Rise and #Thrive
!! It's much easier to be your own enemy than your truest friend, and it often seems like a better idea. It's safe, it prepares us for other peoples' opinions and ideas, it's "realistic," it's obvious, it's... effortless. Something that tends to slip past a lot of people is that your thoughts and your ideas and your beliefs and your perceptions are creating your life, even if you're not conscious of it. The car is on autopilot, the point is to realize that you're the one pressing the gas, and at any point, you can choose to steer. —— Loving yourself is being your own best friend, your own caretaker, your own confidante and your own source of fulfillment. It's a heavy task to get there, and it's something we're usually discouraged from: people want us to buy into the idea that external happiness yields genuine fulfillment. It keeps the consumerist market and their own insecurities alive. But it's often not practical. We all eventually realize that our lives aren't going the way we want (in whatever way) and that it's up to us to change them. —— In reality, being your own worst enemy is just another way of shouting at the Universe: "I didn't make this, so I shouldn't have to control or change it. I didn't choose this, so I shouldn't have to undo it." We can shout all we want, but at the end of the day, it's nobody's job or responsibility to love or take care of us, and relying on that is basically guaranteeing that at some point or another, someone else will deny us love, and we'll be sh*t out of luck. —— Becoming your own best friend (and recognizing how you're your own worst enemy) is the work every one of us has to do, it just is a matter of when we decide to do it. .
#LoveYourself #BeYourOwnBestFriend #LookInTheMirror #YouAreYourOnlyCompetition #MotivatingMommaof6 #BossBabes #Momprenuer #EntreprenuerLife #ChangeStartsWithYou #DontLikeItFixIt