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The narcs enablers and flying monkeys should be treated the same way you now treat the narc ...... NO CONTACT ....Your real friends will support you. I’ve made a few lovely friends since I became free from the narc! 😊 #narcissisticabuse #narcissistenablers #flyingmonkeys #survivor #healing #recovery
Never go back once you’ve been brave enough to end the relationship..... NO CONTACT! #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence #domesticabuse #nocontact
‘What it takes to come alive. . .’ This was a photoshoot taken during a severe depression, due to a narcissist, a few years ago. I did all I could to survive and live through it. Creative expression is vital to me. Life affirming. Comforting. Grounding. Powerful. As you can see, my hair is unwashed. It was hard to do simple tasks. To care for myself. My spirit felt pulverized. However, I came through the otherside. Stronger. Brighter. Bolder. Fiercer. Amen. ❤️ We can take the experience and: Transmute. Transform. Crystallize. Integrate. And become more than the sum of the so called mistake. And become greater than ever. More magnificent. I feel tremendous gratitude. It brought me to hell but made me realize how heavenly I am in the end. Amen. ❤️ #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #narcs #narcissistsurvivor #recovery #recoveryquotes #healing #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abuse #affirmation #photoshoot #portraitphotography #portraits #selflove #selfcare #creativeexpression #creativephotography #depression #heartbroken #grief #sorrow #shadowwork #sadness #heartbreak #selfiesforselflove #gratitude
Some people are just manipulative, lying, evil, negative and miserable pieces of shit and most likely will die that way. Dont let those kinds of people destroy you or your happiness. 🙏🏾🙌🏾🛑🙅🏾‍♂️🧛🏾‍♂️🧛🏾‍♀️🧟‍♀️🧟‍♂️ #dontbefooled #energyneverlies #bewareofdemons #demonsexist #archons #manipulators #narcissisticabuse
So, what if your abuser, in and of himself, is simply irrelevant and unimportant? And he's merely a #catalyst for change? What if that’s what ALL of these abusers we -- on this page — have experienced, really represent? The Universe sends you a specific and deeply unpleasant, un-ignorable experience in the shape of a fellow human being. That experience FORCES you to stop, reflect, and implement major changes. The changes are always ultimately positive. It’s like a spiritual coming of age. If the Universe sent you a person/experience that was just mildly unpleasant, you wouldn’t necessarily feel motivated to dig deep and make changes would you? What prompted me to ask this question and share these thoughts with you? Well, earlier this week it dawned on me that despite having been through the circus of #gaslighting #Crazymaking etc that we've all been through, I actually now feel even happier than I've ever felt. Because the severity of the situation (I'm actually pregnant by the abuser) forced me to do really deep #SoulWork /#LifeAfterNarc #Healing #Manifestation #Authenticity #catalystforchange #lifeisbeautiful #love #narcabuse #transformation #selfrealization #gratitude #purpose #livingoutloud #comingofage #truthteller #transmutation #spiritualalchemy #npd #narcissisticabuse
Defending yourself against a narcissist is futile .... they twist all your words, everything you say will be used against you in a twisted way! #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #narcissisticabuseawareness
Some people have confused grace and enabling... you know the people... the people who try to tell you that the narc isn’t all that bad, that everyone has flaws and shortcomings... that maybe they are having a hard time, that we all need to give the benefit of the doubt and give the grace we would want to have... blah blah blah... when there is a huge difference between a repenting sorrowful regretful ***changing*** individual and then someone who purposely behaves with an evil heart. Some people just can’t or won’t acknowledge that evil really exists... . . #enabler #enabling #flyingmonkey #enable #narcissism #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #sociopaths #sociopath #psychology #abuse #domesticabuse #liars #domesticviolence #strongmom #alienation #parentalalienation #custody #custodybattle #battles #lifelesson #realtalk 💯 #truthbomb #texasblogger #fortworthtx #fortworthblogger #dfwblogger #gracepowerstrength
A narc always leaves us to navigate life’s storms on our own... I began questioning why I needed my ex when I was married... he was always gone traveling for work. Yes, some would argue that he was working and providing. Yet that’s where it began and ended. Because whether he was there or not he wasn’t there. When he was gone he was gone. I was always having to navigate it all myself. When he was home he was still not home because he was mentally checked out. On his phone. Working. He used work as his escape. I was left navigating kids, the home, crises related to the kids and my own crises that cropped up. A narc leaves you on your own. So we can ask ourselves... why do we need them? We don’t. ☔️ The trick in life is finding someone who you want in your life, who truly WANTS you in theirs and shares the burden of life’s storms, their umbrella and the joy of sunshine. 🌞 . . . #rhianna #undermyumbrella #storms #lifelesson #lovelessons #rainstorm #lifebattles #challenges #realtalk 💯 #truth 💯 #narcissisticabuse #narc #sociopath #letdown #truelovequotes #workaholics #selfishpeople #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #fortworthtx #fortworthblogger #texasblogger #dallasblogger #gracepowerstrength
Follow my colleague & friend @dr.nataliejones and @therapyforblackgirls #Repost @dr.nataliejones with @get_repost ・・・ Great time chatting about narcissism and gaslighting on @therapyforblackgirls with @hellodrjoy ! Such an amazing show! #drnataliejonespsydlpcc #adatewithdarkness #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #relationshipwithnarcissist #blackmentalhealth
When Little Red Riding Hood defeats the wolf • poetry collection @ shopcatalog.com/she-who-destroys-the-light 🐺 #narcissisticabuse #poetsofinstagram #poetryoninstagram #poems #poemsofinstagram #fairytales
Verbal abuse is domestic violence. . ✅yelling ✅insults ✅mocking ✅sarcastic comments ✅threats ✅disregard for feelings ✅cursing ✅manipulation ✅name calling . #domesticviolence #verbalabuse #survivor #emotionalabuse #mentalhealthawareness #dvisnotok #manipulation #liar #abuse #exes #sarcasm #insults #injury #criticism #empath #hurt #recovery #selfworth #selfesteem #badrelationships #toxicpeople #awareness #narcissisticabuse
Want to know the secret to enduring, escaping, healing, and growing from and after abuse? It's exactly this. ☝🏼 Look for Christ. If we are looking for our answers anywhere else, we fall short. There may be temporary relief, but never a solution to an actual problem. Relationship with Christ is the whole point of everything. If we don't look for Him during the good, we won't be ready when the bad strikes. Look for Christ. . . . #Seeking #Relationships #Healing #EscapingAbuse #Heartache #Overcome #BreakUp #Divorce #Abuse #HealingFromAbuse #LifeAfterAbuse #DomesticViolence #DomesticAbuse #IfMyWoundsWereVisible #EmotionalAbuse #VerbalAbuse #MentalAbuse #PsychologicalAbuse #SpiritualAbuse #NarcissisticAbuse #Stressed #Anxiety #Depression #Suicidal #MentalHealth
Hey, Good-looking! 👉🏻If you have a “narc” in your life ... remember this post. You’re not “crazy” or a “drama queen”. Projection 101 is at play. Keep loving you! ❤️🙏🏻💪🏻 . . . #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narc #abuse #mentalhealth #verbalabuse #disorder #ptsd #dramaqueen #2lemons_lime
Oh you reckon? 🙄 I’d really like an off switch for my head today please. Flashbacks (in the sense of completely losing yourself at that moment) are new to me. For somebody who has carried the label of CPTSD for almost 10 years in terms of behaviours and symptoms -this is sort of still new. In the past year alone I’ve probably experienced flashbacks on 6 separate occasions. Two of these came within moments of each other this morning. What caused it? Well stuff was on the brain but I think it was a song that came on Spotify. The physical responses I had was probably the most unpleasant bit. Anyway, overthinking is hard. And I need to be working harder in therapy as I’ve been keeping it light and fluffy recently but light and fluffy doesn’t give you closure. But to me I just don’t see why anybody would want to know the in’s and out’s of my experiences. I think if I’m exhausted then everyone else must be really bored 😕 #cptsd #trauma #recovery #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence #therapy #counselling #cbt #flashbacks #overthinking
I know it's not easy. I know you have so much invested in this person: time, emotion, love, hopes and dreams. But if someone is making you unhappy... if someone if bringing you more pain than peace... if someone is making you feel like you are alone... you're going to be happier is you are actually alone... spending time with yourself, healing the wounds within you, bettering yourself so that you can meet someone who will be able to give you all the things you actually deserve. Moving on is never easy, but sometimes it's your best and only option. 💙 • Always here if you need to chat 💙 • • • • • #trusttheprocess #hurt #faithoverfear #sadquotes #strength #courage #growth #healing #selflove #mentalillness #struggle #brokenheart #mentalhealth #breakup #survivor #improvement #reminder #anxiety #depression #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotion #pain #emotional
#OMG #ILoveThis !!! Once I realized this, it was soooooo much easier NOT to miss him! It’s like a weight has been lifted off of me...#sohardtoexplain 🤭🤭🤭. . . #sociopath #psychopath #narcissist #sex #addict # #narcissisticabuse #nolove #selflove #selfhate #confused #riseabove #moveon #moveup #keepclimbing
Coming across other pages with people who have experienced #narcissisticabuse from someone they love(d), makes me believe together we all can make a movement. I’m going to start speaking out more and more with the publicity I’m receiving. Multiple news sources, magazines, and others of superior power, have reached out to me to lend a hand of support. I am ready to speak up for you all. I am happy together, we are all a team. You all are in my heart every day - even though we have never met - we have experienced similar heartbreak and disaster. I am here for you, and I will speak out for you! . . . . #publicspeaking #progress #successful #interview #Awareness #narcissist #narcissism #Narc #Abuse #Relationship #RelationshipProblems #Advice #Team #Unite #United #AbuseAwareness
My video isn’t uploading to IG. I’ll keep trying though. Click my FB link in my bio to watch the video covering Financial Abuse! #financialabuse #domesticabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #awarness #speakyourtruth #shareyourstory
#Narcissism is real. Feeling like there needs to be more light shed on this subject. Having survived years of #abuse from a narc and finally escaped #helpingothers will also help myself #narcissisticabuse #narcknowledge #narcissist
Thank you. I'm speaking up because I'm emotionally tired. I feel like there is no way out. I'm going to try my hardest to break free from it. It has to end today. #melaniemartinez #emitionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #littlebodybigheart 🌹✨🌹✨
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He did this with his mother. She would come at me like he would do behind closed doors and he would just stand back and smile that ugly, smug smile he has when he gets his way. His mom, his brother, and him are a lot alike, so to have three narcs coming at you is like not knowing how to swim and being thrown into a shark tank. I’m so glad I left, all 3 of them spoke badly of me to my children—but my children know the truth. Mommy is nothing like what dad, uncle, and nana claim I am. ————————— #narcissisticabuse #ptsd #abuseawareness #domesticabuse #hypocrites #domesticviolencesurvivor #awareness #narcissist #projection #narcissistic #sociopaths #shaming #malignant #flyingmonkeys #abusesurvivor #victimawareness #narcopath #gaslighting #shewalksalone 🦋
Move out day was one year ago, which means I'm one year into recovery. Link to blog in bio. #abusesurvivor #abuserecovery #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #ptsd #depression #abuseawareness
Sometimes I hate using social media as a soap box but 🤷🏻‍♀️ anyone else find out they had a cheating spouse?? I am not humiliated or have any shame or pride..why should I??? #exposethesepeople they are the ones that should feel bad! Not you! That’s all a part of their tactic #cheatingspouse #cheaters #cheater #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #liarsbelike #liar #cheatersexposed #cheatersbelike #dontfeelbad #cheatinghusband #beingcheatedon #exposed #weboflies #ilovemyself
They don't care how broke you are, you could have $10.00 in your bank account, they will do their best to get that $10.00, and then make promises to pay you back. Nah, not today, and not anymore. #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #financialadvisor #financialabuse #moocher #mooching #toxic #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #user #addiction #manipulation #liars #deceitful #fraudulent #fake #snake #rat #bastard
You can try to justify their words + actions all you like, but the bottomline is... if they loved you, they wouldn’t abuse you. ~ ✌🏽➕🖤
Learning so much about myself in the grueling and sometimes astonishing healing journey! I have been vegan for about 4 months and about 90% raw and it’s been a trip to say the least! Without too much detail, I have suffered chronic digestive disorder, anxiety/panic disorder, joint pain, massive food intolerance and chronic fatigue all of my 56 years of life...on top of it I was married to a narcissist who, even after 18 years of divorce, still runs a smear campaign that rivals even the most well planned election campaign!! God is taking me through painstaking surgery to open up and reveal the many ways that I’ve learned to cope that are counter productive to my healing and living in peace. It’s agonizing at times and has left me feeling like a “fish out of water” ... literally not knowing what to do with myself as I’m being stripped bare, left feeling so exposed and vunerable...BUT GOD. Oh He is so present and so involved in all the smallest of details. I am so grateful for Him every minute of my days and I know without a doubt, that He is bringing me through it and there is healing on the other side! He gave me a wonderful verse from Luke back in 2009 and I still cling to it like a lifeline...”daughter, you took a risk of faith and now you are healed and whole” ... I remind Him of this promise every day! 😉 As I was meeting with our Pastor for some spiritual support and direction he told me God was giving him these words...”REST NOT WRESTLE” ... and ohhhh was that so right on for me and my whole life! I have been fighting the demons and asking God to help and now I see I need to let go and let God fight the battle and I can then just rest in Him. . BREATHE and keep it simple. . Praising my amazing Father in Heaven for all that He is doing in me and this new season He is bringing me to. Excited in the midst of the hardship to see where it brings me and how He will use me! . 🙏🏼🦋💗🙏🏼🦋💗🙏🏼🦋💗 . Artwork by me (Artful Inspirations By Sue🦋)
SUCH important advice -- write it on a post it if need be but remember to carefully choose your battles. This is a marathon, not 5k. Lots of battles but only one war. #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #NPD #OMB #divorcinganarcissist
from @respectthequeenllc - After speaking with spiritually bankrupt women of all ages and walks of life, I realized that there needs to be a safe but sacred space that encourages sisters to “LET GO!” Broken Pieces : “From Trauma to Transformation “ is the moment we’ve been yearning for. We will strategically blend our love for “Girl Talk” with holistic healing coping mechanisms to catapult sisters into living their best life yet. “Broken Pieces” intimate 2 Day OVERNIGHT HEALING therapeutic retreat that focuses on the emotional, mental and spiritual healing of women who have experienced trauma. Space is limited to 10 sisters to protect the sacredness, and encourage transparency, vulnerability and thought-provoking life changing conversations. I’m humbled and honored to lend my 15 years of professional and personal experience with drug addiction and recovery, as well as my 30 year journey of overcoming childhood trauma, rape, incest, single motherhood, parental neglect, domestic violence,etc to guide my fellow sisters from traumatized to transformed. We’ve only got a few spots left. We have speakers from Houston, Dallas, Philly and Atlanta attending. Our tribe consist of yoga instructors, licensed mental health clinicians, MAC certified makeup artist, Spiritist, Chakra & Reiki Healing experts, Color Therapy Strategist, Master of Psychology, Certified Massage Therapist, etc. Grab your ticket because we will SELL OUT! www.rtqpresentsbrokenpieces.eventbrite.com VENDOR & SPONSOR OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE #heal #healingvibes #healing #healingcrystals #healingstones #healingquotes #healingenergy #healingfoods #healinghearts #healingjourney #healingtrauma #trauma #rape #molestation #pain #incest #mentalhealth #mentalillness #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #depression #ptsd #positivevibes #positive #positivethinking #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #FemaleFlow
He’s good at telling you what you want to hear, but when the times comes to deliver on his promises you will realize they were just empty words. He will promise you a house, a car, a vacation, a wedding, but he will make excuses and put it off because he never planned on following through. He will call you his soulmate and true love. He will tell you he’s never loved another like he loves you. It’s all part of his twisted game to control and drain you. He talked a good game to lure you into his web of deceit. You stay because you want to believe in him, but you’ll spend your days dreaming about a life he will never give you and the promises he will never keep. In the end you will feel like a shell of the woman you used to be. Be strong, build yourself back up, show him that you are UNBREAKABLE. #emotionalmanipulation #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #sociopath #personalitydisorder #liarsbelike #rhsin
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