What I love about every harsh experience that I have managed in the past is that it has given me a guideline for how to handle the problems ahead.
By having a further understanding of ourselves & respect for one another we can break free from the chains of vicious repetitious cycles. Cycles pushing what we want a thing to be, from what a thing really is. Dwell on the better aspects of life; on goals, on play, & learn from the misfortunes.
Even if your heartbreaks, let it mend with a new tomorrow. What is meant to be, will be.