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Embrace Your Inner Asshole You have to be better at being an asshole (laugh) sooner in your interactions. You don't have to be a level-10 asshole, but if you give off too many nice-guy signals, you're looking for trouble. So if she comes around with the sad song about how she can't pay this bill or how something in her house or car isn't working right, do not feel obligated to volunteer all the time. It is perfectly okay to say, "that's unfortunate" and not volunteer to do a damn thing. Really, you can't absorb everybody's "stuff"! This is part of having healthy boundaries. You might feel pressured, but see if you dropped dead today, she'd still have to take that car to Jiffy Lube to get that oil changed. Quit being a tool (literally) and let her work some things out. If you are dealing with someone who can't seem to get through BASIC life functions herself, then she can never really be a true partner for you in the long-term because you're not dealing with a mature woman -- you're dealing with a child, and raising her up was her parents' job, not yours! Think about this. Would you have a business partner that you had to supervise? That's not a partner, that's an employee. See? It's okay to give advice, but let her do the footwork that benefits her life. You may think to yourself, "she's going to think I'm an asshole." That's okay!!! Acknowledge the feeling, breathe through it, and sit back and watch. And if she bucks, she just wasn't the one for you. Accept it gracefully, because it's really for the best. Lastly, a woman can always find ways she needs your help. Turn it around. Find ways for HER to be useful to you, and ASK. Don't be proud. If you've been helpful to her and she has a hissy fit when you need some help, let that mf go, quick! "Help" might mean she pays for a date, assists with some domestic task or errand when you just don't feel like dealing with it. You don't need her overhauling your engine, but when we men help and help and never ask for help back, you know what they see? "Sucker!" I'd rather be an asshole than a sucker, any day ;) Credit to Xavier Jefferson on Facebook. [repost: @phenomenalact1 ]
Embrace Your Inner Asshole You have to be better at being an asshole (laugh) sooner in your interactions. You don't have to be a level-10 asshole, but if you give off too many nice-guy signals, you're looking for trouble. So if she comes around with the sad song about how she can't pay this bill or how something in her house or car isn't working right, do not feel obligated to volunteer all the time. It is perfectly okay to say, "that's unfortunate" and not volunteer to do a damn thing. Really, you can't absorb everybody's "stuff"! This is part of having healthy boundaries. You might feel pressured, but see if you dropped dead today, she'd still have to take that car to Jiffy Lube to get that oil changed. Quit being a tool (literally) and let her work some things out. If you are dealing with someone who can't seem to get through BASIC life functions herself, then she can never really be a true partner for you in the long-term because you're not dealing with a mature woman -- you're dealing with a child, and raising her up was her parents' job, not yours! Think about this. Would you have a business partner that you had to supervise? That's not a partner, that's an employee. See? It's okay to give advice, but let her do the footwork that benefits her life. You may think to yourself, "she's going to think I'm an asshole." That's okay!!! Acknowledge the feeling, breathe through it, and sit back and watch. And if she bucks, she just wasn't the one for you. Accept it gracefully, because it's really for the best. Lastly, a woman can always find ways she needs your help. Turn it around. Find ways for HER to be useful to you, and ASK. Don't be proud. If you've been helpful to her and she has a hissy fit when you need some help, let that mf go, quick! "Help" might mean she pays for a date, assists with some domestic task or errand when you just don't feel like dealing with it. You don't need her overhauling your engine, but when we men help and help and never ask for help back, you know what they see? "Sucker!" I'd rather be an asshole than a sucker, any day ;) Credit to Xavier Jefferson on Facebook.
Most people go through a slew of extreme feelings of anger, depression, regret, distrust, and so on when they realize that they've been lied to and set up to fail since day one. Especially if those lies are the reason they are in a bad place in their life. In other words, they end up with what is called red pill rage. After a while, it becomes time to stop venting and start doing something about it. Do you want to spend the rest of your life complaining and waiting for those who hurt you to somehow fix your life for you? If so, what good is taking the red pill when you're not growing from it? If you are willing to take action, then the following advice will be of some use to you. You can check it out here: www.phenomenalact.com/single-post/red-pill-rage [repost: @phenomenalact1 ] _____________________________________________ #phenoMENalAct #MGTOW #mengoingtheirownway #manempowerment #maleempowerment #mindset #personaldevelopment #selfdiscipline #redpillrage #theworldisyours #changegoncome #makeachange #maninthemirror #thematrix #MRA #mensrights #mensrightsactivist #mensrightsactivism #redpill #theredpill #sexism #misandry #sexist #gynocentrism #misandrist
Definitely geared more towards men! Must-read post. @Regran_ed from @phenomenalact1 - Most people go through a slew of extreme feelings of anger, depression, regret, distrust, and so on when they realize that they've been lied to and set up to fail since day one. Especially if those lies are the reason they are in a bad place in their life. In other words, they end up with what is called red pill rage. After a while, it becomes time to stop venting and start doing something about it. Do you want to spend the rest of your life complaining and waiting for those who hurt you to somehow fix your life for you? If so, what good is taking the red pill when you're not growing from it? If you are willing to take action, then the following advice will be of some use to you. You can check it out here: www.phenomenalact.com/single-post/red-pill-rage _____________________________________________ #phenoMENalAct #MGTOW #mengoingtheirownway #manempowerment #maleempowerment #mindset #personaldevelopment #selfdiscipline #redpillrage #theworldisyours #changegoncome #makeachange #maninthemirror #thematrix #MRA #mensrights #mensrightsactivist #mensrightsactivism #redpill #theredpill #sexism #misandry #sexist #gynocentrism #misandrist - #regrann
Most people go through a slew of extreme feelings of anger, depression, regret, distrust, and so on when they realize that they've been lied to and set up to fail since day one. Especially if those lies are the reason they are in a bad place in their life. In other words, they end up with what is called red pill rage. After a while, it becomes time to stop venting and start doing something about it. Do you want to spend the rest of your life complaining and waiting for those who hurt you to somehow fix your life for you? If so, what good is taking the red pill when you're not growing from it? If you are willing to take action, then the following advice will be of some use to you. You can check it out here: www.phenomenalact.com/single-post/red-pill-rage _____________________________________________ #phenoMENalAct #MGTOW #mengoingtheirownway #manempowerment #maleempowerment #mindset #personaldevelopment #selfdiscipline #redpillrage #theworldisyours #changegoncome #makeachange #maninthemirror #thematrix #MRA #mensrights #mensrightsactivist #mensrightsactivism #redpill #theredpill #sexism #misandry #sexist #gynocentrism #misandrist
Keep it up! 💪🏾 [repost: @phenomenalact1 ]
Too many people die with the music still inside of them. Here's a short, but powerful message from Les Brown about the wealthiest place on Earth. Might light a fire in you, might not. www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHtHv3a1ScM _____________________________________________ #phenoMENalAct #justdoit #successful #manempowerment #maleempowerment #successquotes #success #manquotes #quotesformen #inspirationalquotes #inspiration #motivation #successmindset #wastedpotential #manpower #wordsofwisdom #noonecanstopme #noexcuses #lesbrown #dontdiewithyourmusicstillinyou
Who do you know is looking for a way to stop working for someone else all their life? Who do you know needs some extra money for the holidays? Who do you know is ready to start their financial New Year's resolutions? I can help you with a part-time work at home business that includes medical and dental benefits. Be my guest tonight on a live 20-min conference call at 7:55pm EST tonight. 857-232-0155 pin 189257. Say that Jibriel Holloway invited you. _____________________________________________ #phenoMENalAct #MGTOW #mengoingtheirownway #manempowerment #maleempowerment #manquotes #quotesformen #inspirationalquotes #inspiration #motivation #wordsofwisdom  #successquotes #success  #successful  #businessquotes #entrepreneurquotes #bethebossofyou #workfromhome #workathome #stayathomedad
Don't like your family history? Hate the way your parents raised you? Then it's up to you to build a legacy and make sure that future generations have lives better than yours. _____________________________________________ #phenoMENalAct #MGTOW #mengoingtheirownway #manempowerment #maleempowerment #malepositivity #positivemasculinity #manquotes #quotesformen #inspirationalquotes #inspiration #motivation #manpower #wordsofwisdom #legacy #leavealegacy #mindset #philosophy #theworldisyours #greatness #blackhistory #strongblackman #blackkings #makeachange #maninthemirror #familyman
Everyone knows that single dads tend to be left out of the conversation when it comes to support. This is in spite of the fact that 2.6 million of them live in the U.S. The following links will show you some resources for single dads. www.lowincomefinancialhelp.com/financial-assistance-for-single-dads www.fatherhood.org/bid/183377/4-great-resources-for-single-dads www.livestrong.com/article/249025-programs-for-single-fathers #phenoMENalAct #fathersrightsmovement #fathersrights #dadsmatter #respectdads #dadquotes #fatherquotes #fathertoson #fathertoson #fathersmatter #fatherly #fatherlylove #ilovemydad #ilovemyfather #manempowerment #fatherlivesmatter #fatherdaughter #fatherson #fatherhood #positivemasculinity #fathersday #motivationalquotes #motivatingmen #empoweringmen #singledad #singlefather #singlefathers #singledads
سارع في معرفة ذاتك 🖤 . . . فكرة : @asma_debbache تصميم : @booxperiences #knowyourself #womenempowerment #manempowerment #collaboration
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