As humans we fall, we hurt, we bruise and sometimes we even scar. But what if all the people who we meet in life, all those whom we cross paths with, are set in our paths to build us, to help us develop and become our destiny? -
So what if they hurt us? Perhaps we need a little bruising in the process so that we can grow in to what we are supposed to grow in to. Perhaps we need to be broken, so that our hearts can be shaped and moulded by our experiences with them. -
The happiness and the heartache which people bring us, all serve the purpose of our development as individuals. The lessons they bring us are life lessons. No one ever truly grew through books or theory. It's the practical which makes people who they are. -
The things they go through, are the things which make them great.
We read about great people, and we realise they became great through the turbulent waves of life. Not through a smooth sailboat ride. They had to come head to head with the crashing of tides in order to reach the shore of success. -
And perhaps that's what we too are going through. So that we may be and so that we may become, our destiny. -
Life is such that people come and go, and sometimes they just aren't destined to stay. It's strange how we are so obsessed with this idea of permanent positions in our lives, all the while knowing that all of this is so temporary. Every moment and every person, is part of the transition process. The changes and the losses, remind us that all of this is temporary.
Sometimes we have to belittle experiences, be they good or bad in order to move on from them. -
We win some and we lose some. But our losses do not mean that we can not achieve. Perhaps our losses will determine our success. Let the people of life stay if they wish to, and if they wish to leave then let them. Because it's temporary. And if it was meant to be permanent, it would have been. -
May Allah strengthen our hearts so that they remain unaffected by the losses of this temporary world. آمين. 🌹 -
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