm #freedom #now #hereandnow #ownership #teamMmeDeSaintAnge #consent #consentement #ektogamat
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