Just a gentle reminder ~ IT AINT WEAK TO SPEAK ~
I recently reflected on the first three months of becoming a twin Mum. The toughest most challenging time of my life. I went in thinking motherhood was this blissful bubble of snuggles and love, I was a realist and geared myself up for a hard time but nothing prepares you. Looking back now it was all such a blur, the scariest most emotional roller coaster ride,hardest thing I’ve ever done.
Postpartum - add hormones, sleep deprivation, crying babies and a whole new world times two. I was at the peak of my career, a socialite thinking about what to wear to the next weekend event then BOOM everything changed. Add the recovery of a C section and then walking into your front door without your babies because they were in the special care nursery. My anxiety peaked due to an extremely over active and now under active thyroid, I had massive waves of OCD where I had to have everything in order when really I could barely get out of bed. This isn’t a poor me post because I know I’m blessed but I had a choice everyday to get up and get on with it and I had support. I had to be an open book and tell my husband, friends and family when I was finding it all a bit too much. I made sure I got out everyday once I could walk properly.
Now I’m out the other end, the rewards are endless as my babies are interacting with us and I feel like I’m such a great mum giving them my all. I guess this is a reminder that through some of my most challenging days I always spoke to my network of friends and family. You must tell people how you feel. You must check in with your network and ask if they are doing okay? If this post helps even just one new Mum, one person going through a hard time then I’ve done my good deed. Thank you to all my beautiful network I love you beyond words...
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