Vous êtes plusieurs à vous être jointes à nous ces derniers temps alors nous voulions nous présenter et rappeler pourquoi sont nés les Rendez-vous SexCare !
Dans une époque où il y a très peu de conversations honnêtes sur la sexualité, le genre ou la race, voici notre contribution pour booster le dialogue et rompre le silence autour des sexualités. Pour que les femmes n’aient plus honte, qu’elles puissent choisir et vivre la sexualité dont elle ont envie !
Nous ne sommes pas là pour enseigner des choses ou éduquer. Nous nous employons juste à partager des informations justes, adaptée et inclusives. Pour que chacune puisse faire des choix éclairés.
Les Rendez-vous SexCare sont donc des Ateliers coco et piquants animés par des femmes noires qui vivent leur vérité !
Nous sommes pour une sexualité choisie. Nous sommes les Rendez-vous SexCare .🧡💜
Voici un témoignage des personnes qui nous ont accompagnées en 2018
#autoevaluation #sexcare #sexualitepositive #sexualite #rdvsexcare #sexed #santesexuelle #choix
Hesitation is another way of saying “no”. Rule of thumb: anything but “yes” is a no. Do you agree? Let us know in the comments below. 👇🏿
will be a safe space to openly and candidly discuss and the stigma surrounding sexual health and relationships. Be sure to comment or DM is the questions and topics you want to address. Register for the retreat at the #LinkInBio
puntata 2: La relazione di coppia può diventare un legame di attaccamento? 😍💑❤
Secondo recenti teorizzazioni sì, ma deve avere caratteristiche particolari! Innanzitutto, bisogna identificare il proprio partner come figura primaria in grado di darci sicurezza e protezione, e lui/lei deve saper essere presente in caso di difficoltà. 🤗👫💖 In questo modo, il partner si configura come una "base sicura" su cui contare per ogni problema, la propria fonte di supporto e sicurezza. 💌
Così facendo, si è liberi di esplorare il mondo senza timori (e quindi avere i propri spazi) perché si ha la sicurezza che il proprio partner è sempre pronto ad accoglierci se torniamo da lui dopo aver incontrato delle difficoltà. 😍🎉
Per lo psicologo Bowlby, infatti, la vera maturità non significa farcela da soli ma individuare una persona (cioè il nostro partner/figura di attaccamento) a cui chiedere supporto.
Una relazione di attaccamento, all'interno di una relazione di coppia, ci mette circa 2 anni a svilupparsi, e lo stesso tempo all'incirca ad esaurirsi nel caso in cui la coppia scoppi. Ecco perché in alcuni casi tendiamo a ricercare ancora i nostri ex per ottenere, appunto, protezione ❤
Vi aspetto nelle storie per ulteriori chiarimenti su cosa sia un "legame di attaccamento" e altre curiosità 😘🔜
#artemisiaongles #sex #sexuology #sessuologia #sessualità #sessuologianovara #educazionesessuale #sexeducation #sexed #relazione #relazionedicoppia #couple #attachmentrelationship #attachment #bowlby #relationship #couplegoals #couplerelationship #love #amore #legamediattaccamento #coppia #fidanzati #partner
Things I Wish Sex Ed Taught Me:
So here’s the thing: when someone says strap-ons their first thought is 'something that lesbians use who secretly want dick' and that's just not true. Any couple can use strap-ons: gay, straight, monogamous, polyamorous, and people that aren't into labels.
Strap-ons aren’t gender specific and shouldn’t be treated as such. That being said, let’s talk strap-ons!
A strap on is typically a type of harness that wraps around the pelvic area of an individual usually with a place (referred to as an “O-ring”) for a dildo to be used for penetrative sex for someone that may or may not have a penis. Strap-ons come in all shapes and sizes and are typically adjustable (Some more than others).
When picking a strap on think comfort, use, and the type of dildo you’d like to use. If strap-ons that have actual straps are more comfortable for you then go with straps! If you prefer the ones that look like briefs (like I do!), then go with those types of harnesses! Some strap-ons come double ended (meaning two dildos are attached) so that two people can have penetration simultaneously, and some even have no straps at all (search for “strapless strap-ons”) that have slightly smaller phallic shaped end that inside of an individual while the larger dildo sticks out for penetration. Dildos can also be a determining factor in which strap on to buy. Some are geared for one specific type while others can be a little more flexible, take a look at the O-ring attached to the strap on harness, if it's flexible when stretched then it can be used with many types of dildos if it’s more rigid it can’t.
Much like the actual dildo, the harnesses that you’re using is a sex toy by itself and should be treated and cleaned like one. Fluids can make their way onto the strap on and should be cleaned regularly as well. Thankfully most strap-ons are washing machine friendly so cleaning them is super easy!
Last but not least, not everyone is into strap-ons because not everyone is into penetrative sex and that's okay! Figure out what you and whoever you're getting into bed with like and go from there! So that bein
Desmontamos mitos:⚡ Las mujeres son más aptas para la monogamia⚡ .
La idea de que, a diferencia del hombre, la monogamia es un estado "natural" o fácil de mantener para las mujeres. ¿Qué opinas al respecto?🥺
_ «En ¿Qué quieren las mujeres?, Daniel Bergner escribe: "Una de las presuposiciones más reconfortantes, la de que el eros femenino está mucho mejor hecho para la monogamia que la libido masculina, es poco más que un cuento de hadas". La persistencia de este mito resulta casi cómica.
Bergner cita un estudio alemán de 2006 en el que participaron 2.500 parejas que determinó que las mujeres se aburren sexualmente en relaciones monógamas antes que los hombres. Un estudio canadiense de 2012 confirmó que el deseo de las mujeres se reduce en las relaciones a largo plazo, mientras que el deseo de los hombres no muestra la misma caída. La monogamia no es algo fácil, ni siquiera para las mujeres.» «Hemos aceptado la idea de que las mujeres son infieles porque buscan intimidad emocional. Pero numerosas investigaciones indican que las mujeres ponen los cuernos por la misma razón que los hombres: por sexo.» .
¿Qué otras falsas creencias extendidas sobre la infidelidad femenina conoces?
Texto: Fragmento de Huffington Post. Por Amanda Scherker (Desmontamos seis mitos de la vieja escuela sobre las mujeres y el sexo )
#proyectokabuki #monogamia #sexo #sexologia
The best part about sex is that there are so many yummy possibilities. And the novelty that comes with switching things up helps to keep things interesting. So rather than getting into the habit of a set 1-2-3 combo, mix things up. .
Instead of feeling the need to finish with intercourse (for those of who are into that), finish with a hand job. Or go down on your partner and then masturbate to finish. Start the day with a hot make out session with a promise of finishing later, to heighten the arousal and ensure that you both experience maximum distraction at work.
Mix up the order, mix up the activities, change the location, get creative. Try exploring some porn together (visual or written). Try out a new position. Bring in some toys for you, for your partner, or both! .
The bottom line is, the more you mix things up, the less likely things will feel stagnant and boring, which is always a good thing for sex.
[Image description: A black text box at the top with the words, “What’s in your sexual” with a photo at the bottom of a buffet sign. Altogether the text reads: What’s in your sexual buffet”]
#sexed #sexeducation #pleasureeducation #bettersexeducation #pleasure #sexualhealth #sexualwellness #sexpositive #sextherapy #sextherapist #sexfacts #sexsmarts #scienceofsex #sexualcommunication #communication #buffet #getcreative #trynewthings #mixitup
The penis gets all the press, but men have many erogenous zones, just like women, says psychologist Melodie Schaefer, PsyD. They just don't tell you to move your hands elsewhere because they're afraid that if they do, women will shut down and not touch them at all, she explains. "But there are many places a woman should touch, like the chest, inner thighs, and face," Schaefer adds. Another key move: Gently gripping a man's testicles, as it can be a real turn-on that blends control with release. You can also stimulate the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, which heightens pleasure during oral sex.⠀
Source : @womansdaymag
#lovecraft #satisfactionguaranteed #sexed #sex101 #maleorgasm #femaleorgasm #sextips
— softest teenage sex therapist
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💭CURIOUS💭 I don’t believe in any form of birth control except for condoms and I really want to know the opinions from Men & Women, Comment Below⬇️ I am very very very curious !
I personally don’t believe in it because I feel as though reproduction in the human body is a natural thing that should occur, so to put something into your body that will stop a natural chemical reaction from occurring never seemed right to me
I always thought that if you use it to prevent pregnancy, then why not use a condom, because it’s preventing pregnancy at a high rate but too many people are focused on the “feel good” factor, or maybe you’re allergic to latex, but there are non-latex condoms that exist
Now I know it’s not only used for preventing pregnancy, but for Women struggling with chronic acne and painful periods. I personally just don’t agree and am not a fan, BUT I respect anyone’s decision to do so. #BirthControl #Contraceptives #Condoms #Sex #Pregnancy #Women #SexEd #PMS #Acne
What’s wrong with catcalls? Aren’t they just loud and enthusiastic compliments from generous and well-intentioned strangers?!
Nope. They’re actually nonconsensual sexual acts. .
“Catcalling” refers to the act of shouting harassing and often sexually suggestive, threatening, or derisive comments at someone publicly. Catcalls are about sexualizing a person’s body as a whole or objectifying a certain feature.
The issue with catcalls boils down to consent. .
Any time people choose to engage in sexual communication it should be a choice agreed on by all. When one person catcalls, they have no consent to objectify, sexualize, or degrade the person they’re speaking to. This demonstrates a very uneven power dynamic, where the person doing the catcalling holds all the power and is using that power to force a sexual exchange. Ultimately, this renders catcalling a nonconsensual sexual act - an act of violence and violation. To make matters worse, catcalling is often performative - done in public for others to see and hear. This means that not only is there no consent, but the act of violation is on display for strangers to observe.
Not everyone dislikes being catcalled but those who do often aren’t supported in expressing their discomfort or anger about such exchanges. Our society often discourages people from voicing their discomfort when there is an imbalance of power that’s being abused.
Remember, if the exchange occurs between two friends who have communicated prior about their level of comfort, then the act is in fact consensual.
Think your boyfriend looks cute in those jeans? Whistle away, just check in with him to make sure he’s okay with it first!
#givingthetalk #sexed #sexualhealth #sexeducation #sexedconsultant #reproductivehealth #reproductivejustice #knowNO #believesurvivors #askforconsent #parenting #parenteducation #pubertyeducation #allthetalks #pleasureispower #healthyrelationships #normalizeconsent #expectconsent #respect #catcalling #catcallingisnotacompliment #consenteducation #consent #consentissexy
Are you following @mhsexpert
- the fabulous, unapologetic sexologist who wrote this amazing book? You should! Have you checked to make sure this book is available in public and school libraries in your community? YOU SHOULD! Make sure to follow and financially support Michelle’s great work.
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It’s not a game.... My book drops tomorrow, log on to #Amazon
(link in bio) and get your copy now!!!! #SexEd #MHSexpert #Oschool #SexEdSavesLives
In January, I wanted to start the year off with a bang, and dive into something different. So when my friend @gabalexa
asked if I wanted to team up to launch the #ReclaimingSexy
workbook, I couldn’t say YES🙌🏾 fast enough. And Gabby is a great person to collab with: not only is she hilarious and creative, but her passion to change the way that people see themselves & their identities reflected in culture is so refreshing.
Today’s episode of the SEIC podcast has me sitting down with Gabby to hear more about who she is and how she’s changing the world as we know it, through being a s*x writer, online content creator (Have you SEEN her #toxicfemininity
videos? 😂), and social media stunna on the rise.
✨LINK IN BIO✨ to hear my convo with Gabrielle Alexa!
Selamat hari selasa sobat TABU! Yuk kita lanjutin pembahasan kita kemarin tentang Chancroid! Hari ini kita akan bicara mengenai tanda-tanda dari Chancroid. Memangnya ada apa aja sih gejalanya?
Salah satu gejala dari chancroid adalah munculnya benjolan merah pada bagian tubuh yang terinfeksi. Benjolan ini berisi nanah, mudah berdarah, dan dapat berubah menjadi bisul. Pada laki-laki bisul ini sering kali menyebabkan rasa sakit. Perempuan terkadang tidak menyadari adanya bisul namun bisul dapat menyebabkan rasa sakit atau rasa panas ketika buang air kecil.
Gejala lain yang mungkin muncul adalah pembengkakan kelenjar getah bening daerah selangkangan yang berisi nanah, serta rasa sakit saat berhubungan seksual dan ketika buang air kecil.
Kalau sobat TABU ada yang mengalami gejala-gejala diatas, jangan ragu untuk langsung berkonsultasi dengan dokter ya!
https://www.sahealth.sa.gov.au/wps/wcm/connect/public+content/sa+health+inter net/health+topics/health+conditions+prevention+and+treatment/infectious+disea ses/chancroid/chancroid+-+including+symptoms+treatment+and+prevention
#breakingthetaboo #breakingthestigma #sexed #sexeducation
#pendidikanseks #kesehatanseksual #kesehatanreproduksi
#TABU_penyakitmenularseksual #TABU_infeksimenularseksual #TABU_PMS #TABU_IMS #TABU_STI #TABU_STD #TABU_chancroid
We are all sensual beings so what's your favourite way to get in touch with your sensuality? For me, there's nothing better than unplugging and getting into the great outdoors. I love tuning into the sights, sounds, touch, and feeling the earth's natural energy. I'm also a big fan of essential oils, massages and dancing barefoot. Would love to hear what you do!⠀
MEGA ENERGY BOOST - Food & Water
We’re continuing with our topic of achieving a Mega Energy Boost (#spiritsexlab_energyboost
) and today we’re discussing how we can use NUTRITION & WATER to bring more energy into our fields! Each coming Tuesday, stay tuned for lots of useful info and practical tips, 👍 like, follow along and ❤️ share with your friends!
Food and water are amazing sources of energy that are basic building blocks of our well-being potential. Think about these as energy / frequencies that enter your field. If the water and food have a higher vibrational frequency – they charge us with superior, more long lasting and sustainable energetic frequencies. If, however, we’re consuming lower vibrating substances (with nitrates, growth hormones, antibiotics etc.) our bodies, minds, hearts and souls are not benefiting long term.
Below are a few guidelines on selecting foods and drinks of the highest vibration:
🔹Try to frequently eat organic, non GMO grown fruits and vegetables (Organic foods often have more beneficial nutrients, such as antioxidants and fewer pesticides)
🔹Intend to eat more of low Glycemic Index based carbohydrates, as they are slowly digested and absorbed, causing a slower and smaller rise in blood sugar levels (for more sustainable energy levels as opposed to sharp increase / decrease of energy)
🔹Please focus on consuming unrefined carbohydrates, unprocessed, ideally home-cooked foods
🔹If you choose meat-derived proteins (my diet is mostly vegetarian + milk/eggs based), please pay attention to ethically raised and processed ones. No growth hormones/antibiotics in meats/chicken, no farm-raised fish ensure higher vibrational frequencies)
🔹Try to minimize refined sugars’ intake and understand whether the craving for sweets is an emotional or a physical one. Choose fruits or healthier snacks as great, healthy alternatives
🔹Water is a drink of my choice as hydration has a major effect on energy levels and brain function
🔹Learn to listen to your body – it tells you when you’re full & what types of foods it needs
🔹Stick to multiple/smaller/healthy meals throughout the day
🙏 Comment what your favourite foods are!
CBGB featured in Punk Lust: Raw Provocation 1971 - 1985 🤟🏽
A hétvégén Szexuális nevelés módszertani képzésen voltam, az Ars Erotica alapítvány szervezésében. Az első képen a nagyszerű trénerek: Mester Dóra, Andics Attila, Katona Réka és Séllei Györgyi. A másodikon pedig örülök a kis oklevelemnek. 😄 A tréninget elsősorban pedagógusoknak tartották, de elfogadták az én jelentkezésemet is. 😊
Nagyon intenzív hétvége volt. A képzés péntek délután kezdődött, majd szombaton és vasárnap is reggeltől este 7-ig nyomtuk. :D Rengeteg mozgásos és önismereti feladat is volt, majd szakmai reflexió. Elképesztően megdolgoztatja az agyat és a lelket egy ilyen folyamat. Nagyon hálás vagyok, hogy ott lehettem, tanulhattam. Imádom az ilyen építő, inspiráló közeget! És remélem, hogy ebből nektek is átadhatok majd valamit akár a videóimon keresztül is. -
#sexed #szexuálisnevelés #sexpositivity #termékenységtudat #termekenysegtudat #hormonmentes #képződtem #tudatosság #önismeret #lépjszintet #mesterdóradjamila #szexedukáció
Hi, I’m Sarah (she/her) 👋 I’m a human sexuality educator with a master’s degree and a decade worth of speaking, teaching, writing, and organizing.
There’s nothing I love more than talking about bodies, gender, love, relationships, sex, and social justice, so I figured I would ✨spark joy✨right here on Instagram.
I’ve got a lot of exciting ideas for how to use this space, and I’m really curious to hear what you’d like to see 💬 let me know in the comments, or shoot me a message!
📸 by @d_renee7
| #sexualhealth #sexeducation #sexpositive #sexed #sexeducator #humansexuality #lgbtq #queersexed
Do I really care about myself?
One way to answer this question is to look into our habits. Not only physical like nutrition, substance use, smoking….but also our thinking habits.
I am surely guilty of that, I mean I lived in the habit of hating myself for bigger part of my life. And even after much work being done, I still need to check in with self constantly around:
- how I am thinking about myself, were are my choices coming from? Do they come from self love and confidence or from fear and trying to prove something? -Am I acting out my wounds or choosing powerfully?
- When I screw up am I accepting myself and having compassion or am I blaming myself and hating on myself?
- Do I trust my powers more or do I trust brokenness? - Do I celebrate my uniquiness, or do I feel shame for it?
🔥Do I judge or accept, do I compare or accept, do I get jealous or I accept.❤️
❤️love creates love
#selfcare #sexualhealth #sexed #mindfullife #wholistichealth #happysexuality #humanhealth #sexedwithjulia
I noticed that in many ways contraception awareness is always such an overlooked topic. When it comes to STDs & avoiding pregnancy, the one and only 100% reliable and wastefree method is abstinence but that's not my point. 🔐
Clearly IUDs or vasectomy create less waste on the long time but they don't prevent venereal diseases and are both pretty expensive and not always an easy choice.💁 When you can't not create waste you should at least reduce its amount and therefore HERE IS THE POINT: if you don't have a regular partner, you haven't been tested yet or you have to stop your other contraception method for whatever reason, just don't risk and place an order for these vegan biodegradable fully-recyclable condoms. Because prevention is better than cure. 🙌🌱
managing director in Köln was very helpful and e-mailed me back within 24 hours, telling me that the box is FSC certified paper, wraps made of foil, condoms themselves made of natural rubber from fairtrade, with no casein. ♻ Available online Europe-wide, in-store in some countries only (e.g. Germany and the UK). 🚚📬 #fairsquared #condoms #vegancondoms #contraception #preservativi #lesswaste #lowimpact #biodegradable #crueltyfree #ecofriendly #sexed #fairtrade #vegan #zerowaste #zerowasteish #zerowastecontraception #fair2me #naturalrubber #equosolidale #preventSTDs
I’ve been surrounded by people that use fire as an artistic, if not spiritual, source of passion: pottery.
It’s been interesting being around people whose passion revolves around pottery and tea. It's not my passion. Mine is social justice, sexuality, mental health, listening, soaking in other people’s energy and emotions and helping to reflect it back to them in a way that’s more tangible.
It's been so long since I've sat with someone and talked deeply about my passions. But this is cool, too. It keeps me warm and cozy. 😌
I totally used to think like this! But it wasn’t about being unlovable, it was about being physically unattractive. Girls, if you feel like this, stop fucking the wrong person! Get you a man (or woman) that actually turns you on! #sexed #lifelessons
“Ghosts don't live in a shell. They live in our fears.” ⠀⠀
After a herpes diagnosis, most are interested about the politics of disclosure. How do I disclose? When do I disclose? Should I disclose to someone I’ll never see again? What if I don’t have presenting symptoms, do I still have to say something?
While I believe it’s an ethical obligation to disclose to ALL partners about your STI status, it’s not a decision or conversation that I can structure for others. I do, however, believe that these disclosures propel us into conversations that we SHOULD already be having. Conversations that serve as a reminder of our accountability to our sexual health.
There is also a common internal debate between having these conversations in-person versus over a text. This generation is often slighted for our communication skills—not being able to communicate in-person, always texting on our phones and on social media. While I think in-person offers an opportunity for intimate trust, I think that having these conversations, over text or in-person, is better than not engaging with them at all (and STILL offers an opportunity to build trust☺️).
My diagnosis opened the doors to honest communication about my sexual identity and scripts with my partners. It became much easier to ask for what I wanted rather than remaining in my shell and hoping for something, or living behind my ‘ghosts.’ These conversations can include dialogue about consent, pleasure, and more—conversations that we SHOULD be having, but often refrain from (dawning our cloak of INVINCIBILITY) due to our fears of rejection and judgement.
Are you living outside your shell?🐚
........................................................................................ #Stigma #sexology #sexologist #intersectionalfeminism #sexeducation #sexed #sexeducator #resilience #sexpert #socialjustice #herpes #sexualhealth #breakthestigma #endthestigma #sextherapy #disclosure #therapyquotes #sextherapist #herpessupport #stigmafree #SelfDiscovery #PersonalPower #herpesawareness #safesex #communicationiskey #LivingWithHerpes #HSV2 #stdtesting #HSV1 #Communication
Sex-positive (adjective): having or promoting an open, tolerant, or progressive attitude towards sex and sexuality
Why is Sex Education and the larger issue of sexual and reproductive health important?
It is important because the choice to have sex or not is one that everyone of us constantly face from our teens. Young people need to have accurate information in order to make informed decisions about their sexual and reproductive health
#SRHR #SexEd #TeamTolex
LANGUAGE IN SEX: Using the word Pussy when I talk about my...Pussy, is a very conscious thing. I don't do it to shock or to offend, I do it because I'm a grown adult who refuses to be held hostage by the shame of others.
I use Pussy because Vagina is an incorrect term for all the wonder between my legs (the Vagina is just ONE part of the Vulva). I alternate between Vulva & Pussy depending on whom or where I'm speaking—but as long as you're in THIS space, you'll mostly get the latter—you lucky thing!
What comes up for you when you hear the word Pussy used as a descriptor, does it rub you the wrong way? Do you only like to hear it when you're aroused? If so, why? Can I take a guess? Is it because you've been made to believe that it's an insult? I say this because I know that it's widely used in a derogatory manner, as an expression of weakness & incompetence.
Well, I know that shit to be a whole lie. For me, it's now become a perfectly legitimate & empowering word, of course I didn't always feel this way - which is why I get why many are still uncomfortable with it.
And to shake the negativity I had attached to 'Pussy', I asked myself WHY it made me so uneasy. I unearthed the fact that I was holding onto a shit-ton of internalized misogyny, sexism, self-judgement, & confusion.
I speak in the way I do today because I want to remove the charge & shame from juicier language, and it was a wonderful day when I realised I didn't need anyone's permission to do this.
I'm more interested in descriptive and straightforward language—I no longer have room for 'down there's', 'you know where's, 'thingy', 'foofoo's—simply because I find that this type of language only mystifies our bodies, which results in...yep, EVEN MORE SHAME.
When I speak to the little ones in my life I accurately describe their genitals (vulva, penis, perineum, anus)—& if they ask about other parts I will give them the proper names too, in the same way I wouldn't make up an obscure nickname for their nose or elbow.
I'd love to know what language you use for genitals & why, DM me if you'd prefer a private chat! Have a beautiful and JUICY day! - Africa😋
📸 Grace Jones by Hans Feurer, 1975
The use of baby oil or vaseline with a condom will damage the latex of the condom, causing it to break. It's important to use only water-based lubricants, such as K-Y jelly or Astroglide, with latex condoms. Oil-based lubricants like vaseline, butter, or mineral and vegetable oils damage latex
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