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di Indonesia, gangguan mental atau 'mental disorder' dianggap sebagai lelucon atau sesuatu yang tidak serius. orang yang punya mental disorder akan dikatakan "masuk rumah sakit jiwa aja!" "ini cuman sementara. lebay banget kamu!" mereka berpikir orang yang punya gangguan mental sebagai 'orang gila' yang telanjang dan teriak-teriak di jalanan. tapi kenyataannya, bisa saja orang-orang ini sedang duduk disebelah kamu atau mungkin saja teman baikmu mempunyai gangguan mental. gangguan mental juga tidak dapat hilang begitu saja, seperti berdoa lalu keesokan harinya menjadi 'normal'. mereka membutuhkan special care seperti counseling dan pergi ke psikiater. dan gangguan mental juga bukanlah 'tren' atau sesuatu yang 'kekinian'. ini adalah penyakit. seperti penyakit fisik juga. dan jangan bilang bahwa kamu 'depresi' karena kamu sedih seharian atau kamu 'bipolar' karena saat itu kamu mempunyai 'moodswings setiap 5 menit.' tolong riset dulu sebelum mengatakan hal-hal seperti ini. everyone with mental disorders are valid. no matter what other people say to you. ❤-🌿 // [tags: #wtsinfo #wtsthreads #domesticviolence #stopabuse #childabuse #kdrt #stopkdrt #stopsexualabuse #feministmovement #activist #activism #equality #intersectionalfeminism #womenempowerment #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolenceadvocate #womanwarrior #selfdefense #feministindonesia #mentalhealth #violenceagainstmen #kekerasan #menabuse #selfcare #mentaldisorder #mentalillness #positivity ]
By remaining silent and NOT telling others what really is happening in our homes we enable the abusers to continue with the abuse. Break the silence and expose those who seek to keep us bound in insecurities, fear and dread! #speakup #speakout #endingdomesticviolence #abusenomore #stopabuseagainstwomen #stopabuseagainstmen #stopabuseagainstchildren #saynomore #domesticviolencesurvivor #survivorsunite #sayno #domesticviolence #nomorebullies #domesticviolenceawareness #bullyingnomore #youarenotalone #ruok #suicideawareness #depressionawareness #ptsd #lovedoesnthurt #nevereverevergiveup #neverlookback #youdeservebetter
NEW BLOG POST RAW, PAIN AND HONEST INSIGHT Overcoming abusive relationships and moving forward becoming who you are meant to be 🌸 https://positivemumsnetwork.co.uk/2018/02/16/daily-battles-of-a-survivor/ #powerofpositivity #inspirationalquotes #quotes #positivethinking #reposttime # inspiration #motivation #quotesoftheday #instaquotes #sayings #words #extraincome #blog #domesticviolence #narcissist #domesticabuse
You can shop from the Shop for the Greater Goods e-brochure for products that will help Avon spread the word about #BreastCancerAwareness and help victims of #domesticviolence by donating some of the percentage of the sales of the products to programs in the USA. To shop click the link in bio and click on Brochure at the top of website. #AvonRep
Lagi sering buka channel youtubenya FeMale Radio Jakarta yang khusus siaran pagi Indy Barends sama Indra Bekti atau kadang sama Ben Kasyafani. Cuma obrolan receh-receh selama 3-5 menitan dengan topik yang beda-beda. Kebetulan mereka siaran radio ada videonya juga jadi lengkap ngakaknya hehehe. Eniwei, ada 1 video mereka lagi ngundang guest, yaitu Dr. Baby Jim, M.Psi. Psikolog yang beberapa study focus-nya tentang domestic violence, intimate partner violence, sexual violence, gitu-gitu, atau simple-nya bisa dibilang tentang KDRT. Sempet cerita beberapa hal miris terkait kelompok dampingan (klien-klien korban kekerasan untuk studi doktoralnya kemarin) di keluarganya masing-masing. Nah, pas doi bilang bahwa saat itu doi lagi resah gimana cara bantu para korban KDRT saat itu, ada kata-kata doi yang gue suka, "I cannot change the whole world, tapi saya cuma bisa merubah diri saya sendiri dari nggak peduli menjadi peduli. Itu aja." Jadi, pas itu doi cuma bisa gunain uang sidang promosi doktoral untuk doi 'puterin' dulu selama 2 bulan (demi modal para kelompok dampingan bikin usaha kue). Doi bilang bahwa saat itu pokonya doi lillahita'ala aja semoga Allah mengembalikan uang yang keluar itu dengan cara jualan mereka ini laku dan mereka-mereka mendapatkan penghasilan untuk bisa survive. Alhamdulillah, sekarang kabarnya para survivors korban KDRT bisa survive, independent, dan produktif dengan jual kue homemade itu. Langkah kecil aja men ternyata, tapi konsisten. "I cannot change the whole world, tapi saya cuma bisa merubah diri saya sendiri dari nggak peduli menjadi peduli." Masya Allah. Semoga Allah memudahkan segala bentuk jalan perubahan orang-orang menuju kebaikan. #domesticviolence #intimatepartnerviolence #survivors #femaleradio #happymorningshow #cumabisalewatyoutube
I recently watched the series big little lies where one of the main characters @nicolekidman was in an abusive relationship. It was disturbingly accurate in depicting how complicated and confusing these relationships can be. I felt like I was watching myself from a few years ago. I highly recommend watching it. These screen shots came up on my timehop from three years ago and made my stomach churn because I remember how I felt when it was all happening. He would call me hundreds of times if I left. It’s really hard to explain and I don’t think it’s possible to fully understand unless you’ve been there. I was completely in love, devoted and infatuated with someone who hurt me over and over. My chest still gets tight sometimes thinking about the times he would pick me up by my neck and slam me into the ground. It’s crazy because I would apologize. I was convinced I was the problem. My heart would break that someone could possibly be so hurt inside they would treat someone they supposedly loved like that. I felt bad... for him, while I was being manipulated and abused. Its like your brainwashed. I still have trouble explaining it. And no he wasn’t like this all the time... I fell in love with the complete opposite of this person. It just so happened they both lived in the same body. I am very thankful I had friends that believed me and stood by me though I ignored them the entire time I was with him. I am thankful to all the strangers I reached out to that shared their stories with me. They helped me gather the strength to keep moving forward even when I didn’t want to. I think it’s important to share our stories and our hurts. The opposite of victim is victor. I think in order to really be victorious we must first experience the opposite. Would we appreciate the highs as much without the lows?? I believe every pain we experience serves a purpose. Let it make you kinder, more compassionate, better able to help others in similar situations. The world needs your light now. Shine that shit onto absolutely everyone ✨ if anyone ever wants to talk please reach out- sometimes the most comforting words in the entire world are “me too” I love you all 💜 #survivor #iloveyou
I'm Paralyzed... Where is the real me? I'm lost and it kills me inside I'm Paralyzed... Where are my feelings? I no longer feel things I know I should I'm Paralyzed... -NF You might have torn me down. I might be broken for now and suffering from depression, anxiety, and currently paranoid about my surroundings. They said I might have side affects from this that I might not realize right away, but its been a month and 10 days now. I've had melt downs at work, panic attacks in public places because someone approached me with fast and/or sudden movements, and the thought of hanging out with a guy makes me sick to my stomach to the point I've actually thrown up. Out of all this though, I feel bad for you because I'm strong. I will get through this one day at a time until I find myself again. I have a voice and I'm speaking up to protect others. No one should have to suffer through this and if you have I'm here for you. please reach out to me. We can get through this together. You are not alone. I Promise. -You may share this post on here and on Facebook. #DomesticViolence #Assault #YouAreNotAlone
I wish.... For humans to be able to respect one another. For peace. For a society that protects and honors the earth. For a sustainable way of life. For the ceasing of senseless mass slaughtering of animals. For an end to government corruption. An end to corporate “donations”. I wish for a new generation of leaders. One’s with fresh ideas who are not influenced by PAC money. I wish for politicians to be comprised of scientist, mathematicians, lawyers, doctors, physicist, and other bright minds. I wish for term limits. An end to fossil fuels. An end to inequality of all kinds. An end to bullshit excuses for the lack of sensible gun laws. An end to domestic violence and sexual assault. I wish.... #iwish #sustainableliving #earth #domesticviolence #domesticabuse #endfossilfuels #keepitintheground #fossilfuels #sustainableenergy #oneplanet #oneearth #equality #equalpay #corruption #politics #endsuperpacs #overturncitizensunited #gunreformnow #gunlaws #peace #respect
#Reposting @charito305_ Tune in to Sunday's February 18, 2018 Live Stream Show from 12N-2PM ET Excitement Radio, Inc. Domestic Violence Awareness & Prevention! Join the conversation 305-749-6004 with @charito305_ Studio Guests: @mdcps_d2 Dr. Dorothy Bendross Mindingall, MDCPS Board Member & Survivor Norvell Holyfield, as we discuss the 18th Annual No More Broken Hearts Domestic Violence Workshop “Break The Silence…Break The Cycle” Event! #survivor #domesticviolence #blackhistorymonth #blackhistorymonth #nomorebrokenhearts #queen #protectivestyles #awareness #supported #prayforflorida @mdcps_d2 @mdcpsboardchairperlathantman @miaul305 @miami_dade_naacp @miamischools @dstmiamialumnae Click on the link to access the show on Sunday➡️ https://excitementradio.com/
#Reposting @charito305_ Tune in to Sunday's February 18, 2018 Live Stream Show from 12N-2PM ET Excitement Radio, Inc. Domestic Violence Awareness & Prevention! Join the conversation 305-749-6004 with @charito305_ Studio Guests: @mdcps_d2 Dr. Dorothy Bendross Mindingall, MDCPS Board Member & Survivor Norvell Holyfield, as we discuss the 18th Annual No More Broken Hearts Domestic Violence Workshop “Break The Silence…Break The Cycle” Event! #survivor #domesticviolence #blackhistorymonth #blackhistorymonth #nomorebrokenhearts #queen #protectivestyles #awareness #supported #prayforflorida @mdcps_d2 @mdcpsboardchairperlathantman @miaul305 @miami_dade_naacp @miamischools @dstmiamialumnae Click on the link to access the show on Sunday➡️ https://excitementradio.com/
Narcissists will claim you to be the abuser, while they are actively keeping you in the victim role. They will project onto you all of the conflicts within themselves, while constantly stating how you are doing this to them, how you trigger them, and how it is your fault for not getting your mind in order. It’s easy to get wrapped up in a codependent relationship with an abusive person of this nature when you are used to this personality type. You may even be drawn to this type of drama, because it feeds your need to self devalue. This relationship dynamic feeds insecurity and creates a need for those who are submissive (as a coping mechanism) to keep refueling their habitual behavior. All of this occurs, while furthering the trauma deeper into its cyclical loop. The way to break this codependency and abuse is to reframe the dynamic where the submissive takes back control over their own independence and free thought. It’s not an easy thing for someone who is used to constantly dismissing their own needs, desires, and safety for those of their narcissistic counterpart. Setting boundaries is extremely important. Knowing when to leave a situation, conversation, or remove yourself entirely from the other person’s playing field makes a significant difference. When you are inaccessible, the game can no longer proceed as the narcissist wishes. You can alter your role in your favor, not theirs. You may ask yourself how you know you are not the narcissist in this relationship: it’s a matter of empathy. Narcissists do not feel empathy towards those they abuse, which is why they can continue their efforts with minimal resistance to their chosen course of action and can maintain such campaigns indefinitely — or until they get bored, rather than introspective. Introspection and empathy are integral for healthy relationship behavior. #manipulation #emotionalabuse #victim #mindfuck #fakelove #emotionalvampires #sick #cycle #control #domesticviolence #pathologicalliar #nomore #notlove #narcissim #toxic #traumabonding #trustissues #lies #decisions #loveyourself #abusiverelationship #relationshipadvice #buildtogether #awareness #mentalhealth #codependency #VictoryCake
RANDOM PICTURE !!! SOOOOOO Today at work one of my customers walked in with a black eye, not to disclose info or anything,but our eyes met, handled my orders , handled hers and just asked her if I could just hug her , as she cried in my shoulders it reminded me of the crossroads , but also reminds me we can create the end too , for the good in you, I didn’t have to tell her anything , we didn’t have to speak nor exchange info, yet I wake up every day blessed no matter the feels the thoughts , I wake up and know what is not good for me shall walk right out the fucking door!!!!!!!! #fuckdomesticviolence #domesticviolence #survivor #nomorevictims
gor #attyachar #domesticviolence bytheby moms love is biased right now, dont trust her . My waist is half your size 😎
Domestic Violence: How to help when its not your business. Please share and tag anyone who you think may benefit from hearing this message. Thank you! #violence #relationship #domesticviolence #recovery #love #abuse #physical #emotional #savealife #friendship #rights #education #friendship #death #help
#Repost @samantha_susanx (@get_repost ) ・・・ I put this in a brighter more eye catching color than my normal poetry to catch your attention. Ironic considering my happiest poems are in gloomy colors. This isn’t one of them. This actually happened. This was a party one night where I got so drunk I couldn’t handle myself and my boyfriend was incredibly abusive both physically and mentally. Everybody just watched a sad drunk girl at the hands of her abusive boyfriend. Some probably thought “she drank too much- I’d be pissed if that was my girlfriend too.” Sadly, the case was quite the opposite. The magical discovery of my alcoholism led me to believe I could temporarily escape the reality and existence of my asshole ex boyfriend. Sure I was far too drunk, but I did it on purpose to escape mentally from what pain I knew would come either way. It was mostly words- I got out when the red flags of physical stuff started. But please- before you judge anyone’s behavior... remember there’s a vast universe between their ears you and no other human are apart of. And ask yourself what the fuck kind of demon resides in there to cause them to behave in a way you find so unacceptable you find the room to judge it. Be aware, be kind, and think first. . . . . #abuse #abusiverelationship #domesticviolence #poetry #poetrycommunity #poetsofinstagram #poetslife #pain #suffering #alcoholism #recovery #endthestigma #bymepoetry #bymepoetryamerica #onthespotpoetry #heartsofpoets #heartsofpoetsbloom #wordswithkings #wordswithqueens #poetryhive #engravedinink
Focus on the good!
At V Day Santa Monica. About to hear Jane Fonda and many other luminaries. The list is here for you to peruse. It’s a benefit for ending domestic violence, rape, and sexual abuse. I’m on board for that with my movement called Lightning Women. If you want to join our secret group for survivors of abuse, message me. Thank you to my friend, Deborah Kagan for producing this amazing event!!! #timesup #vday2018 #eveensler #vaginamonologues #metoo #domesticviolence
We listen to stories that turn into testimonies! Yes we cried but after letting go there was so much laughter. Thank you to everyone who to celebrate with us. Happy 1st Year Anniversary IANMP 💜💛#issacelebration #sexualabuse #domesticviolence #rape #awereness #iamnotmypast #testimony #advocate
1 in 3 women have been victims of SOME form of physical violence. 1 in 7 have been severely beaten by their partner. Sadly, women between the ages of 18 - 24 are affected the most by an intimate partner. Though this is a REENACTMENT, the reality is REAL. Lets protect our women!!!!!. . #artist #love #hate #peace #domesticviolence #abuse #visuals #instagood #actor #hollywood #creative @nathanielrnb @shan_teresa @nimihendrix @shinethru__ @theshaderoom @oprah @beyonce @bet
Some people love. Others love harder. Others love something they believe to be true yet is slowly taken away. Left with a shadow of a human that you can see only in the light. But it's followed by darkness. And you wait for that light to reappear. Because you love. But with that light you do get dark. Loving one gets you both. Confused? So is that victim. Don't doubt the words because you don't understand how they can speak them. Instead ask yourself how many times you have forgiven the ones you loved. And how maybe some people can forgive more then what's deserved. Because we are all so perfect. #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolence #abuse #itsreal #soarethestories #truthhasavoice #liesalsohaveavoice #dontforgetthat #thereieacycle #itstwoworlds #theygettheniceguytoo #itsnotblackamdwhite #imonarant #poems #poem #poetry #poeticjustice #words #poetrycommunity #writers #writercommunity #writinginthedark
@gurlmusic Is releasing one of the most powerful pieces she has ever written tomorrow! With these dances my goal is to express my frustration with #DomesticViolence , #SexualAssault & #HumanTrafficking . Horrible acts happen on a daily basis, and I wanted to express this in my pieces. I touch and grab the parts of My Body in order to emphasize that this is MY BODY and I get to choose how it's treated. Watch @gurlmusic story on insta and see how other women express #MyBody Her song releases on # iTunes #Spotify # Pandora #GooglePlay #Soundcloud !!
Medication and long distance running do not mix well especially when it’s snowing 🌨😭 However, you can’t stop no matter what obstacles may be in your way. I kept reminding myself as I was running, “I am on fire, I am strong, I can keep going” so I continue to do what others won’t. I am running and raising money to fight for Domestic Violence Survivors! Help me by donating as little as $26.20 at: Bit.ly/JeremyColon . . . #TeamCasaMyrna #TogetherForward #JHBoston #Boston #BeBoston #Preparation #BuildingUp #DomesticViolence #BostonMarathon2018 #Hardwork #Snowing #Goodbase #runnersofinstagram #determination #Consistency #LongRun #Saturday #marathontraining #CrowdRise #intense #runningcommuninty #RunFast #Progress #marathon #Goals #motivation #Change #KeepForward #DreamChaser
Sometimes I forget how I almost lost my life. How my ex gave me a traumatic brain injury. Thankfully I made it out alive. I’m not quite sure why I forget he almost broke my neck but everything he said still replays in my mind like a broken record. Thank you to my friend at work for giving me this book. #abused #abusive #abusesurvivor #abusiverelationship #abuse #abusedwomen #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #domesticabusesurvivor #domesticabuseawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #dvawareness #domesticviolenceawareness #dvsurvivor
Love is giving.
My seven. People judge. People criticize. People assume. These are my children. They are me. I've been through hell and back and currently traveling through hell right now for them. I no longer care about what anyone else feels about me having so many and it's between me and God if I'm going to have any more. I'm not going to try to force a relationship/marriage that obviously was not good, just to please society standards that a woman with children should be married. I've had enough. Losing my kids due to #domesticviolence was the worse thing that could have happened. And it was because I defended myself. So many things have happened. But I'm ready to rebuild my life with God and my children. I'm ready for this divorce and to be free and out of the system. I never knew I was this strong. I'm gangsta as shit..my love for them is my motivation. My mother is my motivation. She left me and my siblings. She didn't even try... But I'd be DAMN if history repeats itself...#blackkids #blackfamily #blacklove #melaninpoppin #melanin #faith #trust #God #love
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