I’m pushing myself for more than just a paycheck, for more than just a job or a hobby...I was meant for a BIGGER purpose, and I’m not stopping anytime soon 💕
In life, our priorities change with time. At one point we feel that love is the only thing we would want in our life. But then suddenly, NEWS FLASH. Reality check. You cannot need only love in your life. You cannot eat love when you're hungry. You cannot go to love when u need a job. If love brings you together, it also holds the power to move u apart. It demands to be understood and to be felt.
Love is like living in your sweet pretty lullaby which u really enjoy with all your heart. But eventually, you have to wake up someday and come out of it. This does not mean that u no more like the lullaby. It's just that u need to get out of it for some time to focus on stuff that is more important right now!
PRIORITIES do change. We see a new phase in love over time. Sometimes love is not the supreme commodity. We need to push love to the backstage for some time so as to progress and achieve something else. And love should never become the barrier in reaching our destination nor can it become our destination. Love is a journey. A never ending journey which we never want to leave. In order to reach our destination we sometimes need to concentrate on it forgetting about the pleasant journey.
But this does not mean that the love is lost or we do not need it anymore. We need it, just like we need food to eat or friends to share our feelings with or a settled life. We might feel sometimes that the other person is not into the relationship as much as we are but, this is when u need to COMMUNICATE because a relationship and love is about mutual efforts.
If it is an important part of u and your life then no distance can pull u apart. All u need to do is give in all u can and that is when you'll realise the importance of love in your life. After you realise what someone means to you, even if you have other priorities it wouldn't matter because love will prevail.
If it's love and if you do care, it would not matter what the priorities or distances are. Just need to be there for each other whenever needed and the most important aspect is to let the other person know that you are there. Love will do the rest!! :)