I've come to the realisation that my wardrobe is dominated by greens and pinks...KHER!!!
Kal bethay bethay socha, ke haww haye..itnay din ho gaye aur men ne koi relationship gyaan hi nahi jhaara.
Iss liye, khaas peshkash.
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE #39173892
Shuru shuru ke chandd maheenon men, if Ali would stay out late or if he came home der se because of some commitment that I didn't know about...I would get pissed off.
Jab tak Ali bahir hotay thay, men ghar men bethi tapp rahi hoti thi. "12 baj gaye abhi tak ghar nahi aye." 😡
"1 baj gya abhi tak bahir hain." 😒
Issi baat pe barri laraaiyan bhi huin. Basically, I would consider him being out as personal offense to our time together... no matter what obligation he had. He, on the other hand, would tell me to do something with my time. To go to sleep if I got too tired. Too watch a movie or something if not.
Ahista ahista, mujhey iss baat ka ehsas ho raha hai ke, quite like myself, Ali and his friends are nocturnal creatures. Raat ko offices, businesses se ghar aa ke yehi *late* time hota hai inn ke pass. Besides that, jo koi side buisness cheezain discuss karni hoti hain, wo bhi raat ko hi honi hoti hain.
Suttay bhi ikathay beth ke issi time maarnay hotay hain.
Iss liye, late nights are inevitable. .
Ab meray pait men dardain to abhi bhi hoti hain if Ali stays out late consecutively on two or more nights but I've learned to keep myself busy.
Movie dekh li.
Season dekh liya.
Assignment kar li.
Chores kar leen koi.
Ya neend ai, to so gayi.
Kyun ke ab samajh aa gayi hai thori thori..ke zaroori nahi ke har second saath guzray to hi relationship acha hai. Listening to your partner's side of the story is SO important. Understanding their obligations AND most importantly, being so at ease with yourself ke aap apnay saath bhi time spend kat saken...is vital.
So, now if Ali has to stay out late, I take that time as some welcome *ME time* and wait for him to come back...tab *WE time* bhi ho jata hai.
Dono sides khush.
Kya samjhay, meray pandas?
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