Sometimes people say your from SC why are you so rude. I have not always lived here. And let me tell you something I have learned as a well travelled person. Sometimes you waste so much time being nice and beating around the bush. Just be honest with people. Save yourself the time and headaches. It’s ok to get rejected it happens to everyone. Its not ok to be depressed about this. Seek professional counseling if needed. I have with certain things in life and it helps. You cannot always control the cards your were dealt in life but you can be the best person you can no matter what background you come from!