“I just wanna hang ten on the wave of life and get shacked by Mother Nature.” Beautiful quote from my friend Moise, could also be from a movie, or strait from the ‘Moise’s’ mouth. #weareexplorers#mountainstones#tassiestyle
What makes someone ask you when you’re going to get married or start a family, or how much you paid for your house, or how much money you earn? What makes someone think that it’s okay to touch a pregnant woman’s belly or guess whether she’s going to have a boy or a girl? And what can you do when someone invades your privacy with an inappropriate or rude question?
It always shocks me when I hear people asking me or around questions like these. I mean you have no idea what the other person is going through- Someone you’re asking about starting a family might be going through a challenging phase to conceive with medications. Somebody who isn’t getting married might be going through a series of rejection- of simply- they just don’t want to get into it- and by you asking them would just make them more miserable and furious- why would you?
Privacy is everyones personal right.
يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا تَدْخُلُوا۟ بُيُوتًا غَيْرَ بُيُوتِكُمْ حَتَّىٰ تَسْتَأْنِسُوا۟ وَتُسَلِّمُوا۟ عَلَىٰٓ أَهْلِهَا ۚ ذَٰلِكُمْ خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَذَكَّرُونَ " O Believers, do not enter other houses than your own until you have the approval of the inmates and have wished them peace; this is the best way for you: it is expected that you will observe it ". (Qur'an 24:27)
Be it someones life, a personal letter, their bedroom, their handbag, their home or their phone- learn to respect privacy. Sadly- in our society, everyone thinks its okay to get into each other space- but it’s really not-
Even our religion beautifully describes that SubhanAllah-
Learn to mind your own lives and your own world- stop putting your feet in others- how they choose to live, what they choose to do is not your concern. Stop bullying. And if you’re one who is superly intervened by other- please stand for yourself , respect yourself enough to walk away from something that sucks you down and make you feel miserable:)
What do you think? I’d love to know how do you respond do such people.
Moin, diese kleine zauberhafte Hütte gehört seit Jahren zu einer meiner liebsten Fotomotive im Kieler Umkreis. Sie steht gleich hinter dem Deich in Heidkate im Kreis Wisch. Hast du sie auch schon mal fotografiert?
Kommt gut in die erste Herbstwoche!