So let me be honest with you about my relationship & @twoamplifiedsouls
insta is all about the truth behind the pretty pics.
What’s more true is that my relationship is like a roller-coaster. Some days Mr. Vardhan and I are madly in love and can’t believe how lucky we were to have found each other. Other days we can’t even be in the same room and we wonder why we’re even together. Sometimes that all happens within the span of a few hours.
Here’s the thing that most people miss. These ups and downs don’t have to mean anything about our relationship, who we are, or our chances of staying together. They are a natural part of life. Just as the weather changes, so does our mood.
We(as in all) live under the illusion that everyone else is always happy. If we believe people when they say, “everything is great!” or get lost in what people post on Facebook (a.k.a. their relationship highlight reel) we might start to think that we’re the only ones who aren’t floating through cloud nine on magic carpets, feeding our partners strawberries while singing love songs in perfect harmony.
When our image of everyone else is that they are happy all the time and we’re not, it’s like watching an incredible party through a window, but you can’t go in. When you think you’re the only person that struggles, it’s a lonely place to be. It’s hard to speak up, since you assume no one else can relate to what you’re going through.
So you are not alone, everyone in relationships are going through that. Vishnu and I are taking baby steps to know each other better, facing our insecurities and sharing our moments of relief.
All I would like to say in the end is, if your relationship isn’t ‘ALWAYS PERFECT’ then that’s ‘REAL’.
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