"I was born under water with three dollars and six dimes." - @erykahbadu
If I choose to shave my locs, dreadlocks, dreads tomorrow -or whatever 'woke' ass statement society wants to call it- inject my boobs with silicone and hair grease, slather on six heaps of lipstick with eye mascara on my knees, provided a lifetime of butt enhancements with a tummy tuck, it's still my👏🏾 damn👏🏾 prerogative👏🏾. Guys, stop telling women how to dress, to speak or look for YOU. The man I live with don't agree with everything that I wear or say but he learned how to respect it a long time ago. Some of y'all just think he's a smart man who values his life.
But he respects that I'm not going to agree with everything that he says or does-- and that's okay. He knows how to respect the person. Some of you guys (and women) are quick to call a woman fake if she alters something about herself for her personal happiness. No boo boo... not all of us give a damn about you.
How about this: Stop making comments about how we are supposed to dress for you and I'll stop side eyeing men's lace front wigs, beard extensions, penis enhancement pills or anything within that category because frankly, I don't give a damn about what y'all do to make yourselves happy. And if you're doing these things to make others happy, just stop. Doing something for yourself doesn't make you fake. You're a fraud only when you're trying to piss on someone else's cornflakes and you're miserable your damn selves.
Shut up, eat a cookie and have a damn seat.
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