I don’t know why this is a concept so foreign for so many...still
We all have our ‘things’ that turn us on.
Men, usually and for the most part are visually stimulated - you have the ‘leg men’, the ‘breast men’, the ‘ass men’ etc. etc. etc.
Even women are sparked by the physical attributes of a potential partner, initially. But mostly, we are most responsive to the emotional stimulation. That communication of their partners desire for them, through words and of course actions.
Of course, both sexes know that there has to be more than a ‘pretty’ body to keep our interest.
But the biggest challenge as a woman, (in my opinion and from most of the women I know!) is the consistency of that mental stimulation. Especially in this super-fast paced world, distractions are plenty, everyone’s busy, everyone’s hustling...we need to make time to express our natural desires.
Sex needs to start in the mind, long before you touch. It’s a constant build up, done through simple things, a text, a phone call, a note, a look.
Foreplay isn’t a 10 minute warm-up
Get each other excited about each other, every chance you get ~
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