Who the person is now determines everything for now. There's always the possibility that who you hope they become will never happen, then what? There's always the possibility that you believe in them more than they believe in themselves. However, what happens if they never see themselves the way you do? You would've have gone through ups, and downs, with someone who doesn't share your visions, or have the confidence to achieve them. From another view point, the way in which a person treats you now, is the way you should deal with them as well. The way they dealt with you before has no bearing to the here and now. In the same way, you can't use groceries from months ago to feed you today. You shouldn't have to beg someone to treat you properly, especially after addressing your issues over, and over again. If you do, it's a perfect example of the other person not caring, or respecting you. Don't settle. Don't be afraid to let go, and have them grow on their own, and potentially cross paths with you in the future once they become what you need them to be for both your sakes. If they aren't in whatever position you need them to be for you to grow, and be as happy as possible, then be with someone who is. Money can "easily" be attained, so the focus shouldn't be on what's in their account, as it should be on their attitude to get money, along with their attitude in general. Not to mention their character, and integrity, followed by the way they see themselves, including you. Them having a great personality is fine, and dandy, but those are surface level traits. Too many people are getting hung up on the potential of others, along with good looks, and allowing more than enough time for the other person to live up to their potential. Only to be disappointed, with the addition of making up unnecessary excuses as to why things are the way they are, or why the person behaves the way they do. Pay attention to the red flags, and again don't settle!
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