to late-afternoon sun in our second home. 🌴✨ when babs and i arrived in carlsbad in november 2017, we had no idea our hearts were about to change forever. but they did: they broke open and showed us their unplumbed depths, their profound capacity for bone-baring vulnerability and honest love. and in the most beautiful turn of events, babs and i changed together, opened our wounds and poured our love, our good medicine, into each other. we found the rest of our family in tim &jan (&moosey) and they began to teach us how to heal. i have no words to express my gratitude every single day for that trip and the constant, nourishing family to whom i belong.