Relationships can be hard. Relationships with friends, family members, significant others, and especially yourself! Relationships, whatever kind they are, are a lot of work. They take time, effort, and practice. You need to choose to fight and show up for each one every single day. Of course, some moments will seem effortless while others feel impossible. That’s how life works. Just as many downs as there are ups. Just as many challenges to face, as there are moments of sun to bask in. Yesterday my mom said something to me that really put things into perspective when it comes to relationships, she said “You can’t pull on a flower and expect it to grow faster. Flowers grow and bloom at their own pace, when they are ready.” That hit me hard. Sometimes we all need to take a step back and instead of tugging on the roots, water and nourish that beautiful plant. Give it love and nurture, support and strength. Accept it at all stages of it’s growth and progress whenever they may happen, because each one is beautiful. We need to let go of the need to control, and just let life happen. Remind yourself of this next time you go through a rough patch with a friend, a partner, a parent, and especially yourself. 🌷💕
When I was little, I remember walking with my Dad @stogieskeletonkings
and talking about trust. What is trust? How does one trust?
So many questions and so many great answers.
I remember my father saying that he tends to trust people fully first, and then if that person makes moves to take away that trust, then the trust you have for this person slowly goes away. Until your on the infamous Warner Family Shitlist. XD
This has always worked really well for me. I've gotten myself into some really scary situations as a young female in weird places, with weird people, and trusting people first, with a touch of skepticism, has never failed me. "Trust is the union of intelligence and integrity." Let us just remember that love does not beget trust.
And trust, does not beget love.
Trust and love are not synonymous with each other. This is a lesson I have learned recently, and thought about changing my views on trust, even if it has served me well for all of these years. Sometimes you just need to have a cup of tea to assert some wisdom!
#parenting #trust #relationships #dad #father #bestdad #awesome #tea @yogitea
#seretonin #office #desk #thoughts #life #heartache #fatherdaughter #yogi #smart #beget #wisdom
Timing.. This can apply to a lot in your life: relationships, work, school, etc.
You ever meet the perfect person?...but they're in a relationhip?
You ever want to go back to school and get a scholarship?...but you still dont have enough money for housing or your at home situation isnt ideal for you to leave?
Situations like that. All I can say is live in the chaos. Accept that maybe things just weren't the right time. Everything happens for a reason.
If today #december #13
is your #birthday
you are a Five of Clubs 5♣️ — Happy Birthday 🎈🎉🎁🎊🎂 Clubs are #symbolic
and how we think. #fiveofclubs
can be young souls that bring in a desire to explore new realms at least on a mental level. Usually when a 5♣️ shows up, it’s signaling a change in your life. Change of mind and plans describe 5♣️ best, always open to new plans, ideas and places to go. Versatile, restless, inquiring; forever seeking with an ever changing mind;
KARMIC CHALLENGE for the Five of Club: Honesty and Risk-taking
The positive natives of this card fight against their inherent restlessness, which otherwise lures them away from building a solid base. Those 5 of Club will then choose to educate themselves in some specialty that interests them, and will pursue it to a successful outcome.
is never easy for the 5 of Club as they are prone to jealousy and suspicion. They also experience changes in their mental attitudes towards their partner, which causes the marriage to falter.
The Five of Club must have an outlet for their natural keenness. #Education
is of supreme importance if they are to succeed in life. And peace of mind comes from a willingness to accept their #life
as it must be lived -- constructively! Source cards of life. #birthcard #numbers #universe #relationships #connections #card