"Şüphesiz ki gıybet, en sevdiğim günahtır." M. Sarışını
Benim bilinçli olarak cümle kurmaya 3 yaşında başladığımı varsayarsam, aklımın erdiği yaklaşık 30 yılımı cehennemde dilimi ensemde düğümletecek kadar gıybet yaptığımı söyleyebilirim.
Evde, işte, okulda;
Gıybet denince akla, hemen benim adım gelir, bi yere çağrılıyorsam, sırf ekmeyeyim diye "gel kız acaip dedikodular var." denir,ben de gerekirse pijamalarımla giderdim.
En güzel ben gömer, en pis ben dalga geçer, en acımasız ben eleştirirdim.
Dilime düşenin ne koca kıçı, ne varoşluğu ne de abazalığı kalırdı.
İlginçtir ki yine de herkes gelip yine her haltını bana da yumurtlamadan duramazdı.
Dedikoduyu bırakmak için özel bir şey de yapmadım aslında.
Sadeleşme sürecinin içerisinde kötü düşünmeyi de bırakınca insanın içinden de pek gelmiyor.
Biraz sıkıcı evet ama içinde de bi huzur oluyo insanın.
"Gıybet, çekemiyolar bizi, kıskannıyollar bizi."
#gıybet #kişiselgelişim #dedikodu #değişim #dönüşüm #pozitifenerji #positivevibes #pozitifdüşünce #olumlama #sadeyaşam #minimalist #minimalizm #yaşamkoçu #mutluyumçünkü #kolye #ig #farkındalık #mindfulness
Un bon moyen de réduire ses déchets c'est quand même de faire soi-même bon nombre de choses que l'on utilise au quotidien que ce soit les cosmétiques, la cuisine ou ... les aliments qu'on mange !!.
Je mets une photo de ce que ma mémé de plus de 80 ans fait pousser dans son jardin... elle jardine encore !!!.
C'est vrai que grandir dans une famille qui fait ses propres productions de tomates ou qui est un peu écolo ça a plus de chance de déteindre sur nous mais qu'importe d'où on vient si on a envie de vivre notre best life alors plantons quelque chose ! Même si on n'a pas la place chez nous (j'ai habité dans 10 m carré et je faisais pousser mon basilic (qui est mort ou bout de deux semaines parce que je suis nulle en plantes d'intérieur ahaha)).
mais juste pour dire que c'est possible de faire pousser ses propres plantes... même si c'est juste une plante aha.
#zerodechet #zérodéchet #zerowaste #zw #zd #zérodéchets #zerodechetmetz #zdmetz #metz #local #minimalism #minimalist
OH HEY - IT’S A GOLD GICEAWAY!
I’ve teamed up with gold-obsessed, sustainable jewelry brand @auratenewyork
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Floating shelves complete the minimalist look in this modern kitchen
This is something that I’ve been having to tell myself everyday for years. As a mom of 4, I always feel the need to hang onto things for the dreaded “just-in-case” situations. 90% of the time, those “just-in-case” situations never end up happening. Then before I know it, there’s things piled on top of each other in every room in my home, and I end up stressed and frustrated due to the mess and overstimulation. So I’ve obviously been failing at listening to myself when it comes to these types of things. Because of this, I’ve been making it a point over the past week or so to remind myself of this quote continuously. I want to make sure that everything we have in our home are things that we truly need or really love having around. I want my home to feel like my home and not a storage locker. #aspiringminimalist #minimalist #minimalism #homemaker #minimalisthomemaker #getridofyourjunk
Yesterday I met someone and asked, "what do you do?". The reply was so depressing, it was, "NOTHING, and you?". At a prime age of 23 if you say something like you do nothing, then I'm sorry to say, but you're wasting your life. Although, it's never too late to start.
Just think for a moment regarding yourself. What do you do apart from your job or your career?
If you also have nothing, then I think it's time to pick up a hobby or something that interests you, and please for goodness sake don't say, "I don't have time". Good luck.
#iamminimal #minimalism #minimalist #minimalist #simpleliving #goodvibes #beautiful #life #lifestyle #simplelife #peace #yolo
I first picked up a power tool after getting tired of asking my husband for the 4,000th time to finish a simple project for me in our first #fixerupper
. I realized if I thought it was so simple for HIM to finish, then I should just buck up and finish it myself. I was frustrated. I was irritated. But I also wasn’t a damn damsel in distress and I could figure out how to do house projects that I wanted done just as easily as my husband could... and once I knocked out my first project, I couldn’t stop. Sometimes it takes getting irritated to get moving. But once you realize how INCREDIBLY CAPABLE you are, you become unstoppable. #ladycarpenters #designer #badass #stayathomemom #renovations #budget #frugal #minimalist #simplicity #empowerment #reallife
The must have ✔️l’arme fatale d’ #heimstone
- now in black or printed
“DAD’s MAC and CHEESE”
Last year I had the amazing opportunity to prop style this incredible cookbook “Son Of A Southern Chef: Cook With Soul” for @sonofasouthernchef
Thank you @sonofasouthernchef
for pouring your heart and soul into this project, your baby, and trusting the team, including me, a “no cooking - hater of the words ‘delicious & yummy,’ prop stylist! 🤓
Creating this book was such a joy to work on. Specifically here where I had to smash up styrofoam containers and pull apart cheese making a character out of it.
I have so much love and respect for the amazing team that all worked so hard on this book. We are family now.
This book is avail in all major bookstores, as well as Amazon. Pls support and review! This is a product of lots of love.
Dad’s MAC and CHEESE in styrofoam containers on paper.
Photo by @anishaspice
Make your own happy.
One of my favorite @mvmt
watches to wear. It’s clean and #minimalist
and pretty durable.
for the loveliest of couples 🌿
The fit of your clothing really is everything. If you're going for a simple and classic look, it's important to know that baggy just won't cut it. When you're investing in a piece of clothing that you see yourself wearing for the next ten years, it's very important that it fits you like a glove. ➖Rate this look from 1-10
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Minimalism is a constant process, not a one and done.
Decluttering and getting rid of material processions doesn’t guaranteed happines. You could get rid of every single thing you own and still not be happy.
Taking away the excess will help you discover what does actually bring you joy (the people, & experiences, ect). Because its so much easier to find and follow that path when all that debris is cleared. And that path to finding happiness is so much better than any physical object.
My paths to happiness are being with my boys in the great outdoors, not a bunch of new fancy things.
Where does your path to happiness lead?
(Leggings from my shop! >> www.myzyia.com/bright << )
this was me this time last year...
my hair still had patches in it and as you can see eczema still covered my body and was visibly worse on my hands and feet.
this is the main reason i tell people to take frequent pictures of your progress cause when your going through the eczema journey its so easy to forget where you came from in the moment of frustrations.
i get asked all the time how long will it take and the honest answer is everyone is different. but look at the difference a year makes. three months after this pic was taken my skin was completely clear...
bersama teman-temanku yang suka berisik💛✨
Happy Thursday, friends! I woke up to 25k followers this morning, and I want to thank y’all SO MUCH for all the kind words and smiles you bring to my face every day!!! 😊☀️🥳