I’ve been thinking a lot about “friendship ghosting” and how terrible it is when a person you love just shuts you out with no explanation.
Yes, we’ve all heard stories about dating and ghosting, but friendship ghosting is more painful because the expectations are higher.
How can you go from talking, supporting, loving, and trusting a person to literally NEVER speaking to them again? This is a phenomenon I will never understand. But I know it’s happened to me more than once and if every relationship is an opportunity to learn something about myself, I need to get this lesson about self-worth so it doesn’t happen again. Forgiveness is one thing, but allowing yourself to be the victim is another. - I think I need to write about this in the next novel. Thoughts? Has this happened to you? - Silence is cruel because it literally means you weren’t worth the fight. I’m a fighter. If I Love you in any capacity- I believe in hashing it out and moving on or moving forward. Silence says I was never a part of the equation. What do you folks think? #mondaymood #endings #ghosted #fakefriends #loyalty #selfworth