We are steadily reclaiming our right to enjoy and celebrate our own body pleasure and orgasm. Only not for the reasons we humans think.
Most importantly we are reclaiming this holy sexual innocence without shame. This is huge. Massive. Important. Necessary. For human evolution. If we are to finally put to bed some of the darkness that has befallen this planet.
It’s bigger than self.
It’s more than self pleasure.
It’s far more expansive than orgasms and sex.
What I am saying may feel controversial to some. Others may get it. I am only the messenger.
We are being called to do this as it also means that when we conceive new life into our feminine wombs /his seed where new life born it can be free from the lineages of shame that have for too long fed the experiences of sexual shame leading to predatory patterns that feed this worlds widespread sexual perversion/abuse/rape/molestation of our children.
Hijacking our sacred sexual energy blocking our holy innocence has caused so much harm on so many levels. It is now we change these tides and remember the divine purpose of sexual energy and it’s gift.
When this came flooding into my awareness on a cellular level it blew my mind. Yet the more it resounded through the very bones of my being the more I felt it understood it accepted it and realised this is why all those years ago when I was washing dishes and Mary Madgelene whispered into my ears. “You are here to heal the sexual wounding of this planet”. I laughed in 2011. My thoughts and conversation went like this “who me? I can’t even heal my own sexual wounding” And so it began... healing. What a journey!! It’s no accident that many of the women leading women into sexual healing lived through sexual trauma as children.
I do know this.
Until we ALL on this planet heal on a sexual level these predatory sexual perverse humans will continue to exist. And continue hikacking our children’s sacred holy innocence. This healing begins by moving through the shame body. Then we can fill with the Ecstatic holy innocence of sacred sexuality. Your pleasure body and orgasmic energy matters.
#embodiment #sexualhealing #sacredsex #rose #roselineage
Pleasure ik vind het een prachtig woord en de mooiste energie om in het ondernemerschap mee te werken. Hoewel ik volledig marketing en sales geschoold ben, creëert het voor mij niet wat pleasure tools met zoveel meer gemak wel voor elkaar krijgen. .
Strategie is 1, embodiment is 111. Het is zoveel meer dan je je vooraf kunt bedenken. Dit leven is gemaakt om voluit te leven. Met een lichaam dat AAN voelt, met een passie die AAN staat en met plezier dat je AAN voelt in jou in alles wat je doet. .
Vanmorgen gaf ik samen met Femke van @helderebron
een livestream in haar challenge groep. Gewoon vanuit mijn poppenhuis hier in Ierland. En wat was het leuk en licht. De mooie reacties van de mensen die live aanwezig waren gaven dit ook weer. Pleasure creëert zoveel gemak en liefdevolle energie. .
Ik sta AAN voor mijn leven.
Ik sta AAN voor alles dat plezier brengt in mijn business. En ik sta AAN voor elke dag meer gemak, lichtheid en groter ontvangen. .
Deze livestream gaf dit voor mij weer. Op vakantie mag ook business zijn. In business mag heel veel gemak. En in mij mag heel veel ontvangen. Open up to pleasure. Elke keer weer. Belichamen, dieper voelen en groter ontvangen. Het gaat zo mooi met elkaar samen. .
Open up to pleasure start 2 juli a.s. 30 Dagen lang voluit AAN staan voor jezelf. Jezelf commitment geven. Je grotere verlangens waarmaken en nergens meer genoegen nemen met half. Ja zeggen tegen jezelf en jouw passie betekent automatisch meer ontvangen wanneer je alles wegneemt dat embodiment in de weg staat. Open up & ben, adem en ontvang pleasure in alles wat je doet. Doe je mee? Meld je aan via de link in mijn bio of stuur mij even een DM. #pleasurequeen #beyou #receivemagic
Healing The Body, Slowly.
One of the most important elements of what I teach is that we live in patterns and that most of our patterns are not conscious. We're not aware of them, we simply do what we do, what we know, what we think works, what we're comfortable doing.
Bruce Lipton talks about that we're conscious about 5% of the day.
We're awake for 16 hours, more or less, with awake being an interesting word in this context.
Awake meaning conscious and aware, making choices.
For the rest of the time we're on autopilot, running in a programme.
Sexually may be the part of life we're least conscious in, the part where our patterns run the deepest, where we make the least conscious choices.
Our sexuality is in our minds and in our bodies.
As soon as the thought of sex is present, regardless of the context, our patterns kick in.
In the body this generally means that we start a pattern of arousal that follows the path its always followed in our bodies and in our minds.
The thoughts begin, there's an awareness.
The body begins its pattern based on the memory it has.
A good way to look at this is with the idea of muscle memory.
When a baby learns to eat the spoon goes all over, eventually it goes in the food, the food goes all over and in time the food goes in the baby's mouth. We can eat and have an intense conversation while we're eating and hardly look at what our hands are doing because we know the pattern so well.
When we begin having sex, in whatever way we do, the way we're touched, the position of our body, every aspect of the experience becomes part of our sexual body.
And as the awareness of sex becomes present, the pattern kicks in, and our body does what it does.
What happens in our body is linked to the thoughts and beliefs we have, the education we've been given, which I'd generally fear-based and limited, not about pleasure.
Read More: https://eroslife.co.za/healing-the-body-slowly/
#healing #sexualhealing #conscioussexuality #consciousness #bodyandmind #sensuality
It’s our 2nd Wednesday of talking through various sexual difficulties. Today, let's talk about healing from sexual pain.⠀
Part of my story was giving my body away to feel fulfillment and love, it was a balm to the needs I wanted met. But that's never a healthy reason to engage in intimacy. Sex should be a response to love FOR someone, not to get love FROM someone.⠀
Our brain makes new neuro pathways every time we experience sex with someone. That beautiful design is to continue to draw us toward that one person, our lifetime person. It is a gift in marriage because it keeps us tethered together for the long haul, always wanting more of them. But when we are continually switching partners those neuro pathways don't just go away.⠀
They stay. And that can feel like trauma or abandonment or depression.⠀
This is one of the reasons break ups are SO much harder when we've been intimate. Your brain is still looking for them but you can't give it what it wants.⠀
In this, time will be your friend. It will take time to create new associations, to find a new normal. Finding a new self-love and love from your Creator will be tremendous aids during this process. Remind yourself of who you are and whose you are.⠀
Therapy is key if you're feeling stuck. There are a variety of different therapies that can help guide you into healing, everyone will connect with different styles. Regardless of which one you go with- it WILL help.⠀
Write it all. Every moment of sadness, every fit of rage, even your lack of feeling- write it. Express it, let the words flow onto the page as it accesses the deepest part of your soul to reveal itself to you. You will find things in there you didn't know existed. I would write to myself, to others and to God. Intentional alone time (not isolation!) and processing through writing were huge factors in my healing. And trust me, even if you're not a writer, if you commit to it you, will see healing from it. It’s cathartic! ⠀
This is a journey you guys, sometimes longer than we'd like. I challenge you to think of this time not as a chore to get back to where you were, but a time of growth that is pushing you toward who you’re meant to become.
I had another relationship growth opportunity last night. Consisting of PMS, triggers, and giving for pleasure.
I got home and I could feel my bf was in a resistant mood. You know when you try to give your lover a big kiss, they kiss you back, but it’s like a “walls-up” kind of kiss? Yeah that.
Was he mad at me, what did I do? I felt myself getting triggered. I asked what was wrong and of course he blankly said nothing. ..now I started putting my walls up, thinking to myself, “I feel everything! You can’t fool me! Talk to me!”
I went into the kitchen to make dinner, he went and laid in bed. We always make dinner together. WTH is going on?
As I made dinner, I decided to break my normal PMS-trigger-habits. Even though I was tired and felt frustrated, I didn’t react from that place. Time to uplevel.
He’s not typically stand-offish
Nothing happened between us, obviously he’s going through something in his mind. It has nothing to do with me. What can I do to help him?
I checked in with myself, do I want to serve him to make him happy, to get appreciation, or for him to give something back to me?
Or do I want to serve him because it brings me pleasure to please and be there for my lover?
(I’ve been trying to “give” or “serve” from the last option. ☝🏼 ..because it brings me pleasure to be there for him. Not because I expect anything in return, not even a thank you.)
I made him a delicious dinner, gave him a FULL body massage 😉 and whispered sweet nothings in his ear as he fully received. (I should mention that before I started the massage I thought to myself, he should be the one giving me a massage, I’M about to bleed!) I nipped that shit in the bud and was like nope, remember, I’m gonna give to him for the PLEASURE of it! And I did. And it was Gloooorious!
We both entered a state of love, bliss and turn on.
As I was massaging him, I thought about how beautiful it was to do this for him, for me, for us...and how I almost went in the complete opposite direction, into trigger/bicker land.
“Never waste a good trigger” there’s always something to learn from it.
And, give for the pleasure of giving.
What is entropy? It is the randomness and lack of certainty within a system. When we are on the precipice of change, we experience major entropy. With our emotions, with our environment, with others. We are experiencing the potential to shift in real time. 💥
As we build the pressure in our internal system, we are challenged to either release it (only to soon build again , ie patterns of behaviour) or we are invited to expand. Like a butterfly from a cocoon, we must put in effort to break free from our current structure of knowing.🐛
So what happens when we watch our partners experience entropy? If you’re a caring, loving person, it may feel appropriate to try and help them. To do your best to solve their problem or fix their situation. Who likes to see the people they love hurting?? No one. It’s normal to want to “release” their entropy. BUT, it doesn’t make it helpful.
Imagine peeling back the cocoon for the butterfly. 🦋 The wings require the entropy required when leaving the cocoon. They need this strength to fly.
IM CURIOUS: Where are you releasing the entropy from someone you love? How is this helping them grow? OR, is it keeping them in their problem.. and keeping YOU feeling purposeful?
Here enlays a video skit of me taking you on a emotional roller coaster of a journey, depicting the beautiful transformation that I feel is going to occur on THE TEMPLE OF YONI.
A 7 Day Transformational Retreat Devoted To Harnessing Your Connection To Your Sensual, Sexual, Creative, and Fierce Feminine Power.
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Ibiza 14th - 21st September
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1 :This is me! This is my journey! This is me shedding my past traumas & loving myself through it! This is me trying to reach those suffering with the same issues around not honoring their pussy! Have you ever asked your pussy what she wants? How do you view sex? Do you use sex as validation in some way? Do you view sex as a spiritual connection between two souls that transforms your souls into one, if only for a moment? Are you listening to your pussy when she tells you she wants nothing to do with sex or do you ignore her & do it anyways? Do you have sexual traumas from childhood or adulthood that affect your current love making with your partner or partners? I have been taken through an intense sexual healing healing the last few years. After realizing how I used sex for power, manipulation, validation & I did not listen to my pussy when she told me NO! I pushed because I wanted it. Then I ended up dealing with UTI’s like crazy every time I would deny my pussy’s point of view. Terrible menstrual cramps. I have now been in a space where Awareness is coming from all angles & I am listening to her whisper when she tells me something is not right. I have become aware of my toxic pattern of using sex to feel validated or to feel wanted. I have stopped seeing sex as the only means for intimacy in a partnership. I have come to listen to her when she needs to be caressed & when she needs tender love & care like Herbal Yoni baths. As women our womb is our cauldron. The sacred space that we birth life from. As a woman we hold great power between our legs. We should honor her ever desire with love & compassion. Even in the times when she bleeds to shed all that no longer serves us, is a time to love her & thank her for being so strong. She is your power source! We can draw on that power to be Courageous & stand up for what we want. We can draw on the power to set clear boundaries so that we no longer hurt/deny ourselves or allow others to hurt us. We can enjoy pleasure to its fullest because we are connected to our pussy, our heart & our every desire. We can choose love & embrace ourselves to comfort that trauma that caused us to hurt ourselves or others. Awarenessiskey
"Pleasure is Medicine” are my favorite words to live by, and they are actually well grounded in truth! It is a fact that the human body is quite literally hardwired for pleasure, and it has been clinically proven that pleasure - be it physical, mental, emotional, or even spiritual - has a huge array of life-enriching physiological health benefits such as: • Boosting the immune system • Help prevent illness • Speeds recovery from illness • Slows aging • Stimulates the production of endorphins, serotonin, and oxytocin • Strengthens the heart • Helps ward off depression and anxiety
Interestingly, one of the most potent forms of life-enriching pleasure, is in fact, sexual pleasure.
Sexual pleasure and orgasm are one of the quickest ways to build these life-generating, anti-aging, and mood balancing hormones and neurotransmitters in the bloodstream.
Yet, as wonderful, healthy and enriching as orgasms are, they can also be a source of frustration for many women.
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