Karena wanita itu adalah mahluk yang hatinya harus selalu dimenangkan.. Karena wanita itu adalah mahluk yang cintanya harus selalu di perjuangkan.. - @eetha_fitmoms
1. Worthy of a solid group of friends.
2. More than what you see in the mirror.
3. Greater than your doubts.
4. More capable than your parents think you are.
5. Allowed to change your mind over and over again until it feels right.
6. Better than your stressful desk job.
7. Capable of exploring the world.
8. Entitled to do what you want with your money despite others’ perceptions.
9. Doing enough.
Things I needed to tell myself today. Tag a friend who needs to hear them too.
Everything happens for you, not to you. 🌼
We interrupt our regularly scheduled Tuesday “Maintain Don’t Gain” check-in to bring you breaking news...the dress fits, I repeat the dress fits! 😁
Let me ask you a question...what do you have in your closet that you’ve been wishing you could wear and feel great in it? I’ve had this sweater dress for 2 years, but I’ve never felt confident enough to wear it until now. And it’s not that it didn’t fit before...it’s stretchy so I could have worn it. But I didn’t feel comfortable in it.
And to give you some perspective, I’m not a size 6...I’m not at my goal...I still have a squishy tummy that you can see in the dress. The horror! 😮 The point is...I feel confident. Confidence doesn’t come from the size of your clothes or your percentage of body fat.
Where does this confidence come from? For me, it comes from moving my body joyfully, doing workouts that elevate me, body and mind. It comes from knowing I’m treating my body with the love and respect I deserve. Working out and eating healthy food makes me feel good from the inside out.
And now back to my plan...the scale is finally back to where it was pre-Thanksgiving. It took some time, but it was a lesson in patience and perseverance. There are just 13 days left in 2018 and I’m not slowing down now! Time to go full throttle into 2019!!
Letter to my daughter ❤️
All I ever want for you is to go far beyond anything I’ve ever accomplished and to live your life to your fullest potential! If I can give your future self any advice, here it is!
❤️Go with your gut. It’s very rarely wrong.
❤️Go to a university, live in residence, and have fun. But get good grades. A degree will take you places.
❤️Take responsibility for your actions and apologize when you’re in the wrong.
❤️Don’t be afraid to fail.
❤️If he makes you cry anything but happy tears, he’s not worth it.
❤️Repeat after me: I. Can. Accomplish. Anything.
There are so many other things I could include in this list, but if you get nothing else out of me as your mom, I hope that I am able to show you love and respect in all things. You are strong, you are beautiful, and you are valuable. Don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise. And when you go out on your own, and life gets busy. I hope you know that I will be here for you to lean on. No judging. Just listening and offering love.
MOOD: Dreams Are Just Dreams Until We Wake Up To Reality And Start Making Real Life Happen...
You always matter... You may spend time on social media platforms complimenting famous people... You may leave comments to acknowledge achievements that have no impact on your personal life... 🌟🌟🌟🌟
What about your value? What have you done for yourself lately? Have you complimented yourself? Have you been fair to congratulate yourself? Are you happy with yourself? 🌟🌟🌟
You may have exhausted all your time and energy to do for someone... You may wanna please others to feel worth...You may worry about others too much... You may get treated poorly after always showing up to be supportive... 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Don’t change who you are just because of others... Not every person will repeat what others have done to hurt you... Every new experience is a learning lesson to grow better... 🌟🌟🌟🌟
It is time to start making yourself happy... Show compassion for the people who appreciate you the most... What about doing nice things your family? For your close friends? For loyal people who are always there for you? 🌟🌟🌟
A “thank you” by someone you barely know may open your heart to false love... Someone showing you attention may give you a few smiles... An online conversation may inspire you to try harder at living this life...
What about being self-sufficient to do for you? Don’t you deserve something better? Accomplish your dream? Build a better life? Feel happiness? Find true love? 🌟🌟🌟
Self-observation will evaluate whether you are being fair to yourself... You don’t need anyone to give you value... You are you! Respect yourself! Happiness starts with you! Inner beauty is the most beautiful love... 🌟🌟🌟
Start loving everything you are and who you can become... Don’t wait! Do it today! Right now! You always matter...
Music: Midnight Kiss Video by Michelle Pham.
#valueyourself #loveyourself #respectyourself #loyalty #confidence #selflove #appreciate #believe #selfobservation
Something that can easily be forgotten. I wanted to post this for anyone who needed to see this since I know I often forget to be selfish with myself as well 💖 #RespectYourself #LoveYourselfMore