"SOME PEOPLE HAVE A TROUBLE BUBBLE....
YOU STEP IN THEIR BUBBLE, YOU GOT TROUBLE." ~Dr. Shawn Horn 😉
Be intentional about who you invite into your life. Assess wisely....you have a choice. 💜
Here are some traits to avoid: gossip, critical/judgemental mindset, entertained by conflict, unwilling to accept influence, avoidance of emotions, quick to anger, bitterness, jealousy, envy, vengefulness, "knows all the answers", "one upping", unwilling to hear your point of view, belittles others, abusive in any way, non-reciprocal, entitled insensitive, rejects correction, inflexible thoughts....yikes this list is icky. Lets look at the otherside!
Safe people: loving. kind, patient, personally accountable, open to conflict resolution, humble, forgiving, comfortable with being uncomfortable, able to agree to disagree, open and appreciates correction, desires (and does) lift people up, celebrates your successes, says they are inspired by you vs. jealous etc., want the best for you, accepts and celebrates your individuality and uniquiness, emotionally avaiable, reciprocal, gives as much as they recieve, grateful, generous, able to see how their feelings and emotions affect others (reflective functioning), not abusive, uses words intentionally for the best interest of others, desires to make a positive impact on this worls, is accountable, honest, ethical, values and nutures relationships, accepts their imperfection (and others), pursues wisdom....this is a good list to get started!
What traits do you look for? How do you recognize a safe person?
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