Setting Boundaries (Never call Limits, it gives a negative feeling) – Do you know, kids actually like having some structure to their day and having some set boundaries.
Obviously,don’t go overboard with hundreds of rules, but focus on the most important for your family. So start setting some healthy and effective boundaries from when they are babies and toddlers. This really sets the expectations clear to them ,of what will and will not be allowed to do in our Family.
While setting the boundaries we should not forget to Praise for when they show good behavior. A little praise always feels like an encouragement to the child and gives a boost to their confidence. So always look into where you’re praising the child. Its important to remember to not go overboard with praise as well. Because here the child will start thinking that behaving good is for the praise they get after that. And he/she will mistaken the praise for good behavior. But again, a little praise now and then, doesn’t really hurt.
While setting Boundaries, its necessary to teach them about the Natural Consequences they will have to face for any given situation. For example, some children likes to break toys ,just like that for no reason, make them aware that if they break toys , you won’t be buying them anything new and will be taking away all the toys for a week/month. If they don’t complete their school homework, they will need to face the teacher by themselves and you will not be talking to their teacher, no matter how bad he/she feels. In this way, alert them about the consequences they will have to face for not behaving properly.
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