Why throw shade when we can throw LOVE? .
It's super easy to point fingers at ourselves and others when things are not going our way.
But I'm realising more and more that those who test our patience and our trust, and those who make it so hard to love them at times are indeed illuminating the patterns within us, that we've neglected, and hidden deep within our core. Those parts of us thst we are choosing to "cover up " and not face can be sometimes scary to own up to. And maybe this is why the current reflections that we just cannot stand from the other is due to our deflection of the VERY parts of ourselves that need healing... .
"FIX UP..LOOK SHARP" comes to my mind as I'm writing this. When @dizzeerascal
was singing this, he wasn't speaking of the aesthetics, NO, he was telling us to fix the fuck up and look sharp within us!! .
Sometimes we are taking too much upon ourselves trying to fix others because we are the ones that need fixing REALLY, and often when the other person does not appreciate "all we did for them", resentment comes out and we begin to throw shade. .
SO, today that person who is testing your love, testing your patience, THANK THEM, because they are part of why you are growing. They are making you go within, and thats true healing.
If we always had those who loved us constantly with no fuss or resistance , we wouldn't even know how much more evolving there is to be had. .
This does not mean stay in toxic situations, NO this means ask yourself what this is teaching you? And grow from the lessons, and forgive, so you can GLOW from the lessons, each time becoming a better version, of the self you were before. .
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