❗️READ UNDER THE PREVIOUS POST FIRST❗️❤️ What I love to do now is to encourage every shy person I come across to talk. Either by starting the conversation or by directing a question to them in a group. They usually end up with having a lot to say when they break through this first block and I love it.
All in all, I would like to encourage you if you are the quiet person, try to force yourself to get out of your comfort zone, but realize that there is nothing wrong with not having something to say all the time. And if you are the one always speaking, feeling comfortable in the centre of attention, or if you are something in between, cheer up the people that are usually not heard.
With full power love,
I can still remember clearly, I used to look at people that could easily attract attention and be able to speak about something “interesting” all the time. I was so jealous, I was the girl who looked at them and in case she got a chance to ever say anything she would get so nervous she could barely speak. It made me so sad, but I did not know how to help it. The more I did not want to be like that the worse it got. I would just think about what to say to impress and never said anything.
Only when I realized that I do not need to be like anyone else, that I am enough, did I start to surround myself with people that made me feel comfortable in their company. That is also when I discovered the part of me that is not shy. I still do not like to be in the centre of attention, but I definitely have no problem talking to anyone. It did take years to get from being the shyest person ever to where I am now, and I am sure I still have space to improve.
Another important realization in this process was learning that being the listener is not even a bad thing. And if I do not have anything to say it is okay, I will not strain my brains to think of something to say anymore. Instead, I will follow and learn which is much more valuable to me. Also, it is important to get around people that are genuinely interested in you, who will encourage you to speak and who you feel comfortable being around.
So, how exactly did I get over it?
First of all, I learned to accept myself and respect my personality. Secondly, I realised not every conversation is worth joining into, so I simply stopped bothering. Thirdly, I forced myself to get out of my comfort zone by joining different activities, travelling, going out, getting a job that requires a lot of speaking with a lot of different people. And on top of that, I stopped surrounding myself with people that make me feel uncomfortable.
❗️CONTINUING UNDER THE NEXT POST❗️
MIRACLES⚡️”People usually consider walking on water or in thin air a miracle. But I think the real miracle is not to walk either on water or in thin air, but to walk on earth. Every day we are engaged in a miracle which we don’t even recognize: a blue sky, white clouds, green leaves, the black, curious eyes of a child - our own two eyes. All is a miracle.” H.T.N. • RIGHT Now take a moment to be present + appreciate the miracles happening everywhere around you. Today is a gift, remember to be present 🤙🏽🙏🏽💙⚡️
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🗣 Sometimes I am scared of other women:
Of their freedom
Of their ferocity
Sometimes it’s simply of the fact that they feel empowered in wearing bright colours and I, presently, do not.
I think this comes from an idea that was ingrained in me years and years ago; that I can never be those things. That I am not deserving of that liberation, of that personal faith and strength.
But I am. You are. We all are. 🙏🏼 Don’t let society, or ANYONE, shape the way that you present yourself, and more importantly; don’t let anyone influence your own personal perception of who you are OR who you should be.
You deserve to be whoever it is that you are; have faith in YOU. 💜
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Just wanted to update you that I have started working on preparing the July Tarot Challenge for all you wonderful souls.
Since I am a big supporter of indie creators I will be working with the Anima Mundi Tarot by @thecreepingmoon
and the Darkness of Light Tarot by @darknesstarot
with support of the occasional draw of the Universal Mind Oracle by the kind @michelleblackvision.
There will be a small challenge announced tomorrow for those who want to focus on something short but fun, of course I will join in on that challenge myself as well using The Aquarius Tarot by the groovy @dawn_aquarius.
And as some of you may have noticed the 22nd of June my little Witchlings will be celebrating their 16th birthday. This will involve a giveaway with another indie creator, so stay tuned.
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When learning to love our body, do we realise how much our body loves us?
Our body breathes us and it heals us, it will fight anything to keep us alive and it offers gentle encouragement - with its beautifully subtle feedback - to thrive.
It stops our cuts from bleeding, it rids our precious organs of toxins, it shivers to keep us warm. It performs humble little miracles in every moment, while we’re awake and while we sleep, it’s in full service to us.
Our body actually loves us so much. Let’s love it right back.
Miracles, blessings come in many shapes and forms, mine happens to appear in this human being. I am not the most romantic person, nor I really cared about men or relationships in the past, but gosh, did Justas changed everything 😳 Quietly, calmly he showed up in my life and nothing was ever the same. He, us, our relationship brings everything to the next level and teaches lessons I could never learn alone. I could write a book about it (maybe one day I will...? 🤔) but still wouldn’t be able to express everything that I feel, so for now, here’s one of my fave photos of him 😍❤️
You guys!!! It’s L I VE!!!!!!!!!! 🥂 🎉 🙌🏼🙏🏽
Would ya laugh if I told you I cried? Good because I laughed too!! 😂😂😂
Not only is the new weekly podcast episode up and ready for you guys but my long anticipated website is FINALLY L I V E! It couldn’t be any more perfect than it already is. @thecourtneysjoberg
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Blogging, speaking, sharing lessons and educating have always been such a huge passion of mine and I’m so incredibly grateful to finally actually be doing exactly that... -
Not only is the site live, but in the podcast and in my story you can see the extra surprise that dropped today as well!! (Hint - it’s in my bio and rhymes with exclusive Facebook troup... 😜)
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