I knew always I was different, since i was a child, I was always too sensitive and too deep, I mostly kept to myself and never fitted in and i didn't really want to. I felt like i never really connected with people and I use to get bullied a lot through out the school, i never really let it bother me except few times when someone literally tried to kick my ass because of me being ME and doing my own thing.
As i have grown older, more i think it is a blessing to be totally different in the world where everyone are the same, everyone trying to be like someone else, it is a privilege to be who you are, god made you the way you are for a reason and I think it's so beautiful that people dare to be different ,unique and stand out, i admire those people who don't need the validation from anyone to be accepted for they uniqueness.
It's also been a little truggle to find a lifepartner because people often get scared of depth, of emotions, of vulnerability and someone being real and genuine, but at the same time having a strong will and always standing for something that you believe in, and it's so rare, we often want to be so desperately accepted from everyone that we will bend for them,give in and change ourselfs to be more loveable and be more accepted,or fit into the mold. We forget that people who do not love us for what we are,they are not our people. If someone can't love you for being real and genuine, they not ment to be in your life, god has a ways to remove the people and often we feel like we are loosing, but we actually are gaining. When you are genuinly good person, you don't loose people, they lose you!
So never change so people will love you, love yourself enough first and be who you are, do your own thing and the right people will love you no matter what! Focuse on making yourself better person and going after what you want in life,have the courage to be you,trust yourself,be honest to yourself. When you love yourself and you know your own worth, you wont accept anything less!
God loves you and You matter too!" // Dee <3
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