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This is part two of an interview of a male survivor from female narcissistic abusers. I hope this helps men who feel alone in their experience and it brings awareness that women can be abusers as well. Please stay tuned for the rest of the interview love you guys. I want to thank the male survivor for his bravery in completing the interview @ispeakmotivate . . . . . #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #npd #maleabuse #toxicwomen #psychologicalabuse #borderlinepersonality #bdp #narcabuse #narcissism #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #clusterb #crazymaking #mindgames #liar #malignantnarcissist #blameshifting #lies #covertnarcissist #abuse #gossips #femalenarcissist #gaslighting #flyingmonkeys #mentalabuse #survivors #enablers #narcissists #smearcampaigns
🙌🏼 We never talk about this but it’s the truth—you’re allowed to end relationships in your life if they’re doing you a detriment. 🛑 • 😇 No need to vilify them or make them our “archnemeses”—that’s putting in way too much energy into the situation. • Good feels to you all today! 🌟
Literally my husband. Who just finished telling me I’m being unreasonable, illogical and pessimistic for telling him that a household of 6 requires an income and a steady place to live, not bouncing from house to rental to hotel to vacation rental back to another house with a foreclosure notice. He told me I’m ungrateful for not noticing that he’s gotten us another vacation rental (Airbnb’s and vrbo’s are the only way to get rentals since they don’t do credit/income checks). Our last rental didn’t do one and he broke the lease early because he was constantly getting into it with the landlords and we had the HOA and police called on us for various reasons. I understand people struggle, but he’s chosen to not have a job in 4+ years. • • • • • • • • • • #narcissist #sociopath #psychologicalabuse #financialabuse #divorce #cheater #gaslighting #fraud #abuserscovery #anxiety #depression #awareness #emotionalabuse #abuse #dv #liar #domesticviolence #fighter #empath #fakelove #metoo #psychopathfree #traumabonding #nocontact #poem #poetry #quotes #survivinganarc
I knew I would be okay, when you were stalking your exes on social media, chuckling, commenting on how after you each one looked to “get their life together”. You didn’t take advantage of weak women. You took for granted our power to be resilient, because after you we realized our worth. #letitgo #healing #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #womensticktogether #standtogether #empowerment #abuse #abusesurvivor #survivor #happy #ptsd #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #quotes #believe #selflove #chooseyourself #winning #prayforyou #praying #did #dissociativeidentitydisorder
Narcissism is an incurable disease that only inflicts pain on innocent individuals, especially children (when they are involved). #UnnecessaryPain #Narcissist #Awareness #Coparenting #NotCounterParenting
Psychopaths and Narcissists have a lot in common: the need to dominate, lack of empathy, sense of entitlement, superficially charming, and extremely manipulative. The only protection from these predators is knowledge of their behaviors, and courage to disengage. #narcissist
Drake gives me the fucken creeps, he reeks of the Nice Guy syndrome. I've never bought into his fake ass sweet sensitive guy act, his energy is awful. And it has stumped me how people just fall all over themselves for that shit, people actually like to listen to his pathetic whining and they pay money to listen to him project his victim complex onto them. I mean, has anyone actually listened to his lyrics?? He is the type of scumbag that thinks you're his gf after having a coffee with him, and then stalks you on all your social media and sends you playlists of Ed Sheeran* songs... And now he's texting "I miss you" to a teenage girl?? WHAT THE FUCK. Do you know why "men" like that go after children? Because adults won't tolerate their shit, and children are easier to trick, fool, lie to, control and manipulate. And it makes me furious that not only do so many people not care about this, they will think it's "cute" or "sweet" or some bullshit enabling adjective that validates PREDATORY behaviour. OR they will actually be jealous of Millie Bobby Brown for being targeted by a sexual predator... In true Narcissist style, everything he does for the public and his career is fake AF and is meticulously engineered to uphold a certain image and fool people. I mean, that video where he gave people money?? Are you kidding me?? Who fell for that??? FAKE. Duh, its the music industry. It is a literal cesspool of demons and vampires... Why doesn't anyone else see what a wolf in sheeps clothing he is?? I feel like I'm taking crazy pills here!! HE IS A FAKE. HE IS A CREEP. And now we also know: HE IS A PREDATOR. FUCK DRAKE. AND EVERY MAN ON THIS LIST. . . *Sheeran is another soulless dead eyed creep who makes the bile rise in my throat. . . Pics: ➡️➡️➡️Regrann from @badassbrownactivist ⬅️⬅️⬅️ - 👈🏽 Swipe // Drake's equation with Millie Bobby Brown is NOT “friendship”. It cannot be made to sound appropriate in any fashion. - . . . 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 #wordofgoddess #sexualpredators #predators #childabuse #protectchildren #manipulation #emotionalabuse #emotionalmanipulation #mentalabuse #possessiveness #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #redflags
Regrann from @the.little.shaman - It's a favorite argument of narcissists and other toxic people: ❤ If you would do A, then I could do B. You won't, so I can't. ❤ If you wouldn't do A, then I wouldn't do B. You do, so I do. ❤ If I were getting _____ from you, I wouldn't have to try to get it from other people. ❤ It comes down to the same thing every time. "It's your fault." This is all an excuse. It isn't your fault if someone cannot do the things they need or want to do. It's their own lack of desire and unwillingness to take responsibility. Don't take responsibility for someone else's behavior. They make their own choices and if someone really wants to do something - or stop doing something - they will. ❤ #radicalacceptance #hippie #indigochild #rasta #rainbowchild #starchild #bohemian #empath #enlightenment #journey #healing #happiness #hippiegirl #shaman #spirituality #spiritual #ascension #natural #toxicrelationships #selfhelp #selflove #selfcare #abuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #recovery #love #inspirationalquotes #motivationalquotes
Absolutely accurate...It hurt and then it made me wiser. It made me stronger. It made me smarter. #narcissist
A great song for me to start the day with 😍🔥💖💖💖 🎶 • • • • • • • • • • • • #music #vibes #goodmorning #goodvibes #sundayvibes #whatamidoing #the1975 #norome #matthewhealy #adamhann #rossmacdonald #georgedaniel #narcissist #whatamidoing #spamaccount #spam #idkwhatimdoing #yeet
This is part one of an interview of a male survivor from female narcissistic abusers. I hope this helps men who feel alone in their experience and it brings awareness that women can be abusers as well. Please stay tuned for the rest of the interview love you guys. I want to thank the male survivor for his bravery in completing the interview @ispeakmotivate . . . . . #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #npd #maleabuse #toxicwomen #psychologicalabuse #borderlinepersonality #bdp #narcabuse #narcissism #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #clusterb #crazymaking #mindgames #liar #malignantnarcissist #blameshifting #lies #covertnarcissist #abuse #gossips #femalenarcissist #gaslighting #flyingmonkeys #mentalabuse #survivors #enablers #narcissists #smearcampaigns
Highlighter brighter than the future✨ #narcissist
Gaslighting... Look that one up if you haven't heard about it. They light you up to watch you burn, and they totally enjoy the fire🔥! Gag @#ptsdrecovery #ptsdandme #ptsd #cptsdawareness #ptsd #coping #trauma #narcissist #psychopath #sociopath #loveisrespect #abusesurvivor
The physical abuse itself is not the worst. The emotional abuse itself is not the worst. The worst part is the lies you believe, that eventually rip away your self worth, your personality, your confidence, and your sanity. This is the greatest challenge one might overcome in their life. . . #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #abusedwomen #abuseawareness #willieverbegoodenough #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticmother #youcandoit #overcome #abuserecovery #divorcequotes #divorcesupport #singlemom #singledad #singleparents
When someone constantly puts you down, leaves you feeling like you can't do anything right, or makes you feel worthless and bad about yourself in general, just know that you did nothing wrong and that this isn't love, it's emotional abuse. Walk away! Please, protect yourself.
Never considered myself a feminist before. I never felt "weak", and I absolutely NEVER wanted to admit defeat. I understood racism from an early age, but I NEVER realized the biases AGAINST MYSELF that had so insidiously been instilled in me just by existing in a sexist culture. Did you know that up until the 1970s that Domestic Violence didn't have a name? How about 1985 Thurman v. Torrington? Did you know that in 1992 the U.S. Surgeon General ranked abuse by husbands to be the leading cause of injuries to women ages 15-44? How clear are you on the signs of someone who is experiencing domestic violence? Let's get educated, and stop the cycle of abuse! • • • • • #narcissist #domesticviolence #abuse #sociopath #psychopath #boundaries #survivor #divorce #ptsd #activism #feminism #causes #feminist #triangulation #survivor2016 #dogood #philanthropy #activist #fundraising #avataratakan #socialgood #nonprofit #atakanarslan #volunteer #teamavatar #donate #equality #atakan #filthyfrank #animalliberation
There are people in the world, the masters of disguises, who wear masks to hide the true person they loathe deep down. I never realized someone could work so hard to maintain this false self; to lie and coerce, to pretend to be nice, just to get supply to bolster their ego. Don’t be fooled, these empty people can never love, and they actually hate themselves. When the mask starts to slip, and you call them out, thats when they shut you out, give the silent treatment and rage at you to regain control. They can be angry, but you cannot. Paradoxically, it’s the caring, empathic and good natured people that attract these narcissists because they feed the wolf and give them the validation they so desperately crave. And all that’s left is confusion and hurt. But also awareness and knowledge! Because once you’ve suffered narcissistic abuse, you can spot these wolves in sheep’s clothing, see the emptiness in their eyes, and stay far far away. . . #protectyourself #empaths #empathproblems #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #bnw #shadowhunters #shadows #bnw_captures #bnwmood #bnw_fanatics #bnw_sundays #bnw_greatshots #igersbnw #sandiego #balboapark #artmuseum #sandiegomuseumofart #artmuseum #sculpture #tv_bnw #pocket_bnw #bw_perfect #bw_addiction #soulgrowth #empathsbelike #intuition #redflags #narcsurvivor #npdawareness
Happy that I finally have eyebrows!#latergram #narcissist
In case you forgot today.
I need to work on that. #Repost @narcissist.in.our.lives • • • • • Time and energy are precious commodities, don’t waste it on people who don’t truly deserve it, especially people who don’t appreciate you, abuse, abuse and use you. Hasn’t the narc and their entourage sucked enough of your time and energy. Don’t waste another second. Move forward and up! Those are your two goals. They do not define you, their choices and behaviors define who they are, not you. #narcissist #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #psychologicalabuse #narcissists #enablers #covertnarcissist narcissism #femalenarcissist #smearcampaigns #lies #liar #flyingmonkeys #malignantnarcissist #enablers #survivors #crazymaking #mindgames #slander #gossips one word #karma #healing #selfcare #moveon
Sucks but it’s SO true. When your life has been turned upside down by abuse, anger is a common emotion that pops up at various times in the healing cycle. For me it showed up after the complete breakdown, hurt, self-loathing phase. I had finally walked into my power, looked back at the experience and said “AWWW HELL NAW! HE’S GONNA PAY FOR (insert your trauma here). I was ready to go scorched earth and make him feel every bit of what I felt and more. Unfortunately, this doesn’t work. Narcissists do not operate on the same moral plane and do not/will not ever see their actions as wrong or painful to others. They simply DO NOT CARE. It is a waste of energy, opens you up to a renewed cycle of pain when you don’t get the desired result from the revenge and most importantly-it delays your compete healing: you end up burned....again. Here’s the alternative: 1. Do YOUR work-focus on your healing. 2. Is there accountability that you need to take? No this is NOT victim blaming. A huge step in going from victim to survivor and WARRIOR is recognizing what was going on in us that attracted the narcissist. I was a child scarred by sexual abuse who had no sense of worth. I didn’t know better and let the monsters in. It took me years to recognize it, admit it and then work through it. This is hard/deep work but it is crucial to breaking the cycle of attracting abusive relationships. 3. LET IT GO-letting go means setting goals for yourself, rebuilding what was lost emotionally, financially, spiritually and physically. Put that energy HERE instead of thinking about revenge. Healing is not a linear process and that’s OK! There will be bouts of hurt, anger, rage, tears and despair so deep you can’t get out of bed...but you will and you will HEAL! Take it slow and be kind to yourselves 💕
Took me til tonight to teach myself Adobe Premier. Grateful for YouTube for answering my questions. 📷 This video answers why I do this... link in bio ✨ #grayrock #nocontact #blacksheep #cptsd #ifmywoundswerevisible #metoo #narcissist #narcissism #psychopath #npd #abuse #lies #manipulation #lovebombing #stalking #redflags #narcissisticinjury #predator #recovery #truth #trustyourgut #selfawareness #insight #integrity ✌🏻 💕 ⚡️Join the @gray_rock movement 🗿
"you are not responsible for others behavior towards you but you are ALWAYS responsible for your REACTION" . . Next time someone treats you badly and you want to respond negatively to them, remember this! You're only responsible for you stay above them! . . Next time someone says they treated you badly because they were just "reacting to you" remember this! They made a choice! . . . . . . . #quotes #love #life #quotestoliveby #quoteoftheday #words #quotesdaily #motivationalquotes #quotesaboutlife #instagood #beautiful #quotestagram #story #peace #positivevibes #instaquotes #writersofinstagram #strength #quotesforlife #thegoodquote #inspirationalquotes #writer #reaction #responsibility #fault #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #sociopath #psychopath
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