Bom Dia! We hope you enjoyed your weekend – and maybe had one or more good conversations, with yourself or somebody else.
Not long ago it happened that I was talking with someone I had only met very recently, we had some very different life experiences and cultural backgrounds, the things that were connecting us were mostly our similar age, a friend through whom we met, an interest in art and apart from that just chance.
However, before I left to travel on she wanted to meet again. We went to an opening and got some food later and talked about this and that. Life. Our experiences, feelings. And suddenly she laughed and said: "Whoops, now I told you something I haven´t told anybody before. Not even my friends. Not even myself... It seems like it´s the first time I said it out loud." It doesn´t matter exactly what it was, after all it´s a secret she trusted me with, but the thing is: 💎
Sometimes talking with other people (or animals, or even somebody imaginary) might offer the chance to reveal things about ourselves that we didn´t know yet... or rather: that we weren´t aware of yet... Things that our subconscious knows very well but that haven´t come up yet. So use the chance of dialogues, even if you don´t expect a deep conversation, even if you don´t know a person for long, even if you start talking to your dog about your feelings, there might be things coming up that teach you more about yourself, about your desires or fears.
And once we´ve said them out loud, we can work with them and reflect on them to find out what it means for the further path of our lives. 👂🏼
Sometimes we just need somebody who listens to listen to ourselves, too. Don´t miss these chances, they are precious. And in turn be thankful and offer others to be that listener that they may need. ♥️ #listentoothers #talkwithothers #conversations #dialogues