If you’re man’s telling you what you can and can’t wear, he’s not your man. If he thinks he has control over your mind, body, choices and self-esteem, he belongs in grade prep.
Women are adults in charge of their OWN bodies and personal life choices. She’s wearing the clothes, so you can shut up. If you were wearing them, then wear what you like. But you ain’t.
Girls don’t need any permission from anybody to be who they are and who they wanna be. We’re not slaves, you’re not our rulers. We’re human beings.
If you think your girl’s going to attract attention from wearing what she wears, then yeah you’re right. She will. But you need to get the fuck over that because 1. You do think your girlfriend’s attractive don’t you? 2. You can’t stop other people from finding her attractive. 3. If you think she’s gonna leave you for someone else because they hit on her while she was wearing a certain outfit, you need to have a mature conversation with your partner about how insecure you are and how much trust issues you have, or how you don’t think you’re relationship is going well — not try to control her. And 4. Girls are not the reason for men staring and perving on them. Men have minds of their own and they should have self control. So why tf aren’t you men saying “fellas are you cool with other men disrespecting women the way that they do”?
Why do you try to tell your girlfriend to “respect herself” by being modest? You’re not respecting her by taking away her freedom and over sexualising her as a woman and a human being. Tell all the males to grow brains instead of boners and grow up to be real men who know how to treat women properly. She ain’t your property, and she will fucking leave you if you keep treating her as such.
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