Friends, everyone happy with their #sex
lives? Honestly?🤥 One of the many issues (and some are so much harder to overcome) for me was the doubt about having programmed sex = not spontaneously. I don´t like things scheduled!
And I kept finding excuses, but yesterday, on a day off from work, we finally decided TOGETHER to dedicate the rest of the evening (it TAKES TIME) to explore in energetic Sex according to #Taoism
(great read by #danielread
, another one is by #MantakChia
). They call it "The Art of the Bedchamber" 😉
This involves getting prepared (#relaxation
for yourself, between the both, setting the mood, the room, the water (!!), and whatever else you´ll want..🎻
Letting go of being attached to times, #expectations
, average ideas of the old in-and-out..LETTING GO in general and holding on to the wonderful person in front of you willing to participate (or in my case, the one who was struggling hard to convince me😅) and feel...Taoists see it as basic as eating and sleeping, and a powerful way to heal increasing your ☯️ #energy
The days before we didn’t connect well between each other and this way of making #love
, truly, makes you bond.
It energizes you. It balances the 2 of you, and it lasts as long and as effortlessly long as you wouldn’t believe unless you try it.
I didn’t get much sleep and I can still feel more energy ranking through my body today, in the office, than after other average nights of poor sleep. IT DOES YOU GOOD ❣️ #Tao #happiness #feminine #yinyang #women #mindfulness #healing #steffiwomansup #frauenblog #bloggerwoman #femimism #humanist #makelove #chi #beawoman #womanandsex