So when I did the “Ask me anything” thing, SOO many people asked me if my marriage was arranged or love.
And I am sorry for laughing at that but OhmyGod the question itself is so hilarious.
My marriage is completely arranged. Completely. 💁🏻♀️🙌🏼
The reason why it’s hilarious is not 3 years before my bestfriend had dubbed me the worst wife ever and Rafee and I to be the worst couple ever.
She couldn’t have been more right.
We were quite honestly that!🤦🏻♀️
Rafee was the perfect husband from day One but I was a nightmare.
And the problem wasn’t that I didn’t like him or anything, I just didn’t want to be married so young and bear all the responsibilities that were being handed to me.
I wanted to be wild and free like every girl my age was. 🦋
So anyway when we got married almost 4 years ago, I decided to be the worst wife ever so that Rafee would want to get rid of me. And you guys have no idea about the things that I used to do to him.
I would intentionally burn his shirts(when he rarely gave them to me to iron), I would burn his food and I would be the rudest person that ever existed.
One time I remember, he gave me a button to sew on his shirt and I stitched his sleeves together. 🙊😂
And Rafee the amazing person that he is would mostly laugh at things that I did, like it was some joke that I was playing.
Which it wasn’t and I remember how irritated I would be at why he wouldn’t get angry at me like any normal person would. 🤷🏻♀️
So anyway, time flew by and I slowly realised what an IDIOT I was being.
I didn’t want a marriage that was hollow.
Allah had given me the perfect perfect husband (mashAllah se) and I was being super ungrateful.
It’s that day and today when people actually think our marriage is love.
You have no idea how happy your questions made me(after I was finished laughing)
Alhamdulillah for that. 🌸