Do we have to talk about my hair?
You can be happy for an ex who you mutually agreed to part with. You can be happy for an ex who tried to make things work, gave it his best shot but it was not meant to be. In these circumstances I agree you would be happy when you see them happy. Because they did not crush your soul. They were a beautiful chapter of your life.
I am not referring to such an ex here. There I am referring to the ex who lied to you, gave you false hope, made promises only to break them, cheated on you and denied it, called you crazy, treated you worse than he would treat his dog and expected you to treat him like a king, made you do all his work, expected you do listen to his every command, threw random tantrums that left you wondering what you did wrong this time when the problem was him all along and expected you not to question anything suspicious he does and be prepared to hear how ungrateful you are if you do.
If you feel hate towards such a person it is only natural and God knows they deserve it. Don't feel guilty and don't listen to those people who say you need to let go of your anger to heal. Yes, to an extent I agree constantly focusing on that hate can be unhealthy especially if you start waiting for karma to do its thing. Karma will work its magic IN ITS OWN TIME. So in the meanwhile, hate all you want but don't forget to focus on yourself too! You can hate and heal as long as you maintain a healthy balance. Its unrealistic to think that you'll wake up one day without any hate. You don't have to forgive today or forget ever. Learn from your experience, don't let it happen again and throw whatever shade you want their way. You know in your heart what is the truth, how badly he hurt you and what hell you have to shake to feel better for just a few hours!
In the spirit of #selfcaresaturday
, today I’m pausing to ask- What are you doing in your life to inject a little self love into your life? Maybe it's a sleep in, or a lazy day in your fave oversized tee, or an extra coffee in the afternoon. You can't pour from an empty cup so make sure to take some time out to fill up your own power source so you don't end up depleted or on the path to burn out. For me, recently, it's been tuning in at 8.30am every morning for a quick meditation and alignment session with the legend that is @kat.john
😍 Starting the day with intent and a chance to 'check in' with my emotions, sets me up for productive and purposeful day. How do you like to unwind? 🙌🏽
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A vida é assim mesmo menina, a gente cai, levanta, sobre alguns degraus sabendo que talvez mais pra frente seja necessário descer alguns pra evoluir. Já te aviso que muita gente vai duvidar de ti, da tua capacidade, inocência. Vão achar que teus sorrisos são falsidade, que o fato de tú tratar tudo sem maldade e mentira, que você so esta esperando a hora certa para se rebelar. Mas calma, tudo que brilha incomoda, porque ninguém tem medo de alguém incapaz de voar, só traz medo o que é capaz.
Good night little muffins❤️