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Joy. I have a hard time holding onto my joy. It’s been a challenging few years for me. It’s easy for me to hide that on Instagram by posting smiles and fashion photos. I think it’s important to recognize though. One of my 2019 goals is to find (and hold onto) more joy. Small sources of joy or big sources of joy. I find myself relating heavily to @andrewgibby ‘s quote “my joy likes to run from my body quick as it can”. In times of joy, it’s easy for me to quickly flip the switch to anxiety (which promptly eats that joy reallll fast). So here’s to sparking more joy in myself and others, and more importantly, allowing myself to hold onto that feeling. 💖 . . . #queerlydapper #queer #nashvillemodel #genderqueer #instaqueer #gendernonconforming #brooklynstyle #queersofinstagram #joy #enby #nashvillestyle #androgynous #dapperaf #qwear #tomboymodel #queerfashion #lgbtq #nonbinarymodel #instagay #dapperq #nashvillemenswear #nashvillefashion #nonbinary #theythem #mensfashion #floraltie #smile #madetomeasure #suitup #queeraf
This week I'll hit 6 months on T. The left picture is Day #1 . It's hard to name many of the changes, but slowly it's getting even harder to recognize myself in that first picture. I can't believe how smooth my face was! . . . . . . . . #dysphoria #hairupdate #ftm #ftx #ftnb #nb #enby #nonbinary #facialhair #hairgrowth #testosterone #hrt #VitaminT #hormones #lgbt #shotday #transmasc #transteacher #lgbtq #transpride #transselfie #topsurgery
Omg I remembered when I listened to "I kissed a girl" by Katy Perry for the first time. And I was like "I feel like I relate to this , but I'm straight.. how is this possible?" . . . . . . #pansexual #homosexual #polyamory #gay #lgbtqsafezone #poly #🌈 #🏳️‍🌈 #lgbt #lesbian #trans #transgender #ace #lgbtqsafespace #aro #genderfluid #agender #nonbinary #enby #nb #demi #bisexual #bi #panromantic #biromantic #homo #lgbtq #lgbtq 🌈 #lgbtqia #fullhomo
I completed Mandarin Beginners 1 today. I first started trying to learn Mandarin when one of my kids chose to study it years ago when they were home educated. I am going to start Mandarin Beginners 2 at some point, but I also want to refresh my Scottish and Irish Gaelic (thanks Nana 🖤🙏😘 miss you) 🖤 🖤 🖤 #queer #enby #theythem #spoonie #anfem #antifa #cptsd #vegan #ptsd #mentalillness #chronicpain #fibromyalgia #eds #relationshipanarachist #glutenfree #autoimmune #loomknitter #anarchist #crafter #chronicpainwarrior #cleaneating #survivor #glaswegian #mandarin #learningmandarin #learninglanguages #gaelic
Tips on tying the knot in a tropical conservatory/bird sanctuary: the parrots will laugh whenever your crowd laughs which will make your crowd laugh which will make the parrots laugh even louder. Unique venues make for some unique memories! . . . Taking bookings for 2019-2020! . . . #vancouverweddingphotographer #vancouverwedding #vancouverwed #wedding #weddingphotography #canon #weddingphotographer #lgbt #photography #photooftheday #photographer #canoncanada #bcwedding #5dmarkiv #queer #nonbinary #enby #lgbtq #vancouverphotographer #yvrphotographer
This non binary bean has bloomed! I’m so happy I’ve discovered myself and am finally starting to feel comfy in my own skin despite dysphoria. I never understood why I could never truly be happy with my old selfies and why there was such a disconnect looking in the mirror. I know my family only wanted what was best for me but I always felt trapped inside of femininity. I felt forced to wear a mask to be ‘pretty’ to others instead of actually feeling beautiful and handsome inside my own skin. Do not ever let someone convince you to be less than your authentic self. #nonbinary #enby #transnonbinary #transformation #trans #theythemtheirs #bpd #ptsd #adhd #ulcerativecolitis #chronicillness
Vernissage de l'exposition "Silence", visible dans les caves du Pot Au Lait jusqu'à dimanche. Photographe : @mariebgn_ Photographe de la photographe : @floche35 . . . . . #trans #transboy #transguy #transman #ftm #ftmtransgender #ftmtrans #transgender #nonbinary #nb #enby #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqi #lgbtqia #gay #gayboy #gayman #pansexual #genderqueer #queer #fashion #manfashion #alternative #stretchedear #stretchedears #photography
2 Days Left to secure your Trans Creator themed M:T Box. We are doing it bigger than ever on the interactive material and bringing you a real treat. Link in bio!
So this just happened. [Experimenting w/ eyeliner and it really felt good!] #nonbinary #enby #transmasculine #genderqueer #queer #gendernonbinary #androgynous #nonbinarypride #lgbtq #freedom
There is a vital difference and an expansive space between intersectionality and the world we’re trying to build. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It is not enough to simply acknowledge that we are informed by multiple connected systems of stratified power. Too many people come to an understanding of the systems of oppression, and then try to better operate within them. We recognize an imbalance of power, and then try to equalize by getting on the “higher level.” This is the American forefathers building their own country, this is white feminism and trans-exclusionary feminism. This is cis white gay men who think the work stops at marriage equality. This is queer parties that preach intersectionality, then continue to center the white, the cis, the able-bodied, and the traditional concept of what is attractive. Who want to capitalize on queer and trans beauty without ever creating a space FOR queer and trans people. There is a wide expanse between simply acknowledging the systems of power, and doing the work needed to create spaces that prioritize dismantling those systems. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We are not working towards justice if we are seeking to alleviate personal pain by adhering to these systems. We are not working towards justice if we are looking to capitalize on others’ experiences. We are not working towards justice if we think it’s only important to fight the systems that harm us. If we are not taking a sledgehammer to the entire nexus of domination-worship, then what are we doing? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What are you doing today to make space for people with lived experience that you do not understand?
The biggest thing you can do as an ally is google your questions! There are a wealth of resources online and activists often don’t have the time or emotional energy to respond to hundreds of questions a day. Stay tuned for story highlights with activists to follow ✌🏻✌🏽✌🏿 #intersectionality #upyourally #transally #allyshipisaverb #blackwomen #latinowomen #nonbinary #enby #transgender #lgbt #lgbtqia #activism #lookitup #googleit #tonepolicing #whiteprivilege
Guard yer loins #enby
I feel like I never share pictures of myself anymore, so here's one taken about 30 seconds ago. The last few days have been sort of a rough ride for me mentally and today I've been hiding under my blanket. I've been feeling like my productivity has been waning, my sleep schedule is all over that place and all my routines have gone AWOL. It's not always easy to have a good day and for anyone else out there struggling to get up out of bed some days, that's ok. Be kind to yourself and remind yourself that this will not always be the case. Some days are a recharge. Personally, I know I need to go back into what I have and haven't been doing the last few weeks that has made it so my inner batteries feel so drained. Maybe I need to incorporate better self care practices or set better boundaries. All I know, my lovelies, is that we can do this...from the comfort and warmth of our blankets to our ultra-productive days, we are doing it and I am proud of you for trying! Loving energy and positive vibes to all! 💗&🤗 . . . . #selfcare #selflove #selfcarequeer #depression #anxiety #selfcarelooksdifferentforeveryone #putyourselffirst #bekindtoyourself #staypositive #lesbiansofinstagram #queersofinstagram #lesbian #gay #bisexual #transgender #queer #pansexual #polysexual #polyamorous #GenderQueer #gendernonconforming #nonbinary #enby #asexual #aromantic #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtfriendly #lgbtpride
Eighteenth selfie of the year. “Whoever said money can’t solve your problems must not have had enough money to solve them” . . . . . #gayspain #enby #gayspanishboy #2k19 #gay #blazer #proper #7rings #cute #hot
Tyler and Casey ❤️🌈 #what_sexual I’ve seen my weird internet children give the T&C ship a lot of different names, so I still don’t know what it is 😂 on another note, I’m happy to see so many people love them as much as I do. Your comments make me laugh and smile and feel for you when you can relate to them just like I can. I’m happy that my comic I suddenly started one day on a whim of feelings and passion can bring us all together because in the past I didn’t even know THIS many people could relate to each other like this. I have so much more faith in people than I used to, you all have taught me a lot just as you say my story might have impacted you in any way ❤️ . . . . #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #lovestory #romancecomic #queerromance #lgbtqromance #lgbtromance #bl #trans #transgender #transmasculine #enby #nonbinary #pansexual #bisexual #webtoon #webcomic #comic #comicpanel #digitalpainting #ocs
A cute little doodle of a kid from my backlog. I don't know who they are, but I love them!! . . . . . . #cute #artistsoninstagram #artistsofinstagram #art #copicmarkers #doodle #sketch #androgynous #enby #sketchbook #chibi #tiny #blob #brushpen #green #quack #hecc
Shout-out to @710k_maaaaac for sharing her selection of @hi.klas shatter from @territorydispensary the other day! Nothing is better then having medicinal friends!
Denim on Denim.
Come cut a rug with me tonight at OutDancing For A Cause at @centuryballroom , 8:30pm. 🖤💃🏽🖤 Performances by @rubymimosa , @vincent_milay , and yours truly begin at 10pm. Portions of the proceeds benefit @playyourpartseattle and King County Sexual Assault Resources Center. See you there! Costume by @original_by_paris . . . . . . . #seabq #seattletodo #burlesque #dancer #costumedesign #fabricfordays #femme #genderqueer #queerart #nonbinary #trans #enby #seattlenightlife
you know the devil plays for keeps . will i ever take a decent selfie where i don't look like a complete fool? probably not 🤷‍♂️ #withconfidence #keeper #selfie #lgbt #lgbtqia #queer #gay #nonbinary #enby #queeryouth #gayyouth #instagay #instaqueer #androgyn #shorthair #septum #piercings #bathroom #picoftheday #tiredboi #brownie #brownhair #feminist #vegetarian #wlw
🎉🎉🎉 Repost @cashiie_ ・・・ Thanks to @genuinevalentine and @missiontransitionbox for the super comfy shirt that allows me to throw my activism in people's faces the way cis men try to throw patriarchy in mine 😉 Happy Hump Day y'all !
How many things are too many things to take on at once? Asking for a friend... 💙 day 51 • • • #testosterone #ftm #femaletomale #nb #nonbinary #enby #transmasc #transmasculine #theythem #picoftheday #lgbt #lgbtq #transition #day51
good morning 2 all enbies I luv u so 🌸💞💗🌼💟💖🌷❣️💮
My new response video to Louis C.K. in a nutshell.  Watch the whole thing on YouTube or Facebook, just search for @theorypleeb and it will be the newest video on the channel rn. #slavojzizek #judithbutler #philosophy #lacan #criticaltheory #socialjustice #SJW #AntiPCindustry #antiSJW #intellectualdarkweb #PC #sublimeobjectofideology #lacroix #straightedge #enby
Byeee. I cut off so fucking much. I love it. I love me. I love life and what its shown me what I deserve. I've met so many awesome new queer/nb/gay friends and I am so thankful for this new beginning ❤❤❤ #nonbinary #nonbinarypride #genderfluid #genderflux #enby #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #instaqueer #pansexual #hardofhearing #tourettes #tourettessyndrome #hashimotos #fibromyalgia #fibro #disabled #chronicpain #autoimmunedisease #spoonie #chronicallyfabulous #cripplepunk #invisibleillness #mentalhealth #mentalillness #bipolar #anxiety #manicdepression
Your body is hurting. That's all you know. It hurts. When you finally made it to the doctors and admitted that you wear 2-3 sports bras at a time and he looks at you like you're speaking another language and asks "why??" And tells you to stop. You stop talking. ***** Today is a good day. You are not thinking about your body 100%. Your energy level is up. You decided to head to the gym around the corner. You quickly get dressed before you change your mind. The gym is relatively empty, you put on your headphones & get a full 45 minutes workout. You are happy AF. None of the usual nonsense. No uber masculine muscular fuckheads taking up space - trying to out-lift you. Nothing. You can bring your sweaty ass home to shower. Listening to beats on your headphones, you walk the two blocks home. You barely notice the two men walking towards you. You notice that they are looking at your chest, obviously talking about you. 'Fuck, can they tell?' You panic. As they get closer, they start to slow down. You remove your headphones & hear them asking what you are. Your heart is racing. Your breathing is quickened. You don't want to bring any more attention to your chest. One of the guys reaches up and is about to poke you in your chest. You step back & manage to cross the street. You can still hear them as your heartbeat pounds in your ears. You are feeling enraged as you near home. Fighting back tears. And the self-loathing. 'Why didn't you punch them? Why didn't you tell them to fuck off? Why did your body fucking fail yo?.' **** Binding is for survival. It can hurt like fuck, physically. You start to notice that you are not breathing the same. That your neck and shoulders hurt. There is chaffing under your arms. Your dread the summers w/ the heat & need to wear less clothes. You dread the winters. Coughing & sneezing is a bitch. You notice that your posture is changing. You already know what else hurts like hell. Not wearing a binder. Being misgendered. Assholes on the street. Doctors who don't get it. That voice in your head. The voice that doesn't use words, protects you. That tells you not to fight. When to walk away. Tells you when it's safe to 'come out'. Listen
i made a mistake by taking spanish cause i can’t roll my Rs but at least my professor is really cool
2009//2019, way less blonde and way more queer🌈 I couldn’t find a photo from 2009 that didn’t have a filter🙃 #10yearchallenge #enby
Who else does this to help them with bad dysphoria days? Fingers crossed that I can grow facial hair 🤞🏻😬
Getting my hair cut again. Shorter. And I'm dying it. Can't wait! . . . . . . #me #selfie #nonbinary #trans #enby #pride #plussize
Am i presenting male enough today? #enby #boy
Broken Nose Theatre's GIRL IN THE RED CORNER runs February 1 - March 2 at The Den Theatre, 1331 N. Milwaukee. All tickets are Pay-What-You-Can - grab your ticket and set your own price at http://bit.ly/RedCorBNT! #theythem #enby #lgbt #queerartist #chicagotheatre #queer #mma #girlintheredcorner @brokennosetheatre
vampire kiefer sutherland meets tonya harding 💅 (they/them) x o #queer #gay #fashion #style #glasses #piercings #dyedhair #blondehair #nonbinary #enby #nb #selfie #mullet #nofilter
Join us in person for the #WomensMarchLA ! #QueerSCV is heading to the Women's March LA *TOMORROW* (Sat 9:40am) via the #NewhallMetroStation . We hope to see you there! 💙💟🏳️💟💙✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 You may be an openly LGBTQ+ person or in the process of coming out and questioning.... Whichever your situation, you will find #inclusive , #intersectional #community in Queer SCV. 🤩🥳 Please, feel free to share this post with anyone who may benefit from it or on your own wall. 🦄🦏👍🏼 https://www.facebook.com/events/1897019933740748/ . . . #SantaClarita #SCV #Newhall #Valencia #Saugus #CanyonCountry #StevensonRanch #LGBTQ #LGBT #Lesbian #Gay #Bisexual #Transgender #Trans #Gender #Sexuality #GenderQueer #NonBinary #NB #Enby #Queer #SCVQueer #Alliance #QueerFam
Huh. What do you think that big handbasket is for? Come see what's inside this Sunday at Faustian Delights! Don't dally, lest this handbasket remain a thing of mystery! Ticket link is in the comments. 📸 by @mandyflamephotographer . . . #nonbinary #enby #seabq #burlesqueghoul #burlesque
#QueerSCV made the Jan. 16th print edition of the local paper! The article featured online here: https://signalscv.com/2019/01/queerscv-gets-signs-and-posters-ready-ahead-of-womens-march-los-angeles/ . . . #SantaClarita #SCV #Newhall #Valencia #Saugus #CanyonCountry #StevensonRanch #LGBTQ #LGBT #Lesbian #Gay #Bisexual #Transgender #Trans #Gender #Sexuality #GenderQueer #NonBinary #NB #Enby #Queer #SCVQueer #Alliance #QueerFam
You: “keely you’re a disaster Me: “I’m a disaster and I’m feeling myself” #ootd #enby
Shout out to @yaelaedstyle for capturing how trash I am. . . . . . #trans #prettyboi #queer #enby #transmasc #lgbt #trash #socool #Yeet
Throwback to getting rad with our friends @volvpac !
I have my HRT appointment in a week. I am so excited to finally begin my journey towards reaching my ultimate form. No more “ma’am”, no more “miss”, no more “hun” “sweetie” or “lady”. I can finally be seen as me. • • • • • • #lgbtq #lgbtqpride #androgyne #androgynepride #androgynous #queer #queerpride #genderqueer #genderqueerpride #nonbinary #nonbinarycuties #enby #enbypride #nonbinarypride #thisiswhatnonbinarylookslike #genderqueer #genderqueerpride #queer #queerboy #queerpride #transgender #transisbeautiful #trans #transmasculine #transmasc #transisbeautiful #thisiswhattranslookslike #transgenderpride #ftm #ftmtransgender
Every so often, I do in fact “girl” - much easier to approach with the help/inspiration of #handmedown #lingerie from my darling friend Persephone. For me, this was #drag and very challenging (MY HAIR IS DOWN WHAT, full waist/expensive pantyhose, a freaking #teddy and #highheels too...) and going through the evening @bondageagogo was...weird... but rewarding (?) and I think I made a pretty hot lady (or at least my friends tell me so). #girling #girly #highfemme #femme #genderqueer #enby For what it is worth, when I was trying this on and came around the corner, the dog barked because he didn’t recognize me. #animalsknow This is what Davey came up with for this week’s “Genderbent” event because arriving as myself (#queerasfuck #genderfluid #genderfuck ) would have felt like fetishizing my gender, not representing it. I am thrilled that many folx feel free to spread there wings with this theme... but that’s my daily, I needed to do something different. Definitely confused some people. And disturbed those who know me well or see me on the regular (read: I process “disturbed” as a GOOD THING here, that they saw me, and saw that this outfit was NOT me!). A true delight to play this side of the #presentation pendulum after my Thin White Duke look last week. #gender is a funny thing for sure, and as always I will die on the mountain top of: never ever assume that how someone presents is how they identify. #PresentationDoesNotEqualIdentity #theythemandfemme #theythem #letmyhairdown #lace #whitelace #pearls #makeup #blonde #blueeyes #selfie #sexy #nightlife
Polaroids & Cuteness. 😍
Unwinding that week.
My favorite part of every day 😁
How has it come to this? I've said it once, I've said it twice, I've said it a thousand fxcking times. That I'm ok, that I'm fine, that it's all just in my mind. But this has got the best of me. and I can't seem to sleep. #ftm #transgender #transginger #enby #boyslikeus #agender
That was the worst.
A week away. Now I’m back into winter. Things are in perspective (not just because I’m wearing new glasses). #newyearnewme #gay #gayboy #ftm #enby
It’s an emo overalls kind of day! Also this morning I saw my PCP about how I keep getting red and splotchy all over (mainly my face, neck, and chest though), and she referred me to an allergist. Time to see what I’m allergic to!
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