HEAVY word - which people use often!
I will talk about betrayal here only in terms of emotional relations.
So just tell me - when was the last time you used this line " I have been betrayed by this so and so person" or when was the last time you felt such betrayal thing by your loved one? No. You don't need to give me answer. Answer yourself.
Okay. Now next thing - a question - Did you give your 100% in that particular relation? .
Did you love the other person unconditionally, flawlessly and with purity ? .
Well if you have answered this last question. Then ask yourself - what is LOVE?
Is love to be happy only if the other person does whatever you want him/her to do?
Is love bound with any conditions ? - like if you follow my pattern or if you do so and so or if you behave in a particular manner , THEN I will love you.
Is love to be the most insane person if someone deny to follow what you want them to do?
Of course not.
Love is freedom. Freedom that you give to the other person to be the real. Trust and freedom that you give to do whatever they want to do. And still you will love them as much as you did before. To accept them as they are without changing them a bit or judging them. Without insisting them to do anything, and just enjoy that creature as he/she is! .
And if they did whatever they wanted to do but it was against your expectations then is it viable to cry on that particular topic , constantly by saying of betrayal things? That too you claimed once of loving them. .
If you have loved them really, then let them do whatever they want to do. It is not good for your health to use such words betrayal and not good for the person for whom you are using. This is deep shit. If you can understand it well then and only then you can grasp whatever I want to say here.
If there is LOVE, there will not be the word BETRAYAL. You will simply move on happily - collecting your lessons and that too by blessing them well. And to reach at this stage , a lot of work is to be demanded to do on yourself.
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