You attract WHAT and WHO you are.
So instead of staying stuck and repeating cycle after cycle of destruction.
Give God HIS time.
Allow Him the time to heal you and prepare you.
Because I know as I have spent this season of singleness and praying over my future spouse.
I have prayed so much that God was preparing and healing his heart as He was mine.
That he was man who was ready to PRAY, PROTECT, WORSHIP and SERVE along side of me.
That he was man who is madly in love with Jesus and chases after His heart before He ever chases after mine.
But most importantly I have prayed that God would also make ME into that woman in his life.
Because to be a reflection His love is to be a reflection of HIM.
And if that relationship is truly Kingdom sent it will always push you CLOSER to Him and not further away.
And TOGETHER you will be a reflection of the God you serve and His love for the world.
This guy was so kind. Maggie loves Scotland the brave, and he plays it three times 😍😍😍
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1. Tell them how good they look before they go to work, church, grocery store, etc. Do you really want your man to leave your presence feeling down and unwanted? So Betty Homewrecker can shower him with compliments at his job? No ma'am! I am, IN NO WAY, condoning him entertaining Betty Homewrecker because you are not giving him compliments at home. But, let's eliminate the possibility of this issue. Make sure your husband is on cloud nine when he leaves your presence.
2. Flattery will get you everywhere. Men go where they are respected, loved and appreciated. Flatter your man!
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Good Morning -Happy Sunday 🖤
Thank you for promising us your peace and for giving us hope and a future. God, there is so many scary things happening in our personal lives and this world such as wars, governmental changes, and health issues. Please give my family your perfect peace and rest and take away any fear that might try to grip our hearts. Remind us daily of your perfect will and that no matter what happens we cannot be removed from your love.
In Jesus’ name, amen! #godlymen #godlyfriendships #godlyrelationships #godlywoman #godlywife #godlycouples #jesusatthecenter #itsallaboutjesus
Ladies, mark your calendars! Next Wednesday is Cherish Unplugged! The theme of the night is “Sweep the House: Binding and Breaking Family Strongholds”. We’re going to have teaching followed by ministry time. (Childcare not included) We can’t wait to see you there!!
If you haven't noticed by now, I have a VERY strong personality. I can dominate a conversation and tend to not mince my words. As I have gotten older, I've learned that some of my words not only needed to be minced....they needed to be eliminated.
You have to speak to your spouse in a way that will draw him closer to you. Not send him away feeling defeated. Yes, he will do things that will irritate you. You will want to shout and tell him to "Man Up!". He will make you feel as though he deserves a verbal assault. DON'T DO IT! Words hurt and once they are thrown, there isn't anything you can do to take them back. Men might be physically stronger than us, but, they have feelings too. They have ego's that tend to be delicate at times. Do you really want to send your husband out into the world with a crushed ego? Is that really going to help him be the best man he can be for you? Not at all.
When you are faced with a tough situation that needs to be discussed with your spouse, 1st talk to God and pray about it. Ask him to give you the words that will lead you two towards a healthy resolve. Do not open your mouth until you have a peaceful and calm manner to speak to your husband. Fight the urge to yell or shout.
There are two verses that I think of.
Proverbs 15:1 A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 16:24 Pleasant words are a honeycomb, Sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.
Choose today to be your husband's honeycomb!
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As Anjuli always says, “Your husband will be the coolest person you’ve ever met!”
He’s going to be someone you find interesting. He’s going to be someone you feel 100% comfortable with. You’re going to appreciate who he is in #allthethings
. He’s going to open up your world in ways you could never imagine. And the reverse is true for him when it comes to you. .
And you won't meet him until you're the coolest person you've ever met too! Meaning, you are in love with you and what you're building in your life. Purpose, experiences, relationships -- it's all part of it. .
If you’re with someone who doesn’t feel that way about you, just please keep this in mind. The feeling will be 100% mutual. There will be just SOMETHING about each other that draws you towards each other, and God will be all over it.
The best things in life don't happen by chance. The same can be said of great marriages
We often underestimate the need to invest in our relationship with our spouse, and after saying I do, many couples seize to be intentional and switch to autopilot, yet they expect things to be awesome.
It doesn't work that way.
If you want any return from your marriage, you have to be willing to invest in it. That means to make conscious efforts to place deposits in your spouses emotional bank account.
Do more things that make them smile, happy and crave to be around you. Speak their love languages in clear terms.
Be D.E.L.I.B.R.A.T.E....... Be I.N.T.E.N.T.I.O.N.A.L.... Don't underestimate the investment of yourself into your marriage.
The gift of your time, your presence (being there without being asked, ), your encouragement, your touches, hugs, kisses and friendship; are priceless and often give the most return on investment.
What gift would you be giving today?
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Do I have to add a caption? No, but I will.
What's better than a man/woman who complements God's vision for your life? What's better than a praying partner who washes you with the Word and watches over your soul with #prayer
? What about a partner who is not intimidated by your zeal, determination and ambition? Instead, he/she is excited and equipped to lend unwavering support. When selecting a partner, his/her spiritual capacity should be assessed for compatability. Incorrect alignment can cripple your calling and bring your reputation into disrepute. They should level up or be striving to level up spiritually.
, choose carefully. A #relationship
is not about staying relevant and "bedded". It is about being in divine alignment with your destiny in human form.
Who I'm going back & forth with?!? I'm LIVING 👑😝 #LeslieDanielle
We thoroughly enjoyed these beautiful couples for Couples Night Out. Open, real, and candid conversation from couples that are making their marriage a priority.