d o n t . d a r e . a . d a r e r
- it’s funny how we think so rigorously about how we want our life to be, and we try to move in the direction of the things we dream of... but in all reality, whether you consider our efforts or not, every single thing that has ever happened to us has still just been an enormous amount of coincidences colliding at the right time. I mean, when you really look at the complexity of any given moment, and the amount of things that had to happen for it to line up - it’s too riddled with variables for you to have planned it to be exactly that way. Think of a wedding day for example, the most planned day of a lifetime... never goes to plan, but still ends up perfect. Or think of it this way: If we were strip away our efforts in life, who’s to say that other equally as desirable things mightn’t happen? As in, what if your lack of planning somehow concocted a different set of coincidences that you may suit you more? Look, I just think it’s calming to consider that the life we didn’t plan may be equally as great as the one we did... and with that in mind it’s a little easier to slow down and relax.