Be Kind. Love Deeply. @khto_music
In the same week, I have been told I have the absolute worst luck and been told by a few people they wished they were me. It is quite funny how society has their opinions on someone without fulling knowing the good or the bad.
I fell into the category of social norms early on. I got married young and divorced a few years after. I dated someone shortly that resulted in mental/verbal abuse from substance abuse. I broke both feet at the same time, right before needing to pack up and move. I’m still not sure where my career is leading me, which has been a big struggle because I often feel my Masters has gone to waste. On my recent work trip to Canada, my bank account was compromised and I was traveling with $2.00. These are just to name a few. Bad luck, maybe?
When I turned 30, I made a decision to try and not let the bad things get me down so much. Yes, I still get anxious and stressed. I have a better outlook at life though. Since turning 30, I have travelled to two countries and five states (some for fun, some for work), learned how to fly fish, welcomed my niece into the world, bought my own house and reconnected with my high school crush, now FIANCÉ!!! My advice to those who say I have bad luck? Get to know someone before you create judgement. My advice to those who think I have it better? Get to know someone before you create judgement.
Be kind, be love. Fight for good. Be a positive change. Follow your arrow.
Kenny, thank you for encouraging me to fight for my independence and to continue traveling. You were the boy on the football field in high school that stood next to me on the sidelines and listened, made me laugh and did not judge me when I asked you to homecoming or beat boxed to Justin Timberlake for you. I have seen you become a man, an even bigger creative and one of the kindest souls this world has. You are patient, witty, funny and make the best breakfast. Thank you for choosing to take on my flaws and loving me. I can’t wait to do the rest of eternity with you. #highschoolcrush #engaged #travelbuddies #eternity #dassogood