And these Red FLAGS are only the beginning, first interactions ...
I'm posting this to raise awareness and speak out properly #forme
as I have kept quiet and suffered and disempowered myself more due to how much an impact a relationship that ended over a year ago has affected and crippled me spiritually, in my recovery and mostly mentally the #confusion
I carried in shock and a self medicated cloud for much longer after than I thought, after cutting absolute all contact (which is the only way when stuck)I FINALLY🙏 came to my senses and was in enough pain and souldetroying and going back for worse because I let myself get hooked into the games, emotional abuse, belittling, rage intimidation to fear then love bombs and believing the put downs, names, after constant accusations out of thIn air to take the light of said behaviour and so I was always scraping, neglecting myself, my needs that I started migraines, I'd isolate myself so as not to trigger jealous rage. I think because,now I realise, I am an empathetic sensitive kind of human and confused as to #WHY
. I now accept I don't have to know why it's not mine, now I am in a new chapter where I choose to heal, grow and empower myseld so I can have healthy loving friendships where I share values and become a stronger woman who knows her worth!🙏only now I realise I or no one deserves abuse, put downs, or be controled and has a right to be treated with respect, and had I known the red flags I would've caught on and put boundaries up before I was hooked in, too broken and empty to know any different. So I share this w/o shame and to raise awareness for women and men and in return take my power back #selfempowerment #respecteachother #DVawareness #speakout #red
flags #toxicrelationships #gaslighting #codependent #mentalabuse #narcissism #selfrespect #sayNOtoViolence
of all genders and sexuality 🌈 learn your own #boundaries
and most importantly #selfcompassion